When Han Xin was a child, he didn't have a proper job and often went hungry. A washerwoman (floating mother) pitied him and often gave him food. Later, when Han Xin became a general, he didn't forget the kindness of his wandering mother, and he paid a lot of money in return.
This is the lesson that a hungry meal is worth a thousand dollars.
The author has a poem:
A wanderer travels thousands of miles, and a hungry meal is worth a thousand dollars.
If he meets a pioneer in 2008, it is worth taking tea and rice for a ride.
In other words, giving when others need it most is very different from giving when others have it. At this time, the feelings of the other party are hard to buy.
Liu Bang escaped from a peerless beauty.
On one occasion, Liu Bang lost the battle, rode away alone and spent the night in a farmhouse. The old man in this family is a hermit. He can visit fortune-teller. Seeing Liu Bang's big ears, he must be a noble man, so he dedicated his beautiful daughter to Liu Bang for accommodation. When Liu bang was in trouble, getting this beautiful woman was like being hungry, and he couldn't put it down. He couldn't wait to win the battle in the future and must pick up his father and daughter. Liu bang did not break his word, and later took them away, making this woman the wife of Qi, second only to her position. Emotionally, his affection for Mrs. Qi far exceeds.
Zhu Yuanzhang's Pearl Jade White Jade Soup
Zhu Yuanzhang once lost the battle and ran away to meet a beggar woman. She was so hungry that she ate the leftovers and boiled soup given by the beggar woman and thought it was delicious. Zhu Yuanzhang asked what kind of soup it was, and the beggar woman said, this is pearl jade white jade soup. In fact, pearls refer to leftovers, jadeite refers to green vegetables, and white jade refers to cabbage. Later, when Zhu Yuanzhang became emperor, he still couldn't forget the kindness of the old woman and asked the courtiers to accompany him to eat "Pearl Jade White Jade Soup". Courtiers have to say delicious. Twelve stick monks in Shaolin Temple saved the Tang King.
Li Shimin, Emperor Taizong of Tang Dynasty, was hunted down by the enemy and saved by the twelve stick monks of Shaolin Temple, so there was the later Hong Kong feature film Shaolin Temple. Li Shimin didn't forget his kindness to eat with an empty stomach. Later, Shaolin Temple monks were licensed to drink and eat meat. This is the so-called: wine and meat pass through the intestines, and the Buddha pays attention.
Mencius: Saving the People from Fire and Water
Mencius Teng Wengong: "Save the people from fire and water." When the people are in trouble, whoever rises to overthrow tyranny, such as Shang Tang and Zhou Wenwang, will win the support of the people. "He is the Savior of the People" reflects the feelings of Yan 'an people towards Mao Zedong oppressed by three mountains.
Saving a life is better than building a seven-level pagoda. Anyone who saves lives, saves lives, and saves lives will be rewarded by the rescued.
Jack London is hungry for the washerwoman.
In Jack London's autobiographical novel Martin Eden, the hero Martin Eden quit his job as a sailor and decided to write a novel. He has written many novels and can't be published. His girlfriend Ross doesn't understand the meaning of his creation. Martin Eden was so poor that he had to do odd jobs with a laundromat girl. His girlfriend's father forced Ross to break up with Martin Eden. The washerwoman likes reading novels. After reading Martin Eden's novel, she couldn't put it down, so she told Martin Eden to stop working and let him continue writing. She would take care of his dinner. Like Han Xin, Martin Eden was so grateful to meet his wandering mother. Later, Martin Eden published a short article "The Philosophy of the Sun" in a newspaper, which became famous in one fell swoop. The publisher came to snap up novels that he could not publish before. From then on, he became rich, his social status rose, and more people invited him to dinner. At this time, Ross's father encouraged Ross to get back together with Martin Eden and invited him to dinner. Ross sat in Martin Eden's arms, and Martin Eden was indifferent. He said that when I had no food, no one gave me the most common food; Now that there are many banquets, what's the use of inviting me to dinner? After all, Ross lost the love of Martin Eden.
Amir: I was thirsty for a mouthful of water.
There was a gold rush in California, USA, and armel, a farmer aged 17, tried his luck. The gold mine has a dry climate and water resources are extremely scarce. People looking for gold are thirsty. People often complain: "Damn it, whoever gives me a glass of water, I will give him a gold coin." Amor listened to his heart and made up his mind. Instead of looking for a gold mine, he looked for a water source, made a filtering device, turned the water into drinkable water and hid it with branches. Then, he accompanied the people looking for gold mines with water on his back and sold them water to drink. So he made a fortune quickly. Bring thousands of gold coins back to invest in other businesses.
Send charcoal to your door on snowy days-provide help in time
It snows heavily. When people are cold and can't keep warm, whoever sends charcoal and coal must be very popular. This extension means helping others, which has the same effect as starving.
Song Fan Chengda's "Sending Charcoal to Mustard Skin in Snow": "Sending Charcoal in Snow is not necessarily a matter of talking about scenery and poetry."
Zhou Mingjuan's "West Lake II: Recognizing that Emperor Dongyue was planted in Shandong": "Wang, the son of Wang, is a snob. When he saw his brother-in-law demoted, he was frivolous ... Exactly: only icing on the cake, then he has already given charcoal in the snow? "
Yu in the mirror from the media: "People are weak, the world is cold, they just like icing on the cake. Who wants to send charcoal in the snow? " Need is hunger and thirst, desire is need: choose the target fighter
According to the theory of American psychologist Maslow, people have five levels of needs, the first is the basic needs of survival such as diet, breathing, sex, heating and accommodation; Second, it needs security, peace, order, insurance, fairness, law and its implementation; Thirdly, it is the need of socialization, which requires a sense of belonging to the group and relatives and friends; Secondly, psychological needs, including appreciation of nature and art, including others' understanding, friendship, trust, praise and love for themselves; The highest level is the need of self-realization and the experience of creation.
Therefore, when people's needs in a certain aspect are not met, they will feel thirsty. At this time, whoever can meet their needs will be welcomed, supported or make money.
This gave birth to a fighter plane that chose its target. Do you want to do something? What career goals would you choose? According to people's experience, the author summed up the principle of choosing goals in four sentences and sixteen words:
I can do it if the social needs are not met.
No matter what occupation you are engaged in, you will not succeed without one of these four things. Emotional needs: when is the best time for you to express your love? When he (she) is most lonely, he (she) needs understanding, comfort and companionship most; When his career is frustrated and he needs support and encouragement, he may make a comeback; When he (or she) encounters misfortune for some reason; When he is in trouble and needs someone to plan from his position. In short, when you are physically hungry and cold, when you are psychologically hungry and cold, if you appear around him (or her), you can often impress him (or her). When you are hungry, make a wish to know the time.
King Chu * * * has a favorite concubine, Anling. Minister Jiang Yi made a plan for her. She realized that her parents had failed in the country and she herself had failed in the king. Jiang Yi said that people who use money to serve others will be alienated when they run out of money; Those who care about colored people will fall out of favor with the decline of color. You must try to make the king love you forever. And taught her to make a wish to the king: willing to bury the king.
Two years later, Jiang Yi asked her if she had said this. An Ling pestered that there was no right time to say this.
This time, King Chu * * * hunted, and a crazy rhinoceros rushed in the direction of King * * *. When he was about to hit the horse on the left side of King * * *' s car, King * * * made a good shooter shoot an arrow, and the rhinoceros fell to the ground and died. Wang Daxi, clap your hands and laugh. Joy begets sorrow. After the death of King * * *, he suddenly thought of a question and turned to ask his favorite concubine An Ling: "Who will you share this happiness with after I live forever?"
Because Anling has been looking for this opportunity for a long time, he immediately felt sour and said with tears on his face, "Long live the king, and I would like to be buried with him in the future." How can I enjoy this with others? " This is exactly what the king longed for, so he was greatly moved. On the spot, he sealed a piece of land with 300 families to Anling.
This story comes from Liu Xiang's Shuo Yuan. The commentary said: "Jiang Yi is good at planning, and An Ling is obsessed with understanding the times." This is the wonderful use of the hungry plan.
Giving more will only make someone more greedy
"Scholars" 22: "Since ancient times,' a bucket of rice has raised a benefactor, and a stone of rice has raised an enemy', so we have raised him." This means that when the rescuer is not someone else's hunger and cold, you are a big help, but later he is not enough, and even hates you in turn. This phenomenon often occurs in the rescue of the country and the people. Doumi nourishes kindness, and Shimi nourishes hatred. The inference is that disaster relief can only save people who encounter temporary difficulties, but not those who are poor for a long time. You saved him, but he didn't try to save himself, waiting for your next time. Otherwise, he will hate you. Song Jiang saved Classical and praised timely rain. Good rain knows the season when spring happens. This is a poem by Du Fu's Delighting in Rain on a Spring Night.
Save people only in the most urgent time, decisive decision, the key is timely. After Chao Gai and others deceived the birth outline, they found that Song Jiang was an official of the county government at that time, and quickly informed Chao Gai in secret to avoid arrest. Later, when Classical became the leader of the water margin, he never forgot Song Jiang's saving his life. So the name Song Jiang, a timely rain, is widely circulated in rivers and lakes. Song Jiang later encountered many difficulties, all because of his high popularity of "timely rain" and saved the day, and was even worshipped. Ji Ran, a scholar who lived with exotic goods in the Spring and Autumn Period, said: "Expensive is cheap, and cheap is expensive." It means that the extremes meet. When the price is expensive, sell it quickly; When the price is cheap, buy it quickly. For example, an art dealer should consider the future when buying a painter's paintings. Before he became famous, paintings were worthless. After a large number of acquisitions, we should use various propaganda means to improve his reputation, so as to improve the value of the paintings, and we can make a lot of money at the same price.
Operators should not only understand the market situation, but also have certain historical knowledge and cultural literacy. When talking about jewelry collection, Ms. Cheng, a French Chinese, said that the collection of jewelry and gold and silver jewelry should be signed by famous designers, which can not only preserve the value, but also appreciate it.
1970, Ms. Cheng visited the Paris market and came across a silver hairpin, which was made on 1900. At that time, there was a trend of advocating oriental culture in France, and the hairpin design style was as popular as chrysanthemum, which was deeply loved by the Japanese and was also very cheap at that time. Ms. Cheng went all out to buy all the cards sold in the Paris store. This move surprised many people at that time. 1973, someone in Paris found the value of this clip and bought it everywhere. However, the Paris market was out of stock, and Ms. Cheng hoarded it. This kind of hairpin has become a high-priced treasure. Ji was a company specializing in bristles founded by national capital before liberation. Under the condition that the national capital was still very fragile at that time, comprador capital did everything possible to control it. In order to get rid of the comprador control of foreign firms and strive to sell their Tiger brand bristles directly to the American market, under the auspices of Mr. Gu Gengyu, Gu Qingji first cooperated with the American bristle King Kong Company, thus obtaining a revolving credit loan of 65,438+0,065,438+0,000 US dollars, which enabled him to obtain superior conditions for capital turnover and become a major bristle operator in China.
After a period of cooperation with LAC, KOC wants to get rid of LAC and directly intervene in the bristle market in China, so as to monopolize the bristle business and get cheaper inventory. Faced with this phenomenon, Mr. Gu Gengyu first took action, went to the United States to establish a relationship with another company, cooperated to form a shipping company, and obtained a large number of low-interest credit loans, which made his products get more favorable prices.
In order to force Gu Qingji to submit, when Gu Qingji operated bristle business in Hong Kong based on 1948, Kong Company and other companies tried to force Gu Qingji to sell bristles. Faced with this dilemma, in order to break through the trap, Gu Qingji took a tit-for-tat approach, made full use of people's national feelings and xenophobia, and dealt with it when it was time to deal with it. He joined hands with his colleagues in Hong Kong extensively to hoard and fight foreigners.
From then on, as long as anyone sells bristles in the market, everyone buys them. No matter how much pressure is exerted by the opponent, Gu Qingji insists on the principle of hoarding and moves with the camera. Such a cold war made the American market short of bristles, and American businessmen finally had no choice but to raise the price by 50% and buy from Gu Qingji. Gu Qingji sold a large number of goods to American businessmen at a high price and made huge profits. This "ancient Confucius" dispute ended in the fiasco of American businessmen. From this, we can easily see that the art of bereavement has made full use of people's social psychology in the market competition and achieved special benefits. Qiao Zhiyong's brother is doing sorghum business in Baotou, and his opponent is about to lose all his money. Qiao Zhiyong relied on the support of his wife and father-in-law to raise funds and treat him. After the victory, the other side fell into a desperate situation, and then reached out to help and moved the other side. Since then, Shanxi merchants have cooperated peacefully and advocated noble business spirit. Duck Farmers Rebound Pipa There is a duck expert Sun on Hainan Island. When he started raising ducks on 1982, each duck was raised to 6 to 7 kilograms before selling. As a result, ducks are unsalable because they are too big, and people don't want to buy them because they spend too much money. He adopted the reverse operation mode, became bigger and smaller, and rose to about 2 to 4 kilograms, which sold well. He also found that farmers can sell out-of-season vegetables at a good price. This inspired him. Ducks are on the market every year, mostly after the summer and autumn harvest season. Ducks are more expensive and cheaper. After the peak season, ducks are few and expensive. He boldly practiced and sold ducks in the off-season market, which achieved high economic benefits. A drop of kindness will help others. As long as it is when others need it most, even if it is just a drop of water, it will be a reward between people in the future.
There is a story in Zhuangzi: Zhuangzi was poor and went to Jianhe Hou to borrow food. Hou Jianhe said, "OK, I'll lend you three hundred and twenty pieces of silver after I collect the rent, okay?" Zhuangzi was very angry and told a fable: Yesterday, I saw a "dry boat, trying to lift a bucket of water". A fish fell into a dry mud ditch stepped by a cow and needed water to save lives. I said to the fish, well, I'm going to the south to meet some kings. It's a water town. I will definitely release the water from Xijiang to save you. The fish said angrily, you put the water from Xijiang, so you can only come to the salted fish stall to find me.
This story shows that not many people save people in time. This bucket of water is a drop of water, a gift in the snow, a longing for a meal and a drink. A dead body kills 220,000 people, which can be used not only to help others, but also to defeat the enemy.
For example, in the battle of Sicily in World War II, the Germans knew that the Anglo-American Coalition forces were going to attack, but they didn't know which direction to attack, so they were anxious to know the intelligence of the Anglo-American Coalition forces. This constitutes a psychological "hunger". At this time, give him a bowl of "rice" skillfully and the Germans will be hungry.
According to this plan, British intelligence agencies have planned a psychological fraud strategy. They found an unnamed body, dressed up as a landing craft expert after special dressing. In his briefcase, there was a confidential document about the attack from Sicily, and of course other documents. Then they put him on the plane, and the plane "crashed" at sea and pretended to crash. Of course, the news of the crash was quickly obtained by the German intelligence system, and immediately organized personnel to snatch the confidential information carried by the people on the crashed plane. So the Germans found this information about the main direction of attacking Sicily. They naturally think that this is true.
They didn't expect this to be false information. They are really hungry now, but they think "God helps me". According to this false information, they mobilized their troops to defend in the direction of false main attack and put their main force in the direction of Sardinia, Greece. So Sicily's defense slackened.
At this time, the British and American Coalition forces launched a surprise attack, captured Sicily in one fell swoop and annihilated more than 227,000 people.
Later, people praised the plan before the Sicilian Games, saying that it was "a dead body killed 220,000 enemies". The film "Guide Dog Little Q": Training guide dogs and helping disabled people The Japanese film "Guide Dog Little Q" won unanimous praise from the audience. This reminds us of the story of seeing-eye dogs.
Brad Gabrielsen, an American who is nearly 30 years old, suffers from cerebral palsy. He is often worried that his wheelchair will tip over and be thrown to the ground. Because if he is unlucky, no one will find him fall for hours. He was helpless and tried to grab something and put himself in a wheelchair again, but he couldn't.
Later, he inquired about a dog training center in Columbus, Ohio. He traveled 900 miles to this dog training center and bought a golden retriever named Bo. This "Bo" completed the training course in the dog training center. He can open the door, turn on the light, get soda from the refrigerator, push Gabrielsen's wheelchair through the shopping area, and pick up keys and coins from the ground.
If Gabrielsen falls, Bo knows what to do. It will lick the owner's face to make sure that he is still awake, then pull the rope on the handle to open the door and run from door to door for help until someone agrees. The neighbor's fingers were gently pinched by Bo's teeth. Bo led the neighbor to find the owner who fell to the ground, and the neighbor helped him up. In this way, "Bo" became an enthusiastic assistant who worked all day.
This dog training center also trains guide dogs for the blind. As long as a blind person smells something for a guide dog, the guide dog will take the owner to a store that sells it, or take the blind person to a friend's house.
This dog training center in the United States, like delivering meals to the disabled, has both fame and fortune and made a fortune.
Gabrielsen was deeply benefited by this domestic dog, so he decided to build a new dog training center nearby, so that other disabled people wouldn't have to run 900 miles to find a dog. At the same time, he can also make money by selling this kind of dog.
Stolen schoolbags build marriages.
Qiqi is a beautiful Harbin girl with a slim figure and a touching smile, which is particularly attractive. Kiki is studying in the Institute of Chemical Technology, and her academic performance is among the best. Although she often receives some courtship letters, and sometimes male classmates from the same class come to woo her, she doesn't like any of them. So, despite the popularity of dating on campus, Kiki is still alone today.
Xiao cheng, etc. It's high flyers from department of mechanical engineering, and the department has decided to recommend him for graduate school. Xiao cheng, etc. I noticed Kiki more than a year ago and wanted to get close to her. Unfortunately, although they often study in the same classroom, Leijiacha etc. I never got a chance to meet Kiki. Leijiacha etc know kiki's aloof, if like other students take the liberty to leave a note for her or go to her desk and ask her out, it is bound to fail. Seeing that time goes by and graduation is getting closer and closer, Leijiacha etc is very anxious.
His mind was finally discovered by several classmates and friends. These students were moved by his deep affection for Kiki and thought they were a good couple, so they made suggestions and prepared to "rob".
One night, Kiki came to the classroom as usual, put down her schoolbag, spread out her books and studied hard. An hour later, after a rest, Kiki went out. A quarter of an hour later, she returned to her seat, and she was shocked. It turned out that her schoolbag was gone, and only the book she was reading was on the desktop. This really worries Kiki. Someone bold must have taken it by mistake. what can I do? Where can I find it? Just a few girls in the mechanical department are also eager to help find it, but they can't find it. At this time, Leijiacha etc. Sit at the back of the classroom and study hard. So these girls introduced Kiki to Xiao Cheng. Tell Kiki that she is the top student in her class, recommend graduate students and ask Leijiacha etc. Do something for her. Leijiacha etc a promise.
Xiao cheng, etc. Question: "Who was sitting next to you just now?"
Kiki said, "It's a boy. I don't know him. I didn't notice who he was. "
Cheng Xiao said, "Let me ask around for you. You must have taken it wrong. " And tell Kiki the dormitory number where he lives, and let her come and have a look tomorrow.
The next night, Kiki found Leijiacha etc. Dormitory, ride. Open the door to welcome Kiki into the house and tell Kiki that she has asked her friends to ask around and there is no news yet. Afraid that she had no books in class, she borrowed one from other students to let her use it for a few days.
In this way, once, twice and three times, the schoolbag was not found, but Kiki and Leijiacha etc. became friends in need. Kiki found Leijiacha etc. She is not handsome, but witty, not only knowledgeable, but also motivated, enthusiastic and interested in life, so she left a good impression in her heart.
On the fourth night, just as Kiki was about to go out, Cheng Xiao came to Kiki's bedroom with a schoolbag and told her who took the schoolbag at noon. Then he handed Kiki's schoolbag over and said, "Forgive if you want, maybe people didn't mean it!" "
Kiki was happier than anything when she got her schoolbag back, and her big eyes showed gratitude.
Since then, two people naturally have a relationship. Soon after graduating from college, Kiki and Cheng Xiao entered the marriage hall.
Smart readers will definitely think of who directed the "stealing" of schoolbags.
In real life, there are many love wisdom like this. If a young man bravely rescues a young girl from a gangster, he will be injured and hospitalized. So the girl went to the hospital to accompany her every day, and naturally they never met again and fell in love and got married. So that one day, the girl accidentally saw through the traps designed by this series of young men, but at this time she would think that it was because he loved her and took great pains, so instead of complaining, she would love you more! In love, you should use your wrist to get to know each other properly.