1. Only when you have cultivated yourself, others will kiss you. This is called "those who are near are happy, and those who are far away come." I am a buttonwood, and the phoenix will come to live; I am the sea, and all rivers will come back. Only at that level will there be a corresponding circle, not the other way around.

2. I wish you become such a woman: don't show off, don't quarrel, and be a knowledgeable woman; Not empty, not impetuous, be a rich woman; Even if life is exhausted, it will grow old in elegance.

3. Be a man, not seeking wealth, but seeking a clear conscience; Do not seek perfection, but seek no regrets. If people are indifferent, they will not be so tired. If the heart is clear, it is not afraid of rainy days. People only live once, don't be too tired.

Everyone will have low tide and frustration. It's up to you to choose whether to face it positively or negatively, but I don't think it's necessary to push yourself to the wall, which will only make you worse. You should learn to turn properly and get out of the predicament.

It took people two years to learn to talk, but it took 60 years to learn to shut up. Many times, the more you talk, the more estranged you become, and the more contradictions you have … two years to learn to speak, and a lifetime to learn to shut up. Do you understand, don't say much; Uneasy and calm, speak slowly; If you really have nothing to say, don't say it.

6. If you are bright, the world will not be dark; If you have hope, the world will not be completely desperate; What can the world do to you if you don't give in?

7. Most things don't matter after you figure it out, but after you don't care, you suddenly figure it out.

No matter what you have to face today, since you have reached this point, stick to it and give yourself some affirmation. You are stronger than you think.

9. What you waste today is the tomorrow that the people who died yesterday expected. What you hate now is the future you can't go back to. Time is cruel, cherish the people in front of you.

10. Don't rely on someone easily, it will become your habit. When parting comes, what you lose is not someone, but your spiritual pillar. No matter when and where, learning to walk independently will make you walk more calmly.

1 1. Life experience tells you that no matter how beautiful a woman is, she will be lost at the moment when you reach out for money. You must have something that others can't take away, an independent mind, an independent economy and an independent personality. Only pay will be rewarded. Never envy others. Only you are the protagonist in your life.

12. People who are hot and cold never insist and never stay. He has the ability to let go easily, so I lost my temper and turned to leave.

13. You hate some people, you don't like some things, you don't have to shout, resist or slander, you just have to choose to cut off contact with them. Just like sailing in the sea, we don't need to know every reef, just go deep and don't touch it.

14. Don't cling to things that make you miserable, and don't think about the past that you can't go back. Some things, the sooner you give up, the better the future.

15. If a woman can clearly distinguish the priorities of all things in life, what is worthwhile and what is not, then she is definitely a wise woman and can have a happy woman.

16. Don't be shy to refuse others. Anyway, those who are embarrassed to embarrass you are not good people.

17. Time will tell us that simple love lasts the longest, ordinary company is the most reassuring, and people who know you are the warmest.

18. In the most ordinary life, humility and hard work. One day, you will stand in the brightest place and live the life you once longed for.

19. The coolest time for girls is to enjoy themselves when they are studying, and to enjoy themselves when they see excellent people, and not to despise those who are down and out. She has her own small life, small interests, striving for heights, focusing on herself when no one loves her, and being able to hug each other when someone loves her.

There is no need to find fault with the setbacks in life. Everything is nothing more than your innocence meeting the reality of society. Prejudice is better than understanding, complaining is better than letting go.