I saw a netizen's signature: reaching for the stars, even in vain, will not waste time. ....
A sour word, a sentimental word, but also brings out a philosophy. I don't know how others understand it. My understanding is: if you do noble things, even if you don't succeed, the result will not be bad.
I remember watching a Flash short film "Star Picking" a long time ago, and there was a dialogue in it: Reaching for the star may not be as you wish, but it won't get your hands dirty. This story is about a love story, with the hero starring the heroine. The story is quite Korean film style. Although the ending is not a happy ending that everyone likes, it will touch our nerves and make us deeply moved.
Speaking of "reaching for the stars", I can't help thinking of "giving away roses". I don't know: give someone a rose and leave a lingering fragrance in your hand. Is it similar to "reaching for the stars", but these two sentences inadvertently reveal a relationship between gain and loss, and gain is gain, and gain is loss. In fact, everything we do revolves around gains and losses, but the difference in gains and losses can also be said to be the difference in mentality, which leads to different perspectives on gains and losses. How to treat the problem of gain and loss is a question worth pondering. We are not Zhuang Zhou who can't travel like him, nor is Xu Zhimo romantic and free and easy, so we can't reach it. I was lucky to get it. No, my life. The transcendence of self. We are just ordinary people, and it is inevitable that we will struggle with gains and losses, toss and turn, and stay with each other for life.
Without a good understanding of gains and losses, people will be very painful in real life and will fall into physical and mental fatigue and trouble every day! In fact, we should always have the feeling of "reaching for the stars" and "giving away roses". Although we can't achieve Zhuang Zhou's detached and carefree life, we won't lose all our happiness and ourselves. As long as we can adjust our mentality, we can watch the flowers bloom in front of the court, travel around with the clouds, and control the value of gains and losses, then we will be happier and more satisfied, and stay away from more.
Reach for the stars, be happy or not, care about a heart!