Convey your blessings to the other party - basic etiquette for participating in wedding and engagement ceremonies * Respond immediately after receiving the invitation. After receiving the invitation, call or reply immediately to The other party, don't forget to say "congratulations" first, and then tell whether you are attending or not, so that the other party can know the correct number of attendees. *Congratulations should be written on the gift bag. There are many types of red envelopes. Marriage is a major event in a person's life and must be grand and luxurious, so don't forget to write blessings. *The amount of gift money depends on the situation. In Shanghai, the amount of gift money for office workers is between 500 and 1,000 yuan, and it must be an even number. The even number symbolizes the blessing of the pair. The most taboo is 4 (death) and 9 (bitterness). The number of gift money is It is best if the banknotes are new. *Wear luxurious and bright clothing. Red is the most flattering color, and soft pink is also a good choice. Try to wear luxurious and bright clothing to attend, but it must not be more sharp than the bride. Try to avoid wearing white clothes, because white represents the bride on that day; if you wear dark colors, it is best to embellish them with small accessories to avoid being too heavy. When wearing ordinary clothes: ① Try to wear a suit or dress, not too casual. ②Short skirts, knee-length skirts or long skirts have different styles, and they are all the best clothing for weddings. ③ Shoes and bags should match the style of the clothes, preferably of the same color. When wearing a small dress: ① Pearl jewelry is elegant and noble, very suitable for weddings. A strapless dress paired with a scarf or accessories is a wise choice. ②It is a small hand-held leather bag that can be placed on the seat, which is very convenient. ③Shoes should match the clothes. *Commonly used blessings and greetings for the newlyweds, the union of heaven and earth, the union of hearts, the eternal union of one heart, the good union of one hundred years, the love of the couple, the marriage of a hundred years, the good moon, the perfect match, the coincidence of heaven, the happy marriage, the man, the talented woman, the appearance, the same virtue, the same mood, the perfect marriage, the marriage, the engagement, the conclusion of a good marriage, the third life, the beginning of a family. A perfect match, auspicious marriage, a white wedding, a happy marriage, a mandarin duck oath, a lifelong alliance, a good marriage, a lifelong marriage, the key points to pay attention to on the day of the wedding banquet, so that you can be decent and respectable * Arrive half an hour in advance to attend the wedding banquet, arrive half an hour in advance, And you need to tidy up your appearance and don't rush there, otherwise it will be very rude. Give the gift bag to the reception staff in front of the reception counter and sign a congratulations. *If you will be late or leave early, please inform the other party in advance. If you will be late or leave early due to something, please inform the other party in advance. If you are late, do not enter the venue on your own. It is best to ask the receptionist to show you in. If you want to leave early, it is best to wait until all the guests have finished their speeches. When leaving, you don’t need to say hello to the bride and groom, but you need to say hello to the people sitting at the same table on both sides. *In front of the reception counter, say some words of congratulations first. ①Congratulate the relatives of the newlyweds first, state their names, and say thank you for their hospitality. ②Hand the gift bag face up to the other party, and say some blessings by the way. ③Sign in the signature book. If the husband and wife attend together, write the husband's name first and then the wife's name. *Listen carefully to the speeches. The period between the start of the wedding banquet and the toast is the speeches of the matchmaker and guests. Listen to the speech quietly and don't make any noise. *When you sit down, greet the people sitting next to you first. If the people at your table are strangers, you should also show a cheerful mood. Before you sit down, introduce yourself to your tablemates so you don't look awkward, but don't make yourself too pushy. * Remember to clap at the end of the speech. Eat while listening to the speech, but remember to put down your tableware and clap at the beginning and at the end. If someone at the same table comes to the stage to give a speech, try not to eat and listen attentively. Emergency measures Q: What should I do if I am suddenly unable to attend? A: You had agreed to attend, but were unable to attend due to something unexpected. You must inform the other party immediately and let them know that you are unable to attend. You can also find an agent to attend. The agent should be a friend of both parties, and ask the agent to deliver the gift money on your behalf. Q: Do I need to give gift money even if I don’t attend? A: Even if you don’t attend the wedding banquet, you still need to give a gift.

Give it directly to the other party before the ceremony or mail it to the other party. It is rude to just give a gift bag. Remember to write some words of congratulations on it. Q: What should I do if I am suddenly invited to give a speech? A: This is a wedding occasion, so I can’t refuse. First, congratulate the couple and their families, say "congratulations", then introduce yourself and say some good words to bless the couple. It only takes 2 to 3 minutes. Q: What should I do if I find out that the other person is married after the wedding is over? A: Although I was not invited to attend, I knew about the fact that my friend was getting married, so I had to call to congratulate him first. You can send gifts or gifts, but newlyweds may be very busy, so you can wait 1 to 2 weeks after the wedding to send them.

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