1, marriage depends on how the family views a family and what the children will look like. An irresponsible parent, then the child must have no opinions and ideas, and can only rely on his parents. After all, if you want to choose a partner, you must consider this family factor. Because family relations have a great influence on marriage, after all, marriage is a lifetime thing, so you should be more cautious. Look at the behavior of the other parents, and you can also roughly see what kind of state your future life will be.
Some parents are superior to women, others are cowardly, selfish and even tough, so in such a family, they will live unhappy. That kind of treasure mother and silly filial piety are the last to marry. Once you get married, your future life will be a chicken feather, and you will be the one who is ultimately wronged. Therefore, before getting married, we must see each other's family clearly and spend more time with each other's parents. After all, these real lives can't be hidden. The way these parents get along in daily life actually hides a person's personality.
2. Look at each other's ranking of life. Everyone has a different orientation of life and a different ranking of people around them. Then if you want to step into marriage, you need to see clearly your position in each other's hearts. You can be filial to your parents, but you can't just regard your parents as your whole life in the future. Correct life ranking is a better guarantee for marriage. A happy marriage will always put each other first, instead of blindly listening to parents and doing things according to their intentions.
Therefore, at any moment, men need to stand firm and see clearly the status of parents and wives. Filial piety to parents is right, and these are all things that children should do. However, regardless of the specific situation, it is wrong to blindly "conform" to the mother-in-law. And the correct marriage ranking, the relationship between husband and wife is always the first, because the person who can accompany you in the end must be your other half, and the person who will sign the surgery must be him. Therefore, before you get married, you should recognize your position in each other's hearts.
3, marriage is not a better marriage, and it is never necessary to endure it, but he can be less stingy with you and he is willing to pay for you, so that such feelings can last for a long time. Many women are humble at the first time when they encounter something, knowing that they are not bad, but in order to maintain that marriage and relationship, they blindly lower themselves and be humble. Later, I couldn't bear it anymore, so I proposed separation. In fact, when a relationship and marriage ask you to be patient, it has gone bad.
Most women put up with it blindly, and the other party doesn't feel compromised, but it won't be blatant, and it feels like you are pushing your luck. Women should never be patient in marriage, and eventually they will only collapse again and again. A better marriage depends not on one person, but on the love and dedication of two people. A good marriage is not necessarily a good one. But if the man is poor, the marriage will not be much better.
The greatest advantage of a woman in marriage is that independence does not have to be extravagant. After marriage, I will be raised by men, and then I will live a life of luxury food. This is also the taboo of marriage. Remember, the richer a man is, the more he will dislike your poverty, independence and lack of ambition. If a woman wants to be equal in marriage, she should learn to be independent, so that she can have a lot of love and money.
A person's self-confidence is inseparable from money. Only when you are truly independent and have more and more money, you should not be afraid of losing it, and you can be yourself more truly and only love yourself. Women's sense of security comes not from men, not from their families, but from themselves. If you are independent and rich, even if marriage goes wrong, then you have the ability to choose marriage, instead of blindly enduring and wronged yourself. Remember, the sense of security brought by money at any moment is more specific than anything else. Therefore, whether before marriage or after marriage, women need to recognize the reality and learn to be independent.