In my next life, I want to be a man like you, marry a woman like me, and make all the impossible possible.

1.

How many shallow turns are the depth of affection that others cannot understand...

I refused to fall asleep late at night, holding my mobile phone. I kept scrolling and it felt like something was missing.

Oh, it’s you! I have never forgotten, I just pretended not to remember.

I can’t see the news in your Moments, and I have deleted all contact information with you. However, your mobile phone number and your WeChat number are still in the memory and cannot be deleted. I just don’t have the courage to call anymore.

The feeling of emptiness in my heart spreads everywhere...

I check your WeChat avatar and your signature by adding friends over and over again. Looking at the familiar picture, it feels like you are standing in front of me. The feeling of comfort in my heart and the sweetness of the corners of my mouth can no longer be controlled by myself.

Will the humble love bloom into the dust?

Without you in WeChat, what’s the point of posting in Moments? You don’t know, my friend Every circle is written because of you. Because I want you to know every detail of my life, so that you are not only in my heart, but also in my real life.

I don’t know if you care, but I just assume you do.

The years are long and the long nights are drying up, but my heart that misses you has never changed.

2.

You said that you don’t like planting flowers because you are afraid that the petals will fall one by one. Yes, then are you also rejecting the beginning of everything in order to avoid the end of everything?

The more I love you, the more alienated I become. I don’t want you to see that I like you, just because of the real distance between you and me.

First acquaintance is a kind of sweetness, getting along is a kind of addiction. For the sake of our own lives, we have to give up in the face of reality.

Some people say that since we are in love, why can't we be together? Since we can give up, how can we say it is love?

Giving up is not because we don't love, but because we love too much. Afraid that you are a drag, restricting your loved one's bright future; afraid that you can't give to your loved one and want to live that kind of life; afraid that you can't control yourself and keep clinging to the other person, making your loved one feel at a loss and confused. I despise myself for not being independent.

You said that it is difficult to understand your emotions and guess your thoughts.

Sometimes I miss you and am naturally happy to see you; sometimes I struggle with the reality gap between myself and you, and find it difficult to talk to you, for fear that if I say one more word, I will reveal that I am not worthy of you.

Someone else said that there is no such thing as deservingness in love, only whether you like it or not and whether you love it or not.

Yes, only when there is like and love in love can we admit that this is a relationship.

Any relationship that is not for the purpose of marriage is just a hooliganism. Isn’t this what everyone often says?

The purpose of falling in love is to get married because you don’t want to be separated. I'm so afraid of separation, the heartbreaking pain, almost coma.

Fantine in "Les Misérables" changed from a blonde beauty to a prostitute with no hair and teeth for the sake of love. Before she died, she was still thinking about the child she raised alone. That was the child she had with that man, and it was also her only spiritual support.

If you have been hurt, you are afraid of pain, and you are afraid that you will fall in love so much that you cannot control it, and you will spend your whole life to continue a relationship.

With past experiences, I no longer allow myself to waste a life like my own, and how can I dare to invest too much emotion.

3.

In the novel "Jane Eyre", the heroine Jane said: If God gives me beauty and a lot of money, I will make it difficult for you to leave me, just as it is difficult for me to leave you now. Just like leaving you. I am not speaking to you now through the rules of social life and customs, but my soul is speaking to your soul.

Nowadays, many people choose not to get married. In fact, it is not that they do not desire marriage and family. There is just a gap between true love and reality. In a marriage with the wrong family, it is difficult not to have conflicts that are difficult to heal. Because the two sides are not at a parallel point from the beginning, it is difficult to balance.

People often say that a marriage must be well-matched in order to last. This is also a truth that has been verified by people in the world for thousands of years.

Find someone you don’t love, but don’t want to wrong yourself. The high-speed pace of life has overwhelmed us.

If you have to face someone you don’t like during your break, and talk to each other with affection and affection, I think this is not just a nuisance for people who are not in love.

I don’t want to wrong myself, I would rather be alone, and I don’t want to waste time on someone I don’t love, because there is no spring that can make our soul happy.

"I would rather be alone than go against my will; I would rather have regrets than give in. I don’t bother to deal with those who don’t suit my heart."

4.

While you are young, take advantage of this opportunity and try your best to taste all the pain. This kind of thing will not happen anytime in your life.

——Marquez

The hero of "Love in the Time of Cholera" waited for the heroine's love for more than half a century, from the first meeting to the marriage and birth of children, to the death of her husband, and finally they walked together. together.

None of us have the courage to wait like this, but I will always love you even if I leave you. This can be regarded as leaving a little room to relax my mind in the impetuous real life. Maybe many years later, like the hero and heroine, we will end up together!

Although I miss you often now, the thought of you is enough to keep me alive.

Although I know there is no ending with you, I still can’t stop thinking about you. I lied to you and said I didn’t love you, but in fact, I have already merged you with me.

You are in my heart, you are the source of my life power, you are the paradise in my spiritual world, the tower I yearn for, and the starting force of my soul.

You are a dream, an illusion, a blur of half-truth and half-falsehood, and it is hard to give up loving you.

In the circle of friends where you are not around, I even lose the motivation to send WeChat messages...