For this problem, we must first analyze the reasons. Why would a child forge a signature?
1, because I didn't do well in the exam, I was worried about being scolded.
Many times, children lie because they are afraid to face the truth, and parents often make them afraid. Beating or punishing easily will naturally make children afraid to face reality. This is obviously a problem of parents' past education methods, and it is not necessarily a problem of children.
2. Children feel that parents do not attach importance to their children's education.
Some parents care too much, and some parents don't care. For example, many left-behind children, whose parents are working, are alone in their hometown, and some elderly people who take care of them have no academic qualifications, do not attach importance to their children's learning or are unable to do so. I came into contact with a child who said that all his papers were signed by himself because of the teacher's request, but no one around him could help him sign them.
Some parents may be busy at work occasionally, and occasionally say that they will let their children sign it themselves. As a result, the child felt that this was nothing serious. Perhaps when parents think it is important not to sign for them, children also think it is excusable to sign for them.
And this situation is still a problem of family education.
Many times, it is actually a good thing that children's problems are discovered. Fortunately, the emergence of problems gives us a chance to get close to our children again.
Talk to the child first and ask him why he did it. what do you think?
If the child is silent and doesn't want to talk about it, he can guess: Are you afraid of mom and dad hitting you? Scold you? Still think you didn't do well in the exam? Sorry to say?
Tell your child that grades are not the only criterion to measure him. But let the children say: How do you feel about this achievement? What do you think we should do? Let the children think about whether they have made serious efforts in the near future, and improve the shortcomings, and make adjustments in future studies.
However, there is another possibility that if the child does well in the exam, he may forget to ask his parents to sign it. So I remembered it when I went to school this morning, and then I signed it myself.
In either case, it means that the child is deceiving himself. So we can guide our children to say: We should be honest children, and the rule in our family is that everyone should be honest.
Don't scold, communicate with your child calmly. So that children won't do similar things out of fear.
If you beat your child again because of this, then maybe many things will become more and more irreparable.