Mastering the skills of WeChat chat will get twice the result with half the effort. Whether you want to talk more with each other or end the chat with each other happily, you need skills.
Then I'll take a look at the skills you need to use in WeChat chat. Don't spray if you don't speak well. Pay attention to me if you say it well. There are many wonderful contents to share with you.
So first of all, let me talk about the skill of chatting up, that is, adding strangers. Plus some strangers strike up a conversation, the success rate is extremely high.
1: I guess you are in a good mood now. If I guess wrong, punish me for chatting with you for one day.
2: I have always been sincere to you. Ask me if you don't believe me.
3: People who entered the community for the first time saw you at a glance. Do you want to talk about it?
4. There is a question in my mind for a long time. Can you answer it for me?
I like your signature very much. Can you share it?
6: What's going on?
7: What questions do you think I should ask you to get to know you?
8: What should I say when greeting strangers and making friends?
9: I saw something from your information.
10: Will you forget me? Will you really forget me?
Under normal circumstances, the other party can't refuse such a dialogue, and the success rate is very high. Most people are willing to help others, and some problems will put them in a loving situation and want to help you. Curious people will have it. When you say what you saw in your message, what is the other person's first reaction? If you want to know the answer, you should change the focus of the topic at this time, say from one aspect first and then move to other aspects, and then see how you develop.
The skill of choosing a topic, when two people chat several times, in order to chat more happily, choosing a good topic can enhance the emotional communication between the two sides, so that the other party will not interrupt the chat because of other things, even if they leave urgently, they will come back to chat as soon as they are free.
1: A friend's story is a good topic. It can be said to be true, or it can be said to be a spoof or something embarrassing.
2. Hot events, almost everyone will pay attention to some of the hottest events, and it is best to have their own unique views, or to have a * * * voice with them.
3. Find some familiar topics that have been used before. They used to work and they are still working this time.
4. Seek the content that the other party is interested in, such as the other party likes pets, the other party likes traveling and so on.
Remember to replace closed questions with open questions as much as possible, and popularize what are open and closed questions.
Open-ended questions: Ask questions that are relatively general, broad and wide-ranging, and there is no strict limit on the content of the answers, giving the other party sufficient room to play.
Room. This kind of question is relatively easy and unobtrusive.
Closed-ended question: Ask a question with a unique answer, a small scope and limitations, and have certain restrictions on the content of the answer. When asking questions, give them one.
A framework for the other person to choose from several alternative answers. This kind of question allows the respondent to answer the question according to the specified idea, and
Stay on topic.
For example, open basic vocabulary, "what", "where" and "how about it?" "Why? Talk about feelings or something. Using these words, asking questions or topics can let the other person play freely and say whatever he wants, leaving a lot of room for chatting.
Some closed basic words, "May I?" "Right?" "Right?" "How long" and so on. With these words, the other party has no choice. When chatting with you, he can only answer, yes, good, right, and so on, and talk to death.
After talking to a certain extent, we will begin to understand each other's real basic situation.
You can't just ask where you are from. What do you do?
You can ask in another way, what's so interesting about you? I also want to know where the other person is, so it is much more comfortable to ask in another way.
Will you encounter any problems at work? So as to know what the other party is engaged in.
By extension, you can also ask how your leader is. How do colleagues get along? You can know from the other person's reply how the other person's character is and whether it is worth continuing to associate.
Let's talk about how to end the chat without offending each other. Do you find it difficult to finish chatting sometimes, especially when the other person is very enthusiastic? Let me talk about some skills about ending a chat. Don't spray if you don't speak well. Please comment.
First of all, you must choose the right time to end the chat, so as to keep your image. Let's talk about how to end the topic first.
1: Never say good night to a girl or wait for a girl to say good night. Very boring. Once someone says good night, it means I don't want to talk to you anymore. I never want to see a woman say good night to me.
2. Give positive comments, you can thank the other person for taking the time to chat with you, and the other person can understand that you don't want to continue chatting. If you have to make time for something important, just say so.
3. Back to the original purpose of chatting, the most natural way to chat is to talk back to the topic itself. At this point, you can make a summary of the other person's conversation and say something like "Your suggestion about XX is very good, I will try", indicating that the conversation has achieved its purpose, and you can close the chat window.
4. If the chat time is too long, you can directly express your willingness to end the chat. For example, it's almost evening 1 1 half past ten. It's time to have a rest. I will go to work tomorrow. I'm sorry, we'll talk about it next time ... whether you really want to rest or not, it's hard for the other party to refuse such a vague excuse.
End the conversation politely, not blindly accommodating the other party, but letting the other party know that the chat is over on the basis of a pleasant chat. In learning to chat happily, we need to learn and accumulate. Emotional intelligence can be low, but the most basic manners can't be lost.
There will be wonderful content for you in the future. Welcome to pay attention and comment.