There are many kinds of doors, including ordinary doors and room doors. They all play a role in people's lives. But the most important thing is: the door to the soul. Reality is this shore, ideal is the other shore, and there is a rushing river in between. Facing the door of the soul, some people shut themselves in, while others open it to the outside world. They all have their own reasons. The former thinks: "I only read the books of sages and don't hear anything outside the window" is my life principle. Doing my own thing silently without anyone interfering is the best way to live. Silence is my personality. The latter thought: "The world is peaceful and everyone has responsibilities" is my life principle. Positive thinking and mutual discussion are the best ways to live. Facing life with a smile is my personality. The former tend to be solitary, indifferent to worldly affairs, and have no idea what is happening outside. They are tightly closed in their personal world and have few friends. One of our colleagues is this kind of person. After finishing his work every day, he hides in his room and does not want to talk about unhappy things or happy things. He is silent every day. His friends go to talk to him. But he ignored it. Some things had to be reported to the company after they were done, but he was nowhere to be seen; he refused to implement the newly changed system in the company because he didn't know about it; when the leader asked him about the situation, he thought the leader was blaming him. , and while talking, he fell out with the leader. As a result, the boss and other colleagues did not know what he was doing or thinking throughout the day, and it was difficult to communicate with him, so no one paid attention to him, and later he was fired. The latter tend to care about world affairs, use their own unique ideas and adopt other people's good opinions, change themselves and update their ideas with the trend of development. Take another colleague next to me as an example. He talks and laughs every day. When he encounters some troubles, he always comes to ask us for advice and tells us his thoughts. He never keeps secrets. We joke with him: "You Are you not afraid that we will leak these secrets of yours?" He said: "I am afraid that if you leak it, I will not tell you. Open the door of your heart, don't be afraid of this or that, tell you and let you help me share my difficulties. It can be easy." He is also very upright and says what he wants to say. He also puts forward good opinions and suggestions to the company from time to time, which plays a great role in the company. Therefore, the company promoted him to a supervisor. See, this is the difference between the former and the latter. Because the former closed his heart tightly and was unwilling to share his troubles and happiness with others, and was unwilling to tell others his thoughts, many of his talents were buried and he missed the opportunity to become a talent. More importantly, he was very unhappy and never had real happiness. And because the latter opened that door, he lived a very happy life, was appreciated by the company, and had more friends. Therefore, we should open that door. Open that door and you will find that life is really wonderful and you will learn things that you don’t have yourself. You will know what true happiness is and make more and better friends.

In short, you will find that everything is changing!