Many people read a lot of love strategies, but it's useless, because they have to use them all at once, instead of applying what they have learned according to their own situation. It's like chasing a girl and falling in love with her. Can you treat her the same? So different stages have to do different things.

Picking up girls is a technical job. We mentioned many times in the previous raiders that the key to picking up girls is to do different things at different times, so as to attract a girl. So how to grasp these time points and how to show them?

The following is a common example that leads to a chat topic: in the attraction stage, a woman dropped something. What should we do to remind her? Also suppressed him, saying that he was not careful. But in the comfort stage, when a woman drops something, we have to help her pick it up. Sometimes we can hold our noses and say, You are really careless. (Hint: Pay attention to the tone here, it should be the kind of tone that looks up and smiles. )

For example, in the attraction stage, if you touch him and hold his hand directly, he will think you are a rogue, but in the comfort stage, if you touch him, he will think you love her.

For another example, a woman asked QJ, and he went to one of his friends, and that friend fucked him. That woman thinks that friend is a bastard and never contacts again. Another tragedy happened. That woman made people QJ again. He went to find another friend, who comforted him and listened to him, and then he consciously slept on the sofa. The next day, the man went to buy breakfast and came back. When a woman finishes breakfast, a man takes her to bed. But that woman is bent on falling in love with this man.

Doing the right thing at the right time is what you really should do.

Charming methods systematically summarize these methods. M3 model is a complete method, but not many people really understand its meaning. I don't know if people who have met a certain number of women have this feeling, that is, you can feel whether a woman is interested in you, when a woman says something angry, when she is interested in you, and when she is spoiled. And what you should say to cater to or refute him. I think this feeling is particularly strong when you regulate the circuit.

Let's talk about the attraction stage first. What should you do first? When you meet a woman, you should offer 90% dialogue first, which is your first step. You should talk more about yourself and show DHV as much as possible. In order to let more novices know what DHV is, I will illustrate a large part with examples.

Pre-selection This is a powerful DHV. Many people don't understand what pre-selection is. For example, if you play with many beautiful women today, they are all saying nice things about you, provided that you don't have a girlfriend. Of course, it doesn't matter much whether you have a girlfriend or not. If your girlfriend is not among these beautiful women, it will be easier to pick up girls. For example, many beautiful women leave messages in your space, which is also a pre-selection. What does pre-selection mean? In other words, many women have a good impression, so the women you attract will also have a good impression on you. I think most people understand that an old man standing next to a beautiful woman is very close, so many people will think that this old man is rich.

Men talk about sisters and do different things at different stages.

Male leader: I think this is easier to explain, that is, you lead the team to fight, or others listen to you, or you drive the atmosphere at the scene. Women are more likely to pay attention to you.

Social authentication I think this can be said from two aspects. One is your own aspect, such as your appearance. If you are a handsome guy, then it is a social certification, a big DHV. For example, your status, your education, some of your adventures (not all experiences are DHV, * * *, unforgettable and so on. ), most ordinary experiences should be said in the comfort stage. ), your wealth, your wisdom (humor is among them. For example, if you say some poems that he has never heard, some classic short sentences) cold reading is also included in it, which is your wisdom. Another figure, if you are thick, gives women a sense of security. And your personality, maturity, stability, gentleness and so on, all of which come from yourself.

Besides, it's good for your friends. Your friends are all celebrities, or your friends are all interesting people, then your value will also be shown.

The desire to leave is that you show indifference to his ideas, which is a reflection of the indicator of disinterest. In the attraction stage, it doesn't matter whether you have him or not. I don't lack women's feelings. How should this DHV be displayed? For example, if you talk about QQ for more than an hour, you must cancel it first. Why didn't you say you weren't my type? (use with care). For example, if you say you have friends over there, you will leave here soon. These are all. But some things are not the desire to leave. For example, if you brag to him about which woman asked you out today, just tell him that you have more women and you don't need him. You can't say such things.

First of all, your chat should be interesting. In the attraction stage, you should use declarative sentences instead of interrogative sentences. For example, you said you were waiting for someone here. One meaning of this sentence is that you are waiting for someone, and it also means asking. When you are comfortable, ask a little more. At that time, women didn't care so much about this.

Two: How to show your high value, high value is a very important part in the attraction stage, and in the comfort stage, it is most important to establish a direct connection between two people. Language display is basically storytelling, classic short sentences (reflecting your wisdom), cold reading, and parallel up and down. Note that these are all carriers to show high value, not high value itself. For example, for example, you show your social authentication by introducing your friends and some interesting things.

Three: repression, attraction stage, repression is very important, but too many people use repression indiscriminately. There's nothing to suppress, nothing to suppress. It is worthless to belittle women. So when should we use inhibition?

First of all, you should understand that the purpose of repression is to establish a harmonious conversation atmosphere. When women were tall, we were short. To suppress them is to make both sides equal. If this woman has a low self-esteem, you can't hold back a fart. If this woman starts talking to you with a low profile, the more depressed you are, the more she feels inferior.

Second, you should look at people and use your scoring system. A woman with a score of 6 sometimes only needs to be suppressed once, and a woman with a score of 7 sometimes you may need to suppress it twice. A woman with 8 points may be several times. A woman with 9 points, then you have to tear his pride.

Third, you have to understand what repression is. Many people think that repression means speaking ill of each other. In fact, this is completely nonsense. The real repression is to express one's disinterest in the other person without insulting him. For example, are your nails really beautiful? This photo you took is really beautiful. PS is over. Turn your head to one side when the other person is talking to you. Five seconds later, you turn around and say, what did you just say? These are all gentle repression. A little heavier. Your clothes don't seem to match your shoes, and so on.

Men talk about sisters and do different things at different stages.

Four: About the woman's interest indicators [(IOI) Many people simply can't tell what IOI is, thinking that a woman asks you a question that is IOI. In fact, it is better to find some obvious IOI, such as he taking the initiative to chat with you and take the initiative to find a topic. I asked you a lot of questions. Reply quickly when chatting with you. He is very obedient. What should you do when you get IOI? This bothers many people, and many times you have to reward him. When you meet more women, you will have a feeling of knowing when to give rewards. What should the woman do to IOD? The formula IOD (woman) -IOD (man) -DHV- test in Charming Man (give it to IOI if you obey). Please do the key things at these key points.

After passing its test, many people have no idea when it was tested. Actually, I don't know much about this. I remember there are ways to charm men, but I follow my feelings. So here is the importance of actual combat. Let me give you a few simple examples. For example, a woman said, please buy me a drink. For example, women say that I am quite unhappy now. For example, a woman tells some short stories and asks you what you would do if you were her. There are many ways to pass the test, such as refactoring the framework, such as answering honestly (this should be sincere) and so on.

Today, let's talk about some things that should be grasped when attracting. What to do under what circumstances. Let me give you a few more examples: For example, in the first sentence, if you want to chat with a woman, just chat on QQ. You can sign according to her personality and say, stop, are you there? Okay, something like that. For example, if he says he is leaving, you should say goodbye and leave a number for him to have a good time. Finally, I sent a text message saying, nice to meet you. For example, chatting with him, he reacted coldly. Stop, don't stop talking just because he says less. If you want to provide 90%, then show it to DHV slowly and let him have a good impression on you. Slowly, you will find that he will reply to your message faster and talk more. For example, you should seize his IOI and reward him at an appropriate time. For example, he said that we should go there, and you and I will take it together, so you have to promise.