Text | Mr. Wang Erduo Source | Mr. Wang Erduo (ID: huangezishiba)

Yesterday,

Huang Yiqing was arrested because he was taking drugs and selling drugs.

This news quickly ranked second in Weibo’s hot searches.

Compared with "Little Swallow" Huang Yi's ex-husband, his other widely known identity is the "King of Rumors" in the entertainment industry. Looking at Huang Yiqing's Weibo, you will find that he tears things up almost every day, every month, and criticizes others at every turn. But the truth is that he seems to have a strong sense of justice and anger, but he often spreads lies.

He publicly quarreled with Zhou Libo and spread rumors that the "Shanghai Criminal Investigation Brigade" was Zhou Libo's protective umbrella. After investigation, it was found that he was just telling nonsense and spreading rumors to vent his personal anger. The police did not show mercy and gave him a five-day administrative punishment. detention. At the end of last year, he focused on Joker Xue and accused him of taking drugs. In order to prove his innocence, Joker Xue went to the police station for a urine test accompanied by the police. The results were clear and he slapped Huang Yiqing fiercely.

After the Li Xiaolu scandal, he broke the news that Ma Su and Zhang Jike were "doing hair" and said they had noses and eyes, as if he had seen it with his own eyes. He also agreed that he was willing to take legal responsibility. What was the result? Another rumor to vent personal anger. Since Huang Yiqing entered Weibo, not only 100 but also 50 celebrities have been trolled by him. As soon as he gets emotional, he will turn on the quarrel mode and don't care about anything. He will scold first and be done with it. But what is the truth? Not only is most of what he said untrue. He himself is an out-and-out hypocrite. He falsely accuses others of taking drugs, but he himself is suspected of taking drugs and selling drugs. Perhaps because of this, after Huang Yiqing was arrested for taking drugs, tens of thousands of Weibo messages cheered him.

His sense of justice and anger are too cheap.

Huang Yiqing's life has been dominated by anger. He does not allow anyone to disobey him, nor does he allow things to develop not according to his expected track. As long as there is a little dissatisfaction, he will start to vent his emotions and talk to the whole world. Be an enemy. However,

The more this happens, the more your anger betrays your low level and low emotional intelligence.

In this life, no matter you are poor or rich, do not be easily dominated by anger.

In June this year, the "YTO courier kneeled down" incident caused a stir. As soon as the news came out, the entire Internet was abusing Mr. Zhang, the person involved, and criticized him for having no conscience and bullying couriers just because he was a customer. Members, trample others under their feet. For a time, the entire Internet was fighting for the courier's injustice. However, the incident was quickly reversed.

It turned out that the courier had lost Mr. Zhang’s mangoes first. In order to avoid complaints, she bought a box of mangoes to replace them. However, because the courier number was wrong, Mr. Zhang discovered it. In order to prevent Mr. Zhang from reporting the incident, she knelt down and begged for mercy. Afterwards, she admitted that she had lied just to gain sympathy. This wave of reversal left the netizens who had previously criticized Mr. Zhang at a loss. How harsh they were before, they disappeared quickly now. After being slapped wildly, they all stopped talking. Keyboard warriors are the most scarce group of people in this era. They defy heaven and earth and do anything they can.

Judging from its essence, it is because they are controlled by anger and lose the ability to distinguish right from wrong. In order to pursue their so-called "justice", they do not hesitate to harm all innocent people. After all, it is easier to curse people than to find out the truth. Much more.

They do not distinguish between good and evil, they only know how to vent. It is precisely because of them that this society has such a violent atmosphere.

After "Avengers 4" was released, the young actress who played Iron Man's daughter posted a video on social platforms.

In the video, she was careful and asked netizens not to bully her family and her. She is only 7 years old. If she messed up somewhere, it was really not intentional. She also said the classic Iron Man Lines: I love you three thousand times.

Some netizens said that just because the little girl failed to meet other people's signature requirements, she encountered vicious verbal violence.

A 7-year-old girl should have grown up happily in the sunshine, but now she is trapped in the torture of online violence, and all of this stems from this group of barbarians dominated by anger.

People who are controlled by anger do not understand the character of others. They are always self-centered and do not allow anyone to oppose or disobey. As long as there is a little objection, they will immediately fall out. .

They take it easy, regardless of face or occasion. No matter if it is a 7-year-old girl or a 70-year-old grandmother, as long as they make them unhappy, they will be scolded.

But everything is due to their incompetence. Their abilities are limited and they have no ability to adapt to changes. They cannot bear the feeling of being out of control without certainty, so they hope to control all people and things.

In fact, in our lives, people controlled by anger are everywhere.

My neighbor, Sister Li, is a person controlled by anger. She often quarrels with her husband, and she can be heard smashing things every now and then. Every time she quarrels, she either smashes things or slams the door and leaves. .

Over time, her husband couldn't stand her, and three months ago, the two went through divorce procedures.

A few days ago, Sister Li came to our house for dinner. After drinking some wine, she suddenly cried bitterly: "I regret it so much, but I can't control my temper. I seem to only lose my temper and throw myself." Things, I really don’t know what to do.”

It turns out that Sister Li is also a person who is easily impatient not only at home, but also at work. She hates internships where she doesn’t understand anything. I am a student, and I don’t like colleagues who don’t have the ability to hang around all day long.

She disliked everyone, and naturally others didn't like her. Over time, she also encountered rejection in the workplace.

A person controlled by anger will not devote his energy to solving problems.

When he encounters problems and mistakes, he doesn't know how to adapt. He only knows how to shirk responsibility and blame everyone, but he just can't see his own shortcomings.

Their anger often begins with stupidity and ends with regret.

However, only by getting rid of uncontrollable anger can you take control of yourself and your life.

Wang Xiaobo once said: "All human suffering is essentially anger at one's own incompetence."

It is no exaggeration to say that anger corresponds to your ability and ability. level.

A capable and normal person will be rational and calm, not blindly obedient, and then think about solutions to problems after making judgments;

A person with low ability will always have a sense of injustice. , it is easy to believe everything, and anger is easily ignited.

Because they always want to use their temper and anger to show their existence.

In this life, there are three things that a person cannot pretend to be: cough, poverty, and temper.

In fact, there is nothing wrong with anger. If a good person is bullied by others, if he persists in giving in, he will eventually be treated as a soft persimmon by the villain. But if he only knows anger, he will be controlled by anger. , and can only become a barbarian.

Just like Huang Yiqing, it seems that anger is everywhere, but he lives like a joke.

You must know that the incident you criticize may not be the whole truth;

The disobedience you want to suppress can sometimes help you;

< p> You can't control the development of things, so just let nature take its course. There will be a way to reach the mountain, so why lose your temper?

Think before you speak, and learn to control before you get angry.

You should have both tenderness and intelligence; you should have a temper and the ability to control your emotions.

In your life, don’t be controlled by cheap anger!