My friends, please forgive me for the poor writing style of the original poster. I will not go into too much nonsense and get straight to the point.

I am a girl born in the 1990s. I have had three love experiences, one of which was a failure. So since the last time, I have put on thick armor for myself. I am super afraid of getting hurt and breaking up. About five months later, I met this Aquarius boy on a dating website (while playing by chance). He took the initiative to talk to me. His image gave off a very down-to-earth vibe. He was very sunny and not trying to be cool. By the way, let me explain. He is still half a year away from graduate school. He graduated in 1989. He said to him: You are so beautiful. I said thank you. In fact, I don’t really like compliments on my appearance. The poster here only wants to use his character to get a good husband, so I said , I like all kinds of beautiful pictures, and he replied that there are some beautiful ones. Later, he sent a kissing expression, which made me even more disgusted. He complimented me on my beauty again, and then I said, just look at it if you think it looks good. Photos are fine. Send it to you, he said: I just realized it, stopped talking, talked about other things, and then added QQ (it was more verbose at first, to make it easier for everyone to judge him)

Later, WeChat was added , I forgot how we started chatting with him, but I slowly discovered that he is not a messy boy, he has a fixed schedule and meals every day, which I admire very much, because I can't do it. He likes fitness very much, has a great figure, and can be said to be a sunshine. I am a big boy, but I didn’t dislike him so much later on, and our conversation got better and better. He is not a very glib person, but he makes me really feel happy. We have been chatting for more than a month now, and I don’t know where to start. We were already ambiguous at the beginning. During this period, I would often be willful because of his slow reply to me. He would patiently coax me and explain that in fact, I was deliberately testing his temper because of the injury last time. At this point, some people may say no zuo no die. Anyway, after a few tricks, he was really patient and coaxed me no matter what.

Later, he went home during the Chinese New Year and basically stayed with me until 12 o'clock every night, but he said that he used to I went to bed before 11:30. I know I should be happy, but once, that is, from this time on, I didn’t accompany me until after 11 o’clock. Suddenly I had to get up early the next day and I didn’t chat with me, and then it was my teeth. It hurts, and then it’s his birthday. Anyway, there are many things that can give him enough reasons to say a few words during the day. At night, he also says he’s sorry that he can’t accompany me and goes to bed. In fact, after a month, I feel like it. His, during this period, I could especially feel that he liked me. Everyone understands the ambiguity. Generally speaking, he took the initiative more often, but then he ignored me and kept talking to me. I became passive all of a sudden. I started to deliberately get his attention by being willful, but I obviously felt that he was very rational. After coaxing me this time, I was still not happy (because he always replied to me very late for various reasons, especially It was because he knew that I was troubled, but he was very calm and said a few thoughtful words of self-reproach.) So this time his calmness made me extremely uncomfortable. He said that if I was still unhappy, I could ignore him and he would wait until I arrived. At 10:30 in the evening, meaning I ignored him at 10:30 in the evening, he went to bed, so I still didn’t defeat the villain in my mind urging me to chat with him, so I sent him a message, but he didn’t reply. I completely Disappointed, I threw down my phone and prepared to go to sleep. Later, he sent a video and I didn’t answer it. He never sent it a second time. He left a message saying: It’s really my fault. I didn’t see it when I was washing up just now. Go to sleep when you’re tired. Good night. In fact, I saw it all, but I controlled myself and ignored him.

I said good morning as usual the next morning. I didn’t want to be angry anymore, as if to show how much I cared about him, even though that was the case, so I replied: Well, get up and go to work. He didn't reply to me. He chatted with me again at noon, just for a simple meal. I pretended not to be emotionless and replied. In fact, I wanted him to coax me, but he was so calm. Then I couldn't help it anymore and said he was still angry. , he actually said: Calm down, don’t be angry, otherwise if you are so angry, just slow down, wait until your anger subsides, you see he no longer coaxes me. Very frustrated... This lasted for a day and a half. I couldn't hold it back last night. I was really tired. I don't know what he was thinking.