How to chat with girls you know on blind date? Blind date is an important way for both parties to meet and get married. Many boys have a good impression on the blind date they just met, but they don't know how to improve the chat atmosphere. Let's share how to chat with girls we met on blind date.

How to chat with girls I met on blind date 1 1. Chatting time

1. Make good use of opening remarks in chatting.

In the cognition of most boys, the purpose of opening remarks is simply to say hello, and girls will not use opening remarks when replying.

You know, when chatting with girls at first, not only you, but also girls will be very cautious. If you just say an interesting opening remark, you won't use it to lengthen the topic and expect girls to provide follow-up topics, which is definitely unrealistic.

So when chatting with girls at first, the first thing to do is not to start in a hurry, but to have a general understanding of girls. You can observe the girl's visible display surface first, and get a general understanding of her from her avatar, personality signature, screen name, circle of friends and so on. In this way, you won't feel strange to girls, and you won't worry about not knowing what to talk about.

For example, girls are listening to Jay Chou's songs recently and brushing suspense dramas. It is easy to be late for work when they are far away from home. We can start with this:

Hi, Jay's little fan.

Hello, Conan said it would be faster to solve the case by adding your friends.

Let's talk about the illness first, because we are all patients who get up in pain.

After having a simple understanding of girls, make full use of the opening remarks to establish a sense of topic at the beginning of the chat, so that girls can understand that "you have done your homework" and distinguish you from other boys who leave after chatting, which not only makes girls interested in chatting, but also increases their first favor for themselves.

Don't send messages too often when you meet for the first time.

The girls I just met are not very familiar, so it's good to be friends, so we should be interesting, don't chat with each other too often, and try to get to know the girls first through friends circle and other methods.

3. Choose the chat time according to the other person's circle of friends.

Chatting with girls in their spare time is likely to get a reply. After all, girls don't like going it alone. If you are interrupted while doing something, how do you know when the other person is free?

First, from 8: 00 pm to 1 1 pm, it is a relatively free time for women; Second, according to the time when a girl sends a circle of friends, when a girl uploads a picture in a circle of friends, she will definitely retouch it first. You can also talk to a girl at this time.

Second, interesting things about work.

The blind date must want to know about your work, but don't talk about boring work, talk about interesting things. If not, don't talk about work.

Third, life vision and planning

Talk about the state or mode of life you yearn for and describe a future for which you can work hard.

Fourth, positive energy expression

Everyone likes to be close to people with positive energy. Try to avoid negative energy chat content and let the other person feel your positive, sunny and humorous.

Fifth, actively guide girls.

After establishing a preliminary goodwill with girls, what we need to do next is to provide a topic to deepen our attraction. Many people will say that after providing a topic, girls generally feel that they can't speak, but there is no better guidance for girls.

When chatting with girls, we should know how to actively guide girls' sense of topic and chat emotions, reasonably predict girls' views on something, reasonably guess and supplement, and let girls feel "bosom friends".

Of course, it's not that you deliberately cater to and please girls in the chat. Even if the girl is happy, you have no good impression in the girl's mind, more like a clown.

The so-called guidance is actually to guide girls to talk more, so it's like asking "What are you doing?" "Have you eaten?" It's easy for girls to be cold to you. You should change your mind and let your chat start with what you say and do. For example:

Replace "What are you doing" with "What are your short legs doing?"

Replace "Have you eaten" with "I just saw a dark dish. Do you know what fried whipped cream is? "

Replace "Are you asleep" with "Are you chatting with me in your dream?"

Use pets, delicious food and flirting with girls to activate the chat atmosphere and guide girls to talk more. When girls are interested in your topic and have feedback, pick up the conversation and throw them a question, increase the interaction with girls, dominate the mood and rhythm of chatting, so that girls are not under pressure and full of chatting desire for you. In this case, chatting will naturally become familiar.

How to chat with girls you know on blind date? First, talk more about the topics she is interested in.

As the saying goes, "lovers talk more than half a sentence", you should learn to read and learn to read.

This is very important. This is also a basic principle. When we pursue a woman we know on a blind date, we must grasp this well. We should always remember that blind date only means knowing her. But you still don't know her very well

The initial chat and communication are very important.

If you do, don't talk about the issues she is interested in. You only care about yourself, and as a result, women will think you left her out.

Then some men will ask, I don't know what she is interested in.

Since you choose to pursue, you must ask for it yourself. You can see it through her circle of friends. For example, she only sends some food. This means that this woman likes good food. If she sends something philosophical and enlightening. That shows that she is a hard-working and strict woman. We can talk about work.

As long as you find your own way, you can find the topic she is interested in.

Many men just don't bother to look for it. In this way, naturally it will not work.

Second: Don't send her messages all day. If she doesn't reply you, just wait.

Generally speaking, in most cases, the initial chat is through social software. And if you send him a message, don't stare at this phone all day.

You have to do your own thing. Don't think about what the other person will reply to you and when.

Don't think about these problems. You can't forget your own business when you pursue women. After all, we are not alone. We don't have that much time.

Some people may be suspicious at the moment.

This kind of man is basically idle. If you are busy every day, you won't think about it.

This way of chatting by sending messages does not need to be too deliberate. You choose a topic, send some greetings and so on. Then, do your own thing.

At this point, I have to grasp the discretion.

Third: If you can date again, remember to listen more.

Follow her topic and start the communication between you. Generally speaking, women who meet through blind date. When you are pursuing, you want to date, and the probability of success will be greater.

If she is interested in you, she will definitely accept your date.

In this case, the topics you chat will cover a wide range. But we need to grasp one of the most important principles. That is to talk less and listen more.

You should be the most loyal listener. In this way, you can follow her topic.

In this way, there will be endless topics between you.

Many men tend to be silent at this time. Actually, I just don't know how to guide the situation. You should learn to extend the topic according to the other person's topic.

This is a small skill and ability. If you don't have this ability. Then you can at least listen.

Fourth: learn to create some topics.

For example, some daily chat topics can be humorous.

Actually, I want to find a topic to talk about and leave a good impression on each other. It's simple.

There are many topics to talk about. For example, some interesting things in daily work and life. You can say that these things happen to you. You can also ask her some questions about this.

Generally speaking, if a woman doesn't dislike you, she will talk to you. And this is also a topic close to life. Talked for a long time. She will naturally have a crush on you.

It's better to be humorous at the same time.

If you can't do this, there is no need to force it.

So, at this point, you can practice on purpose.