Chatting with girls, many people have their own ideas. After all, every girl's personality is different. When chatting with girls, we must pay attention to the ways and means. Only by mastering the correct methods will girls like you more, thus quickly narrowing the distance between them. Chasing girls definitely requires you to take the initiative, but when many boys take the initiative to chat with girls, because they don't have a good start, they often get news in the past, and girls are either too late to return or too lazy to return directly. So what should I say at the beginning of talking to a girl to make her more willing to reply? First, emoticons are really ever-changing. Many emoticons can not only accurately express your meaning, but also make the other person happy. Therefore, the emoticon pack is the best choice as the beginning of actively chatting with girls. We can use funny expression packs. We know that many girls like funny expression packs now, because they think sometimes words can't be expressed. Why don't you just change what the expression pack wants to say into an expression pack? Being humorous and polite will soon make girls think that you are a particularly interesting person. In fact, the hardest thing to chase girls is chatting. If you can't chat, you won't talk to girls, so you can't open the emotional lock of girls. Chasing girls, the opening remarks must leave a good impression on girls, and choosing humorous expression packs can also make two people get into the topic quickly without being particularly embarrassed. Second, show the value. A high-value man is very attractive to girls. Therefore, if the way of showing value is taken as the beginning of actively looking for girls, girls will definitely be willing to reply. For example, the girl you want to seduce is a snack, so if you show superb cooking skills, girls will be interested in you; If the girl you want to seduce is a workaholic, then you show that you are a very motivated person and girls will be interested; If the girl you want to seduce is more money-worshipping, then you will show your hard value and the girl will expect something from you. Showing value also needs to pay attention to some details. If you chat directly with your sister, "I drive a Porsche, I have two villas at home, and my parents work in a state unit." This kind of naked dazzle, many girls really. But I just think you look like a fool. Third, creating curiosity can pave the way for attracting girls. If girls are not curious about you at all, they will basically not attract girls. Girls only want to know more about you if they are curious about you. A good chat opening is like the cover of a book. Only when the cover is attractive can people be interested and want to see it. If you can keep girls curious, you will not only make them feel that you are special, but also make them want to explore you. I think you are very special, you will not reveal your sense of need, and you are willing to explore you. Fourth, starting with praise, we can find out the details by observing the girl's head, friends circle, WeChat name, personalized signature, etc. Open the topic with girls through details and praise girls through details, but be careful. One advantage of opening up the details is that it will make girls think that you are very careful and can read her mind. She has a crush on you, so it will be easy to continue chatting in the future. The prologue of taking the initiative to chat with girls 2 1. When two people don't know each other very well, boys will send greetings to girls blindly, such as "Are you there", "What are you doing" and "Are you busy?" In a few days, girls will feel disgusted. Because girls will feel bored, just a few words every day, without any intention, there is no need to answer. Boys should use some novel methods to attract girls' attention. For example, you can start with funny words, and so can those lovely boys and girls. It's better to bring some words to the table and let the girls answer the questions raised in class. What needs to be paid attention to in this way of opening is that when the relationship is not close, don't send vulgar ones. 2. Humorous boasting When chasing girls, boys should learn a skill, that is, self-teasing and humorous boasting. Boys can say to girls, "There is a handsome guy like Daniel Wu who wants to chat with you.". Do you accept it? " When a girl asks, "Who?" Boys can say "Of course it's me" and add a playful expression or hair. Girls will definitely laugh after reading it and say that boys are "so narcissistic". Although girls are disgusted with boys in the end, the topic of the two has also opened. 3. When praising the opening remarks to please girls, it is certain that boys praise girls more, but the words of praise can't be fixed. The most important thing is to "walk away". This is very important, and it is true to take the heart. Boys can't praise all the girls in one sentence. Boys should praise different advantages according to the characteristics of different girls. Girls who are not beautiful can be praised as "temperament and knowledge" and girls with strong personality can be praised as "strong ability" Girls don't like to be assimilated and like to be alone. Boys should work hard at the opening remarks of the chat, say something new and show something different from others, so that girls will feel that this boy is humorous and willing to warm up their feelings with him. The first way to open it: Now we often use Yan characters in WeChat chat. These words are vivid and can fully express what you want to express. When chatting with your sister, it is a good choice to start with lovely words. For example, girls usually like to use food expression packs to advertise themselves as snack goods, so we can use food expression packs to pull hatred with girls in the middle of the night. We are always hungry at night. When we see your seductive expression packs, we will suddenly get up and may reply to you like this: "Why are you so annoying and deliberately greedy for others?" Isn't this a good start for chatting? For example, you start with a cute little animation. Your sister is often bored and they really want someone to Doby her. Then with such a lovely expression, let you get rid of your sister's boredom and start a dialogue with her. Chatting can go smoothly. The second way to open: show value The best way to attract girls is to show value. For example, the girl you want to seduce is a snack, so if you show superb cooking skills, girls will be interested in you; If the girl you want to seduce is a workaholic, then you show that you are a very motivated person and girls will be interested; If the girl you want to seduce is more money-worshipping, then you will show your hard value and the girl will expect something from you. Showing value also needs to pay attention to some details. If you chat with your sister like this: "I drive a Porsche, I have two villas at home, and my parents work in the state." Girls just feel sick and want to throw up. The correct way to show value is to show it from the side. For example, you can start with your sister like this: "I almost drank too much at a party with my friends today." Fortunately, my secretary helped me give up drinking. " This shows the high value of being a boss from the side. Or you can start like this: "Double Eleven is coming. The boss said that anyone can rest, so I can't rest. I'm as busy as a dog these days. " This shows that you are very important to the company. Of course, you can also show yourself in life. "Every time my classmates get together, these old classmates will push me onto the stage and sing some songs to entertain them." Show your talent from the side. The above is just an example I gave casually. The specific chat should be based on your actual situation. The third way to open: girls who ask for help are generally soft-hearted. Facing the weak, they should show maternal love. So we can use this to chat with girls. You also said that you had troubles in your life or work, and recently you felt very confused and wanted to talk to someone. In the face of such things, girls generally don't stand by. They will definitely talk to you and then take care of you. After that, I may pay attention to whether your situation has improved. Taking advantage of a girl's sympathy is a bit mean, but it is really useful. And the later effect is better. The fourth way to open it: Open the details. If you really don't know how to start chatting with girls, my suggestion is to observe the girl's avatar, circle of friends, WeChat name, personality signature and so on. To find out the details, open the topic with girls through details, and praise girls through details. After all, girls like sweet talk. One advantage of opening up the details is that it will make girls feel that you are very attentive and can read her heart. For example, if you look at a girl's circle of friends, you can start like this: "Just look at your circle of friends and feel that your life is exquisite." For example, if you look at a photo of a girl, you can say, "Little sister, your eyes are really beautiful." Every woman likes to be praised by others. Praising girls with details will make them feel that you are sincere and careful. Girls have no resistance to warm men.