2. Be a man, never doubt your life, never compare the happiness of others and complain about how unhappy you are. Ordinary life needs a peaceful mind. Everyone is different. Don't live up to the journey of life, and don't lose yourself in jealousy and envy. In life, there are always defects. Happiness lies in contentment and peace of mind.
Anger is to punish yourself with what others have done wrong. When there are problems in your life, don't be dissatisfied. You don't have to be so miserable. If you are depressed, you have to face it. Whether it is a blessing or a curse, good or bad will pass. Let go of the burden and enjoy life, it is better to bury your head in suffering with the burden; Instead of complaining anxiously about the unfairness of life, it is better to face life with a calm smile.
4. Walking through Qian Shan Wanshui, it is still the most beautiful at this moment; After colorful, it is still dull for a long time; Beyond the hustle and bustle, it is best to be simple. Well, stay in my heart; Unfortunately, it dispersed with the wind. Life can't always be smooth sailing, but if you keep walking towards the sun, the shadow will hide behind you, dazzling, but in the right direction.
5. Slowly, we understood that many people missed it and took away what didn't belong to them, which was very sad. Slowly, we understand that caring too much about other people's feelings often hurts ourselves; Slowly we understand that some people, no matter how good they are to him, will not care because you are not in his heart. Why break your heart for someone who is not worth it?
6. Life is hurt and painful, and the sweetness is more bitter. Every kind of trauma is a kind of maturity, which makes people think, make people strong, and make people know how to cherish. If a person has not suffered too much, it is difficult to have compassion; If a person has never tasted bitterness, it is difficult to know the taste of sweetness. Facing suffering bravely and overcoming it optimistically is also a kind of practice. Without eternal night and winter, suffering will eventually pass, and sunshine will always come after the storm.
7. Leave some space for others and yourself. "the benefits are not available, the blessings are not available, and the situation is inexhaustible." This world is not anyone's world, but everyone's world, so everything should leave room. People often capsize in their vast stomachs. More tolerance, more understanding, more kindness and more hope. Convenient for others, convenient for yourself. You won't despair if others have a way to go.
8. If life is bad to a certain extent, it will get better, because it can't be bad any more. A lot of things, if you stick to it, you will survive. Not everyone is so perfect, but you just don't see it. No matter how hard and tired you are, as long as you persist, your scenery will eventually appear. Life is a long confrontation, some people laugh at the beginning, and some people win at last. Fate doesn't care for anyone, it depends on how long you can chase and how long you persist.
9. People are simple when they are poor and complicated when they are rich; In this life, people are sometimes proud of the spring breeze, but sometimes they are struggling; Sometimes everything goes well, sometimes it hits a wall everywhere, but in any case, we must keep a peaceful heart and face all this indifferently. Only in this way can there be no loss and pain when the situation changes suddenly, and we can laugh at the ups and downs of life.
10. A person's life is doomed to experience a lot. On the road, there are tears of injustice and laughter; On the road, there are ignorant persistence and confidence in harvest; On the way, there are vigilance of failure and joy of success. Every experience is destined to be precious, and the beauty of life comes from having a normal heart. There is no need to panic or be pretentious on the road of life. You can do things in a down-to-earth way and be a simple person, and you will have a sunny day of your own.
1 1. Don't care what others think of you behind your back, make up stories about you and even attack you. People are expensive in the atmosphere, so learn to say to yourself, if this can satisfy you, I am willing to accept it, and please believe that people who really understand you will never deny you because of what they have.
12. People should be contented and not complicated. If the mental load is heavy, they will complain and worry about others. If you are simple, the world is simple for you. A simple life can bring a happy life. Delete your memory regularly and discard unpleasant people and things from your memory. Formatting yourself is deleting you. Zhang Ailing said: Because I have loved, I am merciful; Because you know, you are tolerant.
13. People who look happy have unspeakable pains in their hearts; People who smile often have silent tears in their hearts; People who show off their lives may not be as beautiful as they seem. A person's happiness, only oneself know the happiness of life. So, don't be hard on yourself, don't dwell on other people's comments, and live according to your comfortable feelings. Happiness is like drinking water, and you know it very well. Your happiness is not in the eyes of others, but in your own heart.
14. Take time to hate the person you hate, and you will have less time to love the person you like. Take time to care about things that make you unhappy, and you will have less time to experience things that make you happy. Hate, worry, anxiety and sadness are all brought by others, but time is yours. So saving time is more important than anything else.
15. All the troubles in life are caused by heart disease. What kind of mood, there will be what kind of life. What you see is what you think. If your heart is full of troubles, then what you see is naturally troubles; If your heart is full of happiness, what you see is of course happiness. Open your heart frankly and treat life's many troubles indifferently, and happiness will come uninvited.
16. We are often troubled by the word "dispute", and finally only a selfish heart remains in the vast world. In fact, in life, there can be countless indisputable reasons: more open-minded; Look down on gains and losses; Think more about others, even if it's just a little less arguing, and put aside seemingly important things indifferently, you will find that people's minds will suddenly be enlightened and the world will suddenly become bigger. There is no doubt that life is the best!
17. Life is a never-ending performance. Everyone is an actor, but some people obey themselves and some people please the audience. When you feel tired, maybe you are walking on the uphill road of life. Stick to it and you can reach another height in your life. What kind of gesture you give the world, the world will give you what kind of life. When you encounter things that you can't control, follow the fate, get together with the deep fate, and go with the shallow fate. Life, how much you underestimate, how much pain you stay away from.
18. People are tired because they often hesitate between persistence and giving up. There will always be something worth remembering in life and something that must be given up. Giving up is everyone's attitude towards life problems. The courage to give up is an atmosphere and an open-minded pursuit of another kind of happiness.
19. People are happy when they are simple, but few people are happy. Let go of what should be put down and let your heart relax. The most urgent thing is the most beautiful scenery; No matter how big things are today, tomorrow will be small things; The biggest thing this year, next year is a story; The biggest thing in this life, the afterlife will be a legend. Life is like a journey, with hardships and scenery. Wherever your eyes go, it is your realm of life.
20. Everyone has a hard time. When you get over it, you will feel that the things that killed you at that time, so many situations that you think will not last, will gradually get better. No matter how slow it is, as long as you are willing to persist, it will all become a thing of the past. And those you can't overcome temporarily, those you can't overcome, those you can't stand, those you can't stand, tell yourself that whatever can't kill you will eventually make you stronger.