How to chat with girls' WeChat from the beginning? For many boys, blind date has become a common occurrence. In the process of learning to chase girls, the opening remarks are very important, so we should learn some chat skills. Let's share how to start chatting with girls' WeChat.

Add the beginning of girl's WeChat 1? First, the opening remarks of WeChat greetings

The prologue is your social card. Opening remarks are very important in the first chat with the blind date. The quality of opening remarks will directly affect your next chat, so it is necessary to master some opening remarks skills in WeChat chat.

1, starting with the details

Boys who pay attention to details can't be wrong in the eyes of girls. You can find details from the girl's WeChat avatar, WeChat nickname, personalized signature, circle of friends and so on. And then start the topic from the details.

For example, the girl's nickname on WeChat is "Flying Fish", and you can say the opening words: "Do you particularly like to eat fish, so it's called Flying Fish Cute". For example, girls' circle of friends often basks in pets. You can directly say, "Girls who like pets are very caring."

Of course, everyone should be specific according to the specific situation. In short, some details can be used as the opening remarks.

2. Praise the details

Women are vain creatures, and they all want to be praised and recognized by others. Knowing this psychological feature of women, we can start by praising girls. Of course, praise is not perfunctory and exaggerated. Be sure to pay attention to details and praise girls.

Details can be found from girls' hairstyles, makeup, clothes, accessories, hobbies and so on. Praise for details will be sincere. For example, you can say hello to a girl like this: "Your earrings match your hairstyle and make you look small." Such praise for details will give girls a different feeling.

3. Cold reading

Cold reading is a psychological term. Simply put, it is to replace interrogative sentences with declarative sentences. Many boys often take pains to ask questions when chatting, which really makes girls have no desire to chat. Then we can use the skills of cold reading to get rid of the label of low emotional intelligence, and we can also have deep feelings with girls.

The sentence pattern of cold reading is generally like this: although … but … although you are a lovely girl on the surface, there is a woman's heart in your heart.

Second, the chat content

Chat content is how to find a topic in chat. The prologue is just chatting with girls, and the core of chatting lies in the content of chatting. The key depends on how you find a topic, how to talk about interesting feelings through the topic, and how to connect the topic with two people. After two people are familiar with each other, they must learn to talk about the topic with ambiguous feelings.

The steps to determine the relationship between two people are: stranger-friend stage-ambiguous stage-dating stage-love stage. Chatting with blind date is also such a step. Just after adding the blind date WeChat, I have a basic understanding with the other party first, and then lead the topic to the ambiguous stage step by step.

You can find topics from hobbies, clothes, travel, food, work, childhood, pets, TV movies, current fashion and so on. The topic is best humorous and interesting, focusing on attracting each other in the early stage, enhancing ambiguity in the middle stage, and inviting people to meet later.

Let's look at the following chat record:

Man: "I just went on a business trip and passed by the coffee shop where we dated last time, and I remembered our first date." (open the topic)

Woman: "You remember it so clearly."

Man: "Haha, I still remember you blushing shyly" (recalling details)

Woman: "Haha, isn't that the first blind date?"

Man: "If I see your red face, I really want to pinch it" (upgrade relationship)

Female: "If you pinch it, you will lose it."

Man: "OK, then I will give my life as compensation" (the girl didn't resist, and continued to work hard to improve the relationship)

Woman: "Hey, I don't want it."

Man: "I know a restaurant that makes Sichuan food." The food is really real. Don't you like spicy food? I'll take you to try it one day "(vague invitation).

Woman: "Really? I'm still a little greedy. "

Man: "Then it's a deal, you greedy cat" (confirmation date)

How to chat with girls' WeChat at first? 2 How to chat with the girl you just met on WeChat? 1:

Maybe you know it from other channels, or you see photos of girls or WeChat friends circle. Your first impression is very good, and you are very suitable for being a girlfriend/wife. You have all kinds of fantasies before you start to communicate. Anyway, it's important. This will easily affect your mentality, leading you to become cautious, not knowing how to chat, or what to say, and girls will definitely not be interested.

It is very important that if you don't care about your mentality and don't expect too much, chatting will become natural, many humorous and interesting topics will be blurted out, comfort will be established smoothly, and girls will be willing to chat with you happily.

How to chat with a girl you just met on WeChat II:

When chatting with a girl on WeChat for the first time, you can send her a strange photo, for example, something beautiful but unusual, or something delicious. This will also make her curious and have a desire to reply. A girl sent me a photo two days ago. It was a yellow mushroom. I haven't seen it, but she said it was delicious. Her mother often grows them in her hometown in the northeast, but rarely. And then I was curious. We have been talking about various foods of mushrooms for a long time.

Say the wrong thing on purpose and then open the topic. For example, you can say that you are also watching a movie? Where do you play, too Where do you eat too? Or I can sit on your right and wait. Then she will be curious, and the girl may reply: What? No?

How to chat with a girl you just met on WeChat 3:

Whether it's WeChat, friends circle, or phone call, as long as the girl has news, you can reply immediately and like it immediately. However, you spend ten seconds answering her, but one day waiting for her reply.

For example, a girl suddenly asks you, "Are you there?" You immediately reply "Yes, yes, what can I do for you?"

The girl only sent a sentence, but you immediately replied four or five sentences, showing an impatient appearance, which will make the girl feel that you have been staring at her chat page, paying too much attention to her actions, and the sense of demand for her is obviously enhanced.

This kind of mentality can easily put you in a passive position, which will eventually lead to a cold chat. Everyone should pay attention to this. 、

Let the girl know that your life is not around her alone, you have your own things to do. So she won't think you have any intention and continue to refuse to chat with you.

How to chat with a girl you just met on WeChat 4:

Put an end to the flattery of good people in language, and don't suppress them blindly. People always like to talk about themselves, but they are indifferent to other people's affairs. When I say to girls, "I want to tell you something that no one has ever told you (about you) …", they will immediately become serious and look forward to it.

When you really tell them unheard of views and opinions or very profound thoughts, your position in their hearts will be different.

Just met' How to chat with girls on WeChat 5:

Men should take the initiative and pay attention to controlling the situation. In fact, most women have no opinions, just like being manipulated by you. What I hate most is that two people are in love. Men always make way for women, which is silly. As for marriage, that's another matter. And don't be too good to the woman, scold a few times when appropriate, showing the majesty of a man.

Women are simple and ignorant. Don't think too complicated, and don't always bother to figure out their mentality. There's no need!

If you have learned all the above points, I dare say "there is no girl you can't catch up with" (this sentence does not include the great differences in appearance, such as the man himself looks like a turtle and the woman looks like an angel). In short, use the word "heart" to understand what she thinks, what she thinks.

How to talk about adding girls' WeChat for the first time 3 How to talk about adding girls' WeChat for the first time 1;

1, the first time we chat with a girl on WeChat, all we have to do is to eliminate strangeness. The quickest way to open the other party is to say the other party. Everyone always cares about himself and things related to himself. In this way, you can start with the other person's avatar and circle of friends to find a chat topic.

For example, if a girlfriend sends her own photos, there must be something she wants to show, which requires your patience to observe. She may want to show off her earrings, skirts and so on. We can say, "Earrings match your hairstyle".

The so-called bypass strangeness is actually self-familiarity and pretending to be familiar. Of course, this also requires you to know something about girls' sexual characteristics, or something popular at present.

For example, before you rest at night, you can say, "Are you still staying up so late, chasing a play?"? Still brushing Taobao. "

2. Humorous opening. For example, capture a lovely and beautiful person alive, speak first, open sesame, etc. It's relaxing and fun. Give the other person a sense of humor and make her think that you are an interesting and confident man.

3. Curious opening. I found a similarity between us. Seeing your head reminds me of a song. Today is a good day to chat with you. Your world is so pale, let me decorate it. Look at your head, it looks very kind, so I came to talk to you.

I didn't chat with my sister before, and my emotional intelligence was not high. I have been caring and attentive to girls, and I have knelt down to please them countless times, but I have been regarded as a good man, which can't change girls' love for me at all. I also tried to chat frequently every day, and I got nothing. Later, I learned a lot of strategies in the "Alpine Love Network" system, and I was able to determine the relationship in one week, which made me a lover quickly. I strongly recommend that you go to Baidu to look for it. Women are not chasing you, but need all kinds of chat routines to let her take the initiative to find you.

How to talk about adding girls' WeChat for the first time;

You should learn to guide a girl to talk, let her talk, at the same time, you should learn to listen and give feedback, and you should say some advanced love words to pick up girls. How to guide? You can use your feelings to develop a love story routine.

For example:

"You this eyelash is? It looks good. "

No matter what the girl says, you can continue to guide: "Your eyes and eyelashes match well, twinkling stars."

Then Gao EQ teased: "Sample, are you discharging me?"

How to talk about adding girls' WeChat for the first time;

1, "The third photo of your circle of friends you just sent is very close to my home."

Starting with the dynamics of a girl's circle of friends, find your similarities, such as the place where she was close to you or the place where you just went, so it is easier to narrow the distance between you and her.

2. "Do you like Teddy, too? My teddy just got beat up by me. "

According to the girl's preferences, find the same topic related to her life and throw out stories that make her curious. Girls want to know the reason and follow-up, and naturally they will reply to you involuntarily.

How to talk about adding girls' WeChat for the first time;

Start with the girl's head. But there are too many types of avatars, so I sorted out three typical ways to open avatars!

1, girls who use comics or anime characters, such girls prefer the second element relatively, and it is generally not wrong to start with the characters on the avatar.

For example:

Man: "Look, your head is Inuyasha, and you like him."

Woman: "Yes, is it a kindred spirit?"

Man: "it must be, but I have loved it since I was a child."

Woman: "Do you like his tenacity and courage, too?"

Man: "Haha, by the way, are you too?"

Girl: "It must be."

2. Girls who use stars as their avatars are almost all "idolized people". Opening with their own love beans and idols will definitely arouse their goodwill! For example:

Man: "Your head is Lu Han, too."

Woman: "Who else has it?"

Man: "mine is the old one."

Woman: "You don't like our brothers, do you?"

Man: "Brother? Are you a Lu Han fan? "

Woman: "Yes."

Man: "What a coincidence, me too."

3. A girl who uses Yan characters as her head portrait must have an interesting soul, so you can't open it in a general way when you face such a girl again. You can give her some interesting words. If the words you send are interesting enough, they will naturally reply to you. At this time, all you have to do is follow the trend and tell her that you still have many funny expression packs and send them to her slowly in the future chat! This kind of push-pull chat ensures that she will fall in one second. After all, there is no girl who doesn't love a boy who is interesting and knows himself!