If you can't change your behavior, you can speak some obscure language, the language of words, and express it in words, such as a personalized signature on QQ, posting a talk, writing a diary, Post on Weibo, etc. You can also use others to help you deliver your information! Of course, I think it's also a good idea to talk to your friends directly. It's tiring to guess the relationship between people, let alone good friends? Tell her what's on your mind and she will share it with you.