In my point of view, many things are not born, but are always acquired through hard work. It is said that people who write beautifully must also be particularly beautiful. This is a joke, but words are still very important in our lives.
Nowadays, many parents like to enroll their children in many elective classes since they were young. From the time they become sensible, they send them to learn dance, martial arts, etc. Many parents also send their children to these courses. Learn calligraphy and painting.
Innateness is a very mysterious thing. Many things may only be regarded as a bit of talent, but they definitely cannot be said to be innate. For example, many people feel that they are too stupid when learning this thing, but is it really because they are too stupid, or because they have not worked hard at all. In fact, most of the time, it’s all in your own mind. You want to gain something without working hard. You don’t see the process of other people’s efforts at all, so you just comment on other people’s success. And you are always jealous of others, but forget to improve yourself.
I worked part-time as a part-time teacher at a calligraphy center near the school. I have relatively few classes, so I still have time to manage these children's calligraphy practice. There are many children in this institution, large and small, and the small one is like a kindergarten. Some parents leave directly after sending them, and then their children cry while practicing. These children are not born good at writing, they have been practicing since they were young.
A classmate of my former junior high school. At that time, my handwriting was almost the same, neither too ugly nor beautiful. After high school, we were not in the same school, and they had special calligraphy classes. At first, I didn't feel anything, but they had practice every week, and then one time I looked at his notes. You really don’t know it until you look at it, but you’ll be really shocked when you look at it. His handwriting is completely different from before. It has become more stylish, making people like his handwriting at first sight. So, I just feel that everything can be practiced. Especially for things like calligraphy, if you insist on practicing every day, it will eventually be effective.
There is also a relative in our family who teaches Chinese and has beautiful handwriting. There is no problem for him to teach his children by himself, but he chooses a more professional teacher to teach his children. Originally, his child's handwriting was pretty good, but others still sent him to practice calligraphy every week since he was a child.
Another time, I consulted a classmate who was good at calligraphy and asked him if he had practiced calligraphy before. He directly said that he has been practicing calligraphy for many years. He has been learning brush calligraphy since he was a child, and he still practices pen calligraphy all the time. Really, nothing can be obtained naturally. It all requires personal efforts. Only by paying can you gain something. Not everyone has talent, all you need is to work hard and work hard.