Many times, the feeling of wandering is that you can't tell what you like about each other at all.

This is a sign of true love.

Because at this time, when you face this relationship, you have reached a stage: you have completely accepted the person in front of you, not only the advantages but also the disadvantages.

In other words, you can look at this relationship between two people with the most objective attitude, without any superficial prejudice, and you really love him (her) from the heart.

This kind of love is the most rare and affectionate.

I remembered a friend and cried after breaking up. "In fact, sometimes I think about it, and I don't know what I love him. He is not tall or handsome, his family is average, his temper is very stubborn, and he always makes me angry. " Why can't we go back, but I still can't let go and can't bear to leave him. "

As long as she thinks that it is not him who will be with her in the future, she can feel extremely desperate and sad.

So she desperately wants to save it and never misses an opportunity that can be seized.

At that time, she had reached the point where she loved him deeply. When she found that the person in front of her was not as perfect as she had imagined, she still didn't change her love for him.

It's just that feelings are always up to no one.

It is useless for you to be affectionate, to work hard, to make yourself better, to persuade, to cry, or even to put down your dignity and pray actively.

When a person is leaving, no matter how wonderful you were together, how many words you said moved each other and how many blueprints you drew.

None of these can be counted. Only serious people will always be trapped in the past thinking and want to use this to retain the present of two people.

In fact, I didn't want to pay so much, but I got nothing in the end. I don't want to love myself, and all the people I love end up strangers.

Of course, for most people, it is unwilling to be mixed with reluctance.

Everyone has nostalgia, which is an instinct.

Two people together for a long time, each other will leave a lot of good memories, it is impossible to love a person's mood, just like a faucet, turn it off when you say it.

The word "love" is often not so simple, it is complicated and intricate. In such a relationship, it is easy to pander and then kill the other person's last patience.

In this case, when you really leave, you won't let the pain be too heavy.

Because in the process of separation and integration, in fact, everyone who is entangled and addicted to it has made countless assumptions and preparations for separation.

However, on the other hand, it will certainly correspond to the fantasy of being able to continue together.

Therefore, this is a rather contradictory emotion.

But everyone who struggles in it can't get rid of this process. As long as the determination to give up has not yet been fully generated in your heart, as long as one party is still retaining, even after separation, two people will continue to be involved in some grievances.

Love a person, some people are happy, some people are sad, always like this, endless.

Some people say that commitment can't light up the road ahead of you, let alone be your future sun. No one can guarantee the future. After a person changes his mind, all the promises and vows are just a flash in the pan.

However, sometimes, everyone knows the truth, but in the face of emotional entanglements, many people will temporarily put their reason behind them.

If all feelings can be controlled by your own reason, then if you want to come to this world, there is not so much necessity and inseparable in the face of love.

Maybe, you haven't forgotten anything, but some people, some things are only suitable for collection.

You can't say clearly or always imagine, but you can't forget.

In fact, no one can forget it.

Even after separation, the most common word is still gone.

This yearning, like a slow spring breeze, can always blow into your mind inadvertently.

Maybe you saw what the other party gave you, you walked on the road together, or you remembered what the other party gave you, and the past suddenly came to mind.

Even, I have a good friend. After half a year's separation, she saw a name with the same name as her predecessor, which made her calm heart completely ripple that night.

In front of me, she recalled the past of two people together from beginning to end. When she talked about many happy things, she still smiled and said that he was very kind to himself at that time. When it comes to the quarrel and contradiction between the two people, she also feels sighing and sad.

She said that she always thought that nothing could really separate two people as long as they were in love.

Later, when she grew up, she found that there were many things in life that were more important than love, and she finally let go of their separation.

They are not lovers, they all have their own responsibilities and obligations, and they all have worries. When this relationship faces challenges, neither of them can really rush to the other side, because they are nervous and afraid of giving everything, but in the end they draw water with a sieve.

So, later they separated.

After the separation, she still has each other in her heart, otherwise she won't see similar names after half a year, which can arouse her infinite feelings.

But the most regrettable thing is that they can never go back.

Just like her signature: to be honest, I miss you very much, but I can control myself.

If she could restrain herself, she wouldn't let this relationship develop beyond her expectations. She has no determination and courage to level the mountains and seas. If she was a few years younger, she said she would. When she just graduated from college, she was also a girl with the highest love.

However, after she took the baton from her parents, she began to worry about life like an adult, planning for buying a house, planning for her parents' pension and so on.

The weight of love is instantly reduced a lot.

When you grow up, not everyone's love can be satisfactory. Some people still love you, but you can't be together and can't break through the obstacles of reality.

Because not everyone can face love carefree.

Most of us, ordinary people, will weigh the pros and cons and choose a relatively safe road when we have to.

In love, this is not cowardice, but some people, due to their own conditions, can't stand the tragic failure and dare not gamble, so they don't have to be together.

Therefore, the later us, there is no later.