One of the female job applicants said: "If I met Meng Wanzhou, I would greet her very excitedly and then introduce myself, such as hello, Miss Meng, you are so charming... After she answered, the interviewers laughed without saying a word and let her leave.
Later, a male job applicant replied: "If I met Meng Wanzhou, I would introduce myself to her first, then take a photo with her and ask her for an autograph, take it home and put it on the The most conspicuous position to motivate myself."
This answer did not satisfy the interviewer, and the job seeker left in frustration.
The third interviewer was a young man born in the 1990s. He answered confidently: "First of all, I will introduce myself to Ms. Meng, and then take the initiative to talk to her about topics that she has something to say, looking for* **Same language, for example, are you excited to be back in the arms of your motherland? What are your feelings during this period of wandering? What are your next plans? ...I believe Ms. Meng may hear these questions? Will continue chatting with me."
As soon as the young man born in the 1990s finished speaking, the interviewers nodded with satisfied smiles. In the end, he passed the interview and became a member of this company. part of.
In fact, during the interview, the interviewer not only tests our business ability, but more importantly, tests our emotional intelligence and speaking skills. After all, no boss would want his employees to be embarrassed because of their speaking. Talk about dirty business. At this time, whoever can talk better will be able to go further in the workplace.
It can be seen that being able to speak in the workplace is a very important lesson! The most effective criterion for measuring a person's emotional intelligence is his ability to express himself.
Many people feel that if they have worked hard for a year, it is not as good as someone else to go on stage and make a speech. This shows that today’s society is about working hard all year round, which may not be worth a meeting. The talking mouth.
Whether it is in life or work, speaking is an art and a knowledge. If you are good at eloquence and have high emotional intelligence, you will be welcomed wherever you go. Therefore, when we change the way we speak, we may have unexpected effects!
No matter what your occupation is, speaking is the most cost-effective skill. If you want to improve your emotional intelligence and speaking skills, the editor recommends that you read these three books.
"The Three Skills of Eloquence" uses actual cases in real life to focus on nine items of emotional intelligence to improve your communication skills, teach you how to speak and do things, handle difficult interpersonal relationships, and easily handle conflicts with leaders and colleagues. relation.
As a human being, if you don’t want to “lose on your words” and if you don’t want to suffer the “loss of being dumb”, you might as well read this book and use a clever mouth to create wealth. Why not?