It means "throw a peach and repay a pear". When getting along with others, attitude determines everything. Be a polite and sincere person. People who look down on me must stay away. People who look up to me will cherish me even more. What is valued is caring, and what is disgusted is deliberate thinking.

I originally thought that if you respect others, others will respect you. But later I discovered that this was simply impossible. Some people will never respect you. In their eyes, there is no such word as respect. This is a matter of character and upbringing. Your respect and compromise will only become reasons for him to act arrogantly. He will not be grateful to you, and he will only take advantage of you. So I have learned now to respect those who deserve your respect.

Respect is not the same as respect. The former is obviously more restrictive than the latter. Respect does not include right and wrong. It is about using pure reason to view individual life and viewpoints. I respect you, but I don’t have to like you. It’s just personal likes and dislikes.

When dealing with people, attitude determines everything. If you are polite to me, I will be polite; if you are unreasonable to me, I will not leave any room. A good temper does not mean having no temper, it means not losing one's temper easily.

Quotations about interpersonal communication

1. If a person abandons his loyal friends, it is equivalent to abandoning his most precious life.

2. Be a person first and do things later. Only by being a person well can you succeed in doing things.

3. Do not have money transactions with friends, and do not lend money to friends. If you lend money to others, just like Mr. Hu Shi, if I borrow it, I will not ask for repayment. There is no money exchange between people, which makes our interpersonal relationships more successful.

4. While compromising, you must also adhere to your most basic principles.

5. Persist in saying good things about others behind their backs, and don’t worry that the good things won’t reach the ears of the person involved.

6. Friendship is two hearts treating each other sincerely, rather than one heart beating another heart.

7. If you don't like someone, you can respond with a silent smile; if you like someone, just do whatever you want, because your love will be revealed unstoppably.

8. Happiness is the most important. Who, what, and what makes you happy, you should be with them. If something makes you unhappy, leave him. If there are no conditions, you will leave him even if you create conditions.