1. There is only a thin line between you and me in the emotional line of love. We thought we could give each other more love, but in the end we found that you didn’t want anything.

2. When you love someone, love eight points is just right. All expectations and hopes are only seven to eight points, and the remaining two or three points are used to love yourself. If you continue to love more, you are likely to put heavy pressure on the other person, making each other breathless, and completely losing the fun of love. So please remember, don’t be more than 60% drunk when you drink, don’t be more than 70% full when eating, and don’t be more than 80% in love with someone.

3. There is a person in the world who will always think about him when we don’t meet him, but when we meet him he will blush and his heart will beat, and he will be unable to say anything. He always grabs your heart easily and makes you unable to forget him. He also makes you think so much that you can't sleep well, but you are still happy because you love him. He is your sweetest, sweetest load. This person is called a lover.

4. Love is not a game because we can’t afford it. Love means giving sincerely and treating each other sincerely. Don't say love easily, the debt you owe is the promise you made. Love cannot be found when it is lacking, nor can it be replaced when it is tired. To love someone, you don’t necessarily have to own them; but once you own someone, you must love them well. Love is not a one-man show, but a show between two people! Women are fickle with their faces, but men are fickle with their hearts.

5. Flowers are a sweet expression of love at any time. If you have no preparations for the holiday, you must send flowers. A red rose can also nourish our love!

6. I only think of you when I reach a certain intersection; I only think of you when I’m watching a CD; I only think of you when I’m listening to a song. . I don't really miss you, I just think of you when I don't want to.

7. If I said we would never meet again, I would definitely avoid you. Maybe I will see you on the street again, how will you remember me. I will let go of myself, my inhibitions, and my possessed memories. The past is wanted and loneliness invades, just get used to it.

8. Do you often ask if there is true love in the world? Love includes the love of relatives and friends. Maybe the love of relatives will bring you unspeakable helplessness. Because you have been together for too long, love is not as passionate as before, and it doesn't matter how you feel, so it doesn't care what you do. Things aren't that understanding, caring, and supportive, so you feel confused. If you don't love someone, please let them go so that others can have a chance to love them. If the person you love gives up on you, please let go of yourself so that you can have the opportunity to love someone else. Some things will never be yours no matter how much you like them, and some things are destined to be given up no matter how much you linger on them. There are many kinds of love in life, but don’t let love become a kind of harm. You don’t have to own someone to love someone, but you must love someone well if you have someone.

9. In this chasing game, when I am running away, you are chasing me, and when I am chasing you, you are running away. Maybe life is like this sometimes. Believe too much in eternity, and naively believe in how pure love can be constructed from a blank piece of paper.

10. Everyone has a scar in their heart, which is the mark left by the person you love most.

11. Love is a strange thing, fleeting and profound, growing in each other's hearts. The most beautiful story has no ending, the most romantic feeling has no destination, the happiest love has no words, and the deepest love has no space!

12. Fate makes love possible. Love is an unexpected encounter.

13. My dear, in order to wait for you, I have walked across the Naihe Bridge and crossed the Mengpo Soup. I am afraid that I will forget your appearance and I will never let go of that love! You come or not, I am always here, and love is here too! Your smile is like wine, drunk on the world of mortals, drunk on past and present lives, and drunk on the hazy moonlight.

14. True love should be two people who understand each other, respect each other, do not entangle, tie or possess each other, and then accompany each other through a long journey.

If I meet you, I will hold on to you.

15. Love is a truly precious wealth in life, a wealth that can never be too little and never too much. I persist in retaining my supreme love for you because I understand that it is the most beautiful thing I have in this life. For you, I have loved, hated, laughed, and cried sincerely and without regrets, and I have learned to give without reservation. Don’t love someone more than eight points, a very classic quotation

1. The beautiful scenes that touch the heaven and earth, the lingering misty rain in the south of the Yangtze River, swaying in the wind and rain, how can you not let people’s souls wander? Dreams linger. The longing falls into my heart, and the traces of drunkenness float down in the rain, lingering in my heart. At this moment, I just want to gaze deeply and recall your beautiful figure.

2. Find a lover, that will be your last man. The one you love, the one who loves you sincerely, respects your choice, sees through your bravery, is considerate of your loneliness, protects your self-esteem, feels sorry for your fragility, is kind, upright, and well-educated; does not seek to be handsome or rich, just to be handsome. May you have a smart mind and self-motivated spirit.

3. Since I met you, I have become the stingiest person in the world. Because I want your whole-hearted love, I also love you whole-heartedly. I hope that one day you can love me whole-heartedly. .

4. Women who live together think that living together can solidify their love and lead to marriage. This is a big mistake. Women who do not live together have their own jobs, their own pursuits, and a warm circle of friends... Just imagine, how beautiful can a woman without the guarantee of marriage be doing chores of making firewood, rice, cooking oil and fumes all day long?

5. No matter how good a man is, if he doesn’t have time to accompany you, it’s useless. Love cannot quench its thirst by looking at plum blossoms. How much time a man is willing to give a woman is how much he loves her. If you love me, you can spare some time. If you can't find time, you have already made your choice.

6. In the poetic and dreamy season, we are walking along the youthful beat of love. There is no impetuosity, no superficiality, but only the affectionate and firm eyes of each other; no luxury, no dissociation, and some... From the gentleness between fingers.

7. To every girl who believes in love, who believes that good men still exist, who are still unmarried, and who are still looking for you in the vast sea of ??people. Don't say "men are not good at anything" to make others mistakenly think that you have a lot of love. The Bible says: Woman was made from a rib God took from man. Therefore, among the vast crowd, there is always a man who loves you as much as his own life. Because you are part of his body.

8. It turns out that the world of love is very big, big enough to hold a hundred kinds of grievances; it turns out that the world of love is so small that three people can be squeezed into it until it is suffocating; it turns out that the world of love is so big that it can be filled with a hundred kinds of grievances. No matter how much happiness there is, there is still a gap; it turns out that the world of love is very small, and it will turn into ruins if it is stepped on.

9. People often say that "a woman gets married when she has a family." In fact, the same is true for men. Men are naturally eager to take risks, and always feel that what they are getting now is not enough. When they are less than thirty years old, they will be frightened when they talk about marriage. When faced with a girlfriend who urges marriage, they will tremble and reply "I'm not ready yet."

10. It’s a pleasure to throw up the secret love that has been buried deep in my heart for a long time. As for the listener, whether he is happy, sad, regretful or resentful, the complexity in his heart is really difficult to express clearly in words. In the end, both the speaker and the listener had tears in their eyes.

11. You have had innocent dreams since you were a child. You have always believed that life is full of colorful bubbles, and love is one of the biggest and most beautiful bubbles. You will look forward to the arrival of love with joy. You are also persistent in believing that life is incomplete without love.

12. In everyone’s heart, there is such a person living in his heart, whom he loves from afar. We may not be able to be together in this life, we may not have spoken a few words, and we may not have eaten or watched movies together, but it was this distant person who supported the most important and splendid days of our youth.

13. To maintain love, you cannot rely on others, you can only do it yourself.

When we signed the love contract, we also filled out its warranty form. We are not only the makers of love, but also its users and maintainers. Once the love system fails, we can't blame others. We can only learn from the experience to find out the cause and maintain it in time. Remember: only precious things need repairing.

14. You think you understand a person and fall in love with him or her, but when you really understand this person, you have only two choices left, either leave in anger or endure it. The one who chooses patience is true love. So in the final analysis, we all fall in love with people because of beautiful misunderstandings, and we can continue to love because of persistence and patience.

15. You will meet four kinds of people in life: yourself, the person you love the most, the person you love most, the person you spend your whole life with. When you meet the same person, pay attention, you really have to be nice. Cherish it, you are quite lucky. Otherwise, please don't be sad or sad. All you meet are just passers-by.

16. When a woman encourages you when you are in a desperate situation, I don’t regret it, because you said “I am your woman”. Hearing this, you are happy on the surface, but you blame yourself even more on the inside. What a wonderful woman. I think this will become a strange thinking circle in my life. No matter what others do to me, it is myself who I cannot forgive in the end.

17. Love changes life. Two people who are cowardly and encourage each other can create a beautiful life with their own hands. However, a boyfriend can impress his girlfriend with "love", but he cannot impress his mother-in-law with "love". A poor boy is naturally spurned by his mother-in-law.

18. The person you like may not necessarily stay by your side. Only those who love you will stay with you throughout your life. Love is the same for everyone. No one wants to change their heart intentionally. When a person loves you, he really loves you, but when he doesn't love you, he really doesn't love you anymore.

19. I have carefully sketched out the deep affection between you and me. There must be a melancholy between your brows and eyes. However, I can't drive it away no matter what. My smile is only for you. From then on, we were warmly dependent on each other... All my efforts could not escape the emotional catastrophe between you and me.

20. True love can only stand through wind and rain, endure hardships, and have no vows that will last forever, but it can stay together happily for a lifetime. No matter how the environment changes, it can always be the same. You can give everything for your lover. , can withstand the test of the world and the ordinary passing years.

21. My dear, I don’t know how long it’s been since we last met. Last time, you were you and I was me. We looked at each other and smiled. We couldn’t control each other with the fingers of our two hands. How many months have you been up? In recent days, I guess that the completely transparent and childish you appears because you love me.

22. Our meeting was a surprise to me. In that fiery summer last year, the encounter was so simple, everything was as clear as the water in the stream, so much so that we forgot who was looking at whom, and the gentle look back and smile attracted each other tightly.

23. Some people can never be touched again after being separated. Time sets a pattern in our lives, and what we cherish can only be understood after a long period of memories. I really hope to meet you on a warm sunny afternoon. However, if there is no warm sunshine, it would be good to meet.

24. Love is the most unreasonable thing in the world. It is not a reward for hard work, and it is not a 100% reward you can get through hard work and dedication. It is also not a math problem, as long as the calculation method is correct. You will definitely be able to find the right direction and exit and get the right solution.

25. Ex-girlfriends and ex-boyfriends are the most chaotic relationships in the world. If you say it's close, it's closer than anyone else; if you say far, it's farther than anyone else. There is a line that always says: It’s not that the one who is around you is not your favorite, but the one you love the most is no longer around.

26. Walking in those endless years, I watched the wind blow my hair from time to time. Unknowingly, the flowers bloomed and fell for several springs and autumns. The long road of life is filled with you and me. The dusty past events in my heart are swirling in my memory, and my thoughts are wavering, surging into tides, ups and downs.

27. We can meet later. At that time, social experience will give me enough shining points to make you not want to look at others; at that time, life and reality will make me feel that it is stable, making you feel that you have a "home" that you can go on forever. feeling. Until then, then we will fall in love again.

28. Longing for the clinging together for life, the words of the vows are still in my ears, sad and desolate, the source of longing, the years have ruthlessly cut off the painful memories in my heart, the memories of the past life. The remnants, the joy of this life, are all floating in the dust and falling on the catkins.

29. I like you, but I only like the present; I love you, but I love the entire future. If you decide to leave someone, then you have to act faster and cut through the mess quickly; if you decide to fall in love with someone, you need to wait a little longer to see whether he is really suitable for you.

30. I am just a hurried traveler in nature, a hurried passerby in the world, and a hurried dust in the long river of life. I pursue simplicity, romance, and beauty! I just want to discover with my own eyes, feel with my heart, and slowly baptize with my own life!

31. In the world of love, I have nothing and know nothing. In the little station of love, I hope you are the first visitor and the eternal host, accompanying me and pampering you. Me: For the rest of my life!

32. Secretly liking someone is like this. You don’t have to be with him or ask for news about him all the time. If you contact him occasionally, you will feel at ease knowing that he is living a good life. If you like someone, you don't have to live in his heart. It is also a happy thing to let him live in your heart quietly.

33. When you love someone, eight points of love is definitely just right, and the remaining two or three points are used to love yourself. If you continue to love more, you are likely to put heavy pressure on the other person and make each other breathless. So remember, don’t love someone more than eight points.

34. Are you like me, wearing light clothes, walking among chrysanthemums, looking at the moon and embracing the distance; can you feel my water-like thoughts flowing with the moonlight, overflowing between your brows? Wet your eyes? Combing her graying temples with her fingers, a line of hot tears filled her cheeks before she knew it, lamenting the impermanence of the world.

35. Every autumn season, I will sit under the moon and listen to the sound of falling flowers. When I close my eyes, I will think of you. Do you know the pain in my heart? Even if I am a man, I cannot escape the knot of longing. In this life, I am only in the light and darkness, and I can no longer tolerate any woman in my heart. Dating tips for girls: Don’t meet more than twice a week

Dating tips for girls: Don’t meet more than twice a week

Generally speaking, most men fall in love faster than women . Of course, they can pull away faster than women. At the beginning of a relationship, they usually want to see you two or three times a week, and some even want to see you every day. If you can't control it and keep meeting with them every time, eventually, they will lose their patience, lose their temper at every turn, and never call you again. Sometimes they will act moody, and may say: Well, I don’t know what’s going on. There's been a lot going on here recently.

If you don’t want to put a lot of pressure on a man all at once, it’s best not to meet more than twice a week in the first month or two of dating. Let him feel that you have other plans, that you have a spare tire, that he is not the only man in your life, or the only one you are interested in. We sometimes hear someone say that she met a very good man and stayed with him every day. We think: Gee, this is not going to end well. Women should be calm and impatient when they are in love. Never expect a man to do this.

We know this is sad. If you meet a man with whom you are attracted to each other, you will want to see him all the time. This is human nature. You want to know everything about him, such as his favorite color, his past love history, what he likes to eat for breakfast, etc.

So if he invites you out all at once on Saturday night, to brunch on Sunday, to dinner on Monday night, and then to a movie, you won’t be able to resist. However, girls must let him be rejected at this time! Don't let him see you so easily. Men like sports and playing games, such as football, tennis, blackjack, and poker, because they like challenges. In this case, let them challenge!

Don’t forget, the rules are not static. In the first few months of dating, you can see him once a week, but in the second month, you can see him two or three times. , and by the third month, you can see him three or four times. But before getting engaged, don't meet more than four times a week. You have to make a man feel that if he wants to see you every day, he has to marry you home. Even if you really want to spend more time with him, even if you have already decided in your heart that he is the one for you, you have to say no to extra dates unless you wait until the happy moment when he proposes to you.

Let’s give an example. At the end of the first or second date, he kisses you affectionately and says: By the way, what do you want to do tomorrow? You should say in a sweet voice: I'm sorry, I already have arrangements. At this time, you have to hold on, even if the cologne smell he left on your neck makes you dizzy. Of course, you don't have to tell him about your plans, and don't invite him to join you.

If a man falls in love with you and wants to marry you into his family in the future, he will never hate the relationship pattern you set at the beginning of the relationship, which means that he can only see you once or twice a week. . We found that men who only want to play with you or have sex with you will be angry and impatient. If such a man talks sweetly and says he wants to marry you, you have to be patient. This happens all the time. We call it love standard operating procedure (standard.perati.npr.cedure).

On a first date, this kind of man might point to a restaurant and say: This is the place where my dad proposed to my mom. It makes you long for the day when he will propose to you there. Maybe, he will also talk about the future. For example, he will say this: Let's go to Connecticut together in the summer, and I will take you to a place where the seafood is very delicious. At this time, you have long been confused by what he said, and you feel that this man has already begun to imagine your future life for you. Of course, this may be true, and he may call you again to ask you out. However, it could also be a ploy on his part to get you into bed on the first or second date.

If you fall for his sweet talk and see him every night that week because you think he is serious about you, he may take you out a few times and sleep with you, but then he may He will never call you again, or worse, he may continue to date you. But in the end, you will just watch as he gradually loses interest in you. (It’s painful to see someone stop loving you!) If you follow the precepts, take your time, let him gradually get to know you, and finally really fall in love with you, then the drama of starting a mess and finally giving up will never happen. occur.

The commandment is to make it difficult for men to chase you so easily, so that men who don’t really like you won’t waste each other’s time. Therefore, you must abide by the commandments, it is for your own good. We can only meet once or twice a week at most.

Don’t rush into bed or engage in other intimate gestures. When is the right time to go to bed? It depends on your age and personal feelings. If you are only 18 and still a virgin, wait until you are in a relationship.

If you are already 39 years old, just wait a month or two. Of course, if you are firmly opposed to premarital sex, you can wait until after marriage. If he loves you, he will definitely respect your decision.

On a first date, men tend to be impatient, which is human nature. But it's your responsibility to prevent them from succeeding so quickly.

For example, on a first date, you can let him kiss you politely, but don't go any further. Let him click until he stops, so that he won't think of you as a sex partner. If you want to have a serious relationship with him, he must fall in love with you wholeheartedly, not just interested in your body. So, the less physical contact the better. Besides, if you don't want to get into a heated fight with him so quickly, then you can move freely.

We know that following this commandment is not easy, especially when the person you are dating is a rich, handsome man who drives a sports car at speed and kisses you every time he stops at a red light. Moreover, his kissing skills are also very good. At this time, you will wonder what else he is good at. But you have to warn yourself: the commandments tell us not to kiss him casually on the first date. Never invite him to your apartment.

Don't let him touch you. If you really can't control it anymore, end the date as soon as possible so that you won't do something you regret. If he is still interested in you, let him call you and ask you back later.

Some men may make you think they are too old-fashioned and prudish. Some men may also make fun of you or even get angry about it. At this time, you should tell him in a nice way that if they don't like this, then just leave! If a man pushes you too hard, then it’s okay not to date someone like this. Keep telling yourself that some women spoil men by sleeping with them on the first date, but you're a disciplined girl and you won't rush it. If he really likes you, he will respect the boundaries you set. If he is a humble gentleman, he will definitely respect the tone you set during physical contact and will never force you to do anything.

Never use the open and free sex theory as a shield. Besides, if you get pregnant unexpectedly or contract any disease, you will lose more than you gain.

As we explained before, you should talk about politics, real estate, and good movies, not marriage, kids, relationships, ex-boyfriends or ex-girlfriends, and not about sex positions. The conversation should be passionate and not sexual, so you don't end up having sex with him after dessert.

If you also want to have a relationship with him, it may be difficult for you to resist such temptation. Does this mean you can sleep with him on the first two dates? Unfortunately, the answer is also no. You should probably be more self-disciplined and pay more attention to your character and cultivation. I believe that if you persist for a few more weeks or months, you will definitely be able to see the moon. Why would you take a risk and let him tell his buddies in the locker room that you are a flirtatious woman (at least he will think so of you)? Instead of letting him chase other girls, it is better to make him angry and find a way Seduce you on the second date. Before you are finally ready to go to bed with him, you have to stretch him, arouse his desire, and get him to invest more emotionally.

We know that if you really like that person, it can be hard to restrain yourself from sleeping with him, but you have to take the long view. If you use the right method, after you get married, you can have sex with him every night!

However, you may object and say that you didn’t mind sleeping with him on the first two dates, that you would rather take the risk, and that it doesn’t matter if he stops calling because we are all adults. . Of course, in our experience, most girls who say this are just lying to themselves. If a woman really goes to bed with a man and the man never calls her again, the woman will definitely feel sad deep down.

If a woman really likes that man, she hopes that the man who has slept with her will call her again. All the women we know say that it's okay if a man doesn't call after sex, but not if he doesn't call. If you sleep with someone on the second date, you may not even know who they are. A girl who follows the commandments takes no chances. We will get to know each other before we go to bed with him.

Let’s talk about the situation now, say, you’ve been holding on for a while and you’re ready to sleep with him. What kind of rules should be followed in bed at this time? The most important thing is that no matter how passionate you are in bed, you must control your emotions. In fact, many women turn off men's enthusiasm mainly because they are too nagging in bed. Some women like to use physical closeness to gain emotional closeness, security, and assurance of the future. Never think of yourself as an instructor in bed, ordering men around. You have to trust that keeping you will be both fun and satisfying if you relax and let him explore your body like it's uncharted territory. Sleeping with you should be a natural outcome. Don't bring anything else, such as red light bulbs or scented candles to brighten the atmosphere, or even porn. If you have to use these things to get him excited, there's something wrong. Wouldn't it get him high if he slept with you?

After enjoying wonderful sex and snuggling up in bed, don’t say this: Do you want me to make some room in the locker to put your clothes?

Don’t say: I have a toothbrush in the bathroom for you. Don't talk about marriage, kids, or your future together in bed (or even out of bed).

Remember, this is just your wishful thinking. The precepts advocate a selfless lifestyle and handle the love relationship between two people in a selfless way. When men are excited, they just want to lie quietly next to the person they like. Women are more curious and want to know more: Now that we've had sex, how will this relationship develop? Or you want to know: What does the behavior just now count? Such thoughts will linger in your mind, and the desire to have this man will become stronger and stronger. All you have to do is try to relax and not think about anything.

If he wants to leave that night or the next morning, don't stick to him.

At the end of the date. You have to treat it with a normal mind and stay calm. With such an attitude, the other person will pester you. Don't initiate it, don't suggest having brunch in bed or donuts and coffee in an attempt to keep him a little longer. If you do that, he'll probably run to the nearest coffee shop for breakfast.

You should do your own thing quietly: comb your hair, brush your teeth, do sit-ups, do stretching exercises, and make coffee. At this time, he is likely to massage your shoulders and want to linger again. Or suggest a nice place to eat.

However, if you have been dating a man for a month or two and have no plans to sleep with him, then of course you should let him know. Otherwise, he might feel like you're toying with him. But what if you want sex more than he does?

The answer given by the precepts is: If you don’t want to feel insecure, it’s best not to take the initiative to have a relationship with him. When he falls madly in love with you and you establish a relationship, you can occasionally mention it as a joke.

Finally, I would like to emphasize that you must wear a condom when sleeping with a man. If the other party says: Isn’t it okay if I don’t wear it just this time? Don't give in either. Remember, you are a girl who follows the commandments and you are responsible for yourself. A must-read love talk in 2021: To love someone, seven points is enough, and the remaining three points are to love yourself

1. Going to your city and blowing the wind you blow, does it count as embracing each other.

2. The most sad thing is that he is still ambiguous with you even though he clearly has no feelings for you.

3. Don’t bother people who don’t care about you. Don’t lose your smile and dignity.

4. If you leave, don’t come back. I thank you for not asking for my kindness. If you don’t want me, others will want me.

5. The soft whisper in my ear is you, and the hoarse voice is also you. It’s you who loves me, and you’re the one who leaves me. It was you who had been together for two or three years, and now it is you who have no contact with each other until death.

6. I am not afraid that you will go out to eat, drink, whore and gamble, nor am I afraid that you will owe 350 million yuan. I am just afraid that the person you take with you when you run away in the end is not me.

7. When it comes to love later on, you will know how to protect yourself first, and you will never dare to be so reckless and reckless again.

8. To love someone, seven points is enough, and the remaining three points should be loved by yourself.

9. I always feel that there is no need to say some things. For example, I love you. Three lines is too long, but a lifetime is too short.

10. There is no such thing as an equal relationship. I just hope that you can love me as much as I love you.

11. I love you, I have always loved you, but after you leave, I occasionally like others, when they are like you.

12. When it comes to feelings, it’s nothing more than that. You’ve seen him at his sloppiest side, but in the end he walked away so cleanly. You have seen how serious he is, and how serious he is in the end.

13. You may love many people, but only one person can make you laugh the brightest and cry the saddest.

14. Stop thinking about meeting the right person all day long. The right person is not something you "meet", but depends on us knowing how to get along with each other when we enter different lives. character.

15. If a person really likes you, he will always be towards you no matter what you do. We Northeasterners call this partiality, and those who have studied say this is love.