So what is the specific cause of this matter?
It turns out that Guo Qilin's dinner is the "dinner" in the variety show "Fifty Kilometers in Taohuawu"! Guo Qilin's attendance sequence was arranged by the program group after Song Dandan, which made Song Dandan mistakenly think that Guo Qilin was an hour late, but Song Dandan didn't know that this arrangement was intentional.
Although Guo Qilin was misunderstood by Song Dandan, Guo Qilin didn't feel wronged. Instead, I sincerely expressed my apologies to Mr. Song Dandan. It can also be seen from this that Guo Qilin is a very educated young man!
Since Guo Qilin is so literate, why did Teacher Song Dandan ask Guo Qilin, "Aren't you very literate?" ?
The reason may be directly related to the age gap between Song Dandan and Guo Qilin!
First, because of the age gap between Guo Qilin and Song Dandan, Guo Qilin was questioned by Song Dandan about his "education"!
Guo Qilin is 25 years old, while Song Dandan is 6 1 year old. There is a 36-year-old age gap between people, so the generation gap between them is really too big. Plus, Guo Qilin and Song Dandan didn't have much friendship before, so there was a love story problem as soon as they met!
As soon as Song Dandan saw Guo Qilin, he said, "I've been waiting for you for an hour." Song Dandan may think he is interested in Guo Qilin. Said, is a senior joke on the younger generation, but Guo Qilin didn't understand the meaning, so we will quickly apologize to Song Dandan.
After Guo Qilin apologized, Song Dandan also hurriedly asked Guo Qilin to sit down. Then Song Dandan asked Guo Qilin, "Aren't you very cultured?" ? If Guo Qilin didn't get angry when he heard Song Dandan say this, he would apologize by saying "I will punish myself in the future".
It can be said that Guo Qilin's high EQ solved the generation gap between him and Song Dandan!
Second, Guo Qilin didn't get angry in the face of Song Dandan's "questioning", which is very cultured!
Because Guo Qilin is the son of Degang Guo, Song Dandan also has some preliminary knowledge and understanding of Guo Qilin! In the eyes of many people, Guo Qilin is a very educated young man, so Song Dandan has high expectations for Guo Qilin.
Guo Qilin's behavior of being late for dinner made Song Dandan question the fact that Guo Qilin was educated. So Song Dandan will ask Guo Qilin face to face, but in my opinion, Guo Qilin didn't mean to be late, because when attending the program recording, the order of appearance must obey the arrangement of the program group, so Guo Qilin can't appear at the dinner scene in advance according to his own meaning.
Guo Qilin apologized first, and then fined himself a cup, which quickly dispelled Song Dandan's "doubt". Because Mr. Song Dandan is an old man after all, and he doesn't know much about the ideas of young people and the routines of the program group, so he will speak bluntly!
Guo Qilin's behavior not only won the audience's favor for himself, but also preserved the image of Teacher Song Dandan. I have to say that Guo Qilin's practice can reflect his education level.
Third, Guo Qilin's upbringing is reflected in the details!
Although Guo Qilin is a veritable Star II in the entertainment circle, Guo Qilin has never claimed to be a Star II! And he is very modest about people and things, so Guo Qilin has won the love of many young audiences!
Squatting down to sign autographs for fans shows that Guo Qilin has no condescending pride when facing fans. When Guo Qilin is listening to others, he will not interrupt others easily, because it is very impolite to interrupt others, but this has never happened in Guo Qilin.
It would be really arbitrary to conclude that there is something wrong with Guo Qilin's upbringing just from a small incident of being late for dinner! However, Guo Qilin should also pay attention to this issue in the future, because any mistakes in the development of the entertainment industry should be taken seriously. If it is not actively corrected, Guo Qilin may encounter some big troubles in the future.
Of course, in this matter, Song Dandan also has the problem of not being good at communicating with young people!
Fourth, Song Dandan should learn to get along with young people. Only in this way can we understand the standards of young people!
If Song Dandan questioned the upbringing of other young people, then other young people might have turned against Song Dandan at that time. It's just that Song Dandan questioned Guo Qilin in the program, while Guo Qilin has a very mature emotional intelligence, so although Guo Qilin may be dissatisfied with Song Dandan, Guo Qilin will never "embarrass" Song Dandan in the program.
Although Song Dandan is an excellent old opera player, Song Dandan also needs to "keep pace with the times". From several conversations between Song Dandan and Guo Qilin, we can see that Song Dandan didn't actually understand the thoughts of young people nowadays.
Although the situation in Song Dandan has also appeared in many elderly people, Song Dandan, as a "respected" elder, will inevitably arouse strong dissatisfaction among young people if he randomly questions them!
Of course, in addition to Song Dandan and Guo Qilin, there are also many problems in the arrangement of the program group's appearance order!
Fifth, the "Sao operation" of variety shows has provoked the contradiction between the elderly and the young!
The dinner arranged by the variety show made Song Dandan 1 debut. Although it means to take care of the elderly, the program group did not explain to Song Dandan why the little star was late. This is why Song Dandan has some "complaints" about young stars!
Fifty Kilometers of Peach Blossom Spring has caused quite a controversy since its launch. Besides "Song Dandan questioned Guo Qilin's upbringing", "Su Mang pays for meals in 650 yuan one day" also aroused strong dissatisfaction from netizens!
Such a variety show with constant "Sao operation" will definitely not get a good reputation and response. It can be seen from the broadcast volume and topic degree of "Fifty Kilometers in Taohuawu" that "Fifty Kilometers in Taohuawu" is doomed to failure!
abstract
Although Guo Qilin is not highly educated, education in Guo Qilin has never been a "problem"! Degang Guo gave Guo Qilin a strict education since he was a child, so Guo Qilin can handle people and things satisfactorily.
Song Dandan's behavior in the variety show also disappointed everyone with this old artist. If Song Dandan can't keep pace with the times, Song Dandan won't have any chance to appear in variety shows related to young people in the future!