As the saying goes, "Know yourself and yourself", you should know how many bowls of dry rice you can eat. Don't sell yourself short, don't sell yourself short, and look at yourself with a normal heart. Someone said, "Don't take yourself too seriously." Perhaps this is the truth of being a man, but we should also analyze it. It is not good to "take yourself too seriously" or "take yourself too seriously". The key is the word "too", and "too much and too little" is not desirable. If others don't take you seriously, you should "do the opposite" and take yourself seriously. This is because others don't take you seriously, which means that others don't understand you, maybe they have some misunderstandings about you, maybe they are still observing you, or maybe your talent and personality have not been discovered. In this case, it is not surprising and understandable that others will not take you seriously for the time being. After all, people know that you have a process, and it takes time to test you. If you don't take yourself seriously at this time, you are demeaning yourself. In this way, people will take you more seriously. When others take you seriously, you must be clear-headed, "guard against arrogance and rashness" and don't be complacent. This is because others take you seriously, because they recognize your achievements, maybe they encourage you by seeing your slight progress, maybe others pay attention to your achievements and ignore your shortcomings, or maybe they want something from you and deliberately exaggerate your goodwill. If you always follow others' feelings, you will inflate in praise, overestimate yourself, underestimate others, and even stagnate, objectively providing others with a basis for not taking you seriously. This is a fable about a camel crossing the desert with difficulty. A fly lay on the camel's back and crossed the desert effortlessly. The fly sneered at the camel and said, "camel, thank you." Goodbye! " The camel glanced at the fly and said, "I had no idea when you were on me." You don't have to say hello to me when you leave. You have no weight at all. Don't take yourself too seriously Who do you think you are! "In daily life, if you take yourself too seriously, you will also make jokes. Booth tarkington is a famous American novelist and playwright in the 20th century. According to him, he once participated in an exhibition of artists' works as a special guest. At the same time, two lovely girls, aged 16 and 17, asked him for autographs devoutly. A girl handed him her exquisite notebook, and he wrote a few words of encouragement in pencil and signed it. Zou Ji, an ancient man, is very smart and self-aware. After thinking about it for a day and a night, he said, "My wife is beautiful, and I am private; The beauty of my concubine is afraid of me; The beauty of the guest is me, I want my things. " From this perspective, is it a bit sad to take yourself too seriously? No matter how powerful a person is, there will be times when he leaves office, and there will also be times when a successful star makes a curtain call. If you want others to pay attention to you from the heart, you can only rely on your own virtue to let others comment, not to brag, not to be a cow. Generally speaking, when an official goes to a subordinate place or unit, even if he travels with his family, it is also called "inspection", and he will be greeted by the crowd and even escorted by a police car. The bigger the rank, the bigger the scene, and sometimes the martial law has to be lifted. Why is it so exciting? Because those officials take themselves too seriously, it seems that when they become officials, their value doubles and they are different, so they are not noble. Food is the most important thing for the people, and three meals a day are necessary for the people, but it is not necessary to have delicacies every day, let alone to accompany wine at every meal, and even to sing and dance to help the people eat, resulting in "one meal for the government and one meal for the people". Because officials take themselves too seriously, they eat hundreds of millions a year, setting a Guinness World Record. It is too harmful for immortals to take themselves seriously, because immortals will not take the people seriously when they take themselves seriously, and the relationship between officials and the people will be tense. If officials put down their airs and take the people seriously, a harmonious society can be realized as soon as possible, and the people can live a well-off life as soon as possible.