If you care more about others' opinions, you will take care of others' feelings, so that others will like him and like to be close to him.

Analysis:

Other people's opinions are strange, and we have no ability to control them.

A positive evaluation means a negative evaluation, which must be faced and endured.

Your value lies in your recognition of yourself. If you rely on others to judge your value, it becomes "the value of others".

If you care so much about what others think of you, then you live for them. Is it worth it?

Most of the time, no one cares what you do. Just like most people don't care what they do.

We care more about what others think of us than others.

Advantages:

The existence of others makes us know ourselves better.

Caring about other people's opinions is a natural motivation, which will make you progress more easily.

Accepting other people's opinions can help you get rid of the bad side.

People with high self-esteem are easy to succeed, and they can also pay due attention to other people's opinions.

Question:

People who often think that others are paying attention to you, or want to get attention from others, will have a more troublesome life (living for other people's opinions will be very tiring).

When you care too much about what others think of you, realize that many people will not give you any help, or even throw cold water on you and hold you back more often (just ignore these people and do what you think is right and worthwhile).

If you always want to show your best side to others, it will only lead to your high emotional tension and people will become very sensitive (in fact, it is easier for others to accept and live more easily by letting nature take its course and being the truest self).

Attitude:

Don't care too much about what others think of you, the key is what you think of yourself.

Don't take what others say as true, it may not be true.

Don't completely rely on other people's ideas, and don't completely care about other people's opinions; Only by accepting opinions can we make progress and consider others is the correct way of life.

Reflect on others' evaluation of themselves.

Our destiny is in our own hands, not in others' mouths.

Tell yourself: I know what is more important to me than what others think.

Method:

Do more interesting things, enrich your life and focus on yourself.

Keep a clear head and do what you think is right.

Do not suppress your feelings, dare to love and hate.

Learn to be responsible for yourself and don't try to cater to others' expectations.

Enhance psychological resilience and endurance, be aware, adjust yourself, and keep an open mind.

Focus on realizing your dreams and self-improvement, and spend more time on things you can control.

To form their own stable self-awareness, so as not to be easily influenced by others. Before others evaluate ourselves, we should have a clear and appropriate self-evaluation, so as not to be easily shaken and hit by others.

Parenting education:

Don't expect too much from your children.

Tell children not to care too much about the harm of other people's opinions.

Let the child feel the unconditional love of his parents, no matter what he is, his parents will love him.

Usually use specific encouragement instead of praise to let children know where they are.

Guide children to accept evaluations objectively, help them analyze which of these evaluations are in line with the facts, and make them better in evaluation.

Help children adjust their emotions and vent their emotions reasonably.