On the 20th, the Jiang Ge case concluded in Tokyo. I followed the trial throughout those days, and in the end, I sighed along with tens of millions of Internet users, lamenting the difference between Japanese law and our country. The cruel murderer was not sentenced to death, which is said to be a very serious sentence in Japan.

Jiang Ge’s mother wrote on Weibo recently:

You are not me.

Please don’t make any decisions for me.

I have flesh and blood, and I have my own thoughts.

Please don’t command me to do things according to your ideas.

I have my own preferences and my own emotions.

You don’t have to like me, you can hate me, and I also have the right to choose whether to be friends with you.

Therefore, regardless of phone calls, text messages, WeChat, or Weibo, it is my right to block you.

Finally, let me say it again:

I am just an ordinary person, I am just Jiang Ge’s mother!

You are not me.

"You are not me, don't make any decisions for me..."

I have said this too. That is a cry from the bottom of my heart! If you have not experienced it, you will never be able to empathize with it!

A common fracture surgery caused me to encounter several medical accidents in a row. When the electric saw was used to cut the flesh and bones again and again, and the hammer was used to pull out the nails and knock them in again and again, there was no severe pain after the operation that made my life worse than death with an analgesic stick...

Those days when I lay in bed unable to move for a long time and needed care from others... All the promises I made that I would solve it properly, and the mental torture after being delayed and deceived in the end... All of them can never be forgotten!

For those who have never experienced it, please do not make sarcastic remarks, because you have never encountered such a cruel and inhumane experience, and you will never be able to empathize with it! You stand aside and watch the excitement while saying a few innocuous words, or even malicious slander. This is because this kind of experience has not happened to you, but you have to know that disasters and misfortunes are brewing in this world all the time. If you live today, you don’t know where you will be tomorrow. Maybe one day soon, you will encounter great misfortune! So, please take it seriously!

I have always thought that the idiom "take things as they come" is very beautiful. That is, when just reading these four words, it is really beautiful.

However, the reality is that we often choose to accept the situation because we are powerless.

I admire Jiang Ge’s mother very much. After her daughter was killed, she went to Japan alone five times. She also raised online signatures, and 4.5 million people with a sense of justice helped her sign. To sign online, you need your name, phone number, and address. 4.5 million compatriots, including me, have signed. Just because everyone was angry at the inhumane murderer and moved by Jiang Ge's mother's strength. In the process of seeking justice for her daughter, Jiang Ge's mother also transformed herself into a gorgeous woman. Finally, she gave a perfect curtain call with a press conference, which moved thousands of compatriots.

Today is the winter solstice, six years later

Cherish the moment, stay well and cherish it!