In recent years, there have been two "difficult diseases" that have tested contemporary middle-aged people, one of which is "LIAC visit". When children begin to be consulted about doing homework, "patients" of this type will lose control, their blood pressure is rising, as if they were being robbed. It is worth noting that now eight parents have this problem. It can be seen that "learning to accompany their children" is a problem faced by many families.

There are many video clips on the Internet. When children are writing homework, they are also "all kinds of magical powers": what is the "seven-seven-five" multiplication; the English letter "W reads big bull, W is little bitch"; the return to the ancient poem "Wine and Coffee"; Doing math problems, the number is "1! 2!" The final total is 8. People laughed when they read it, and their parents looked at their faces.

There are even parents who use "Can I do it to let my children do their homework consciously?" as a personalized signature on their own social software, and you can feel the helplessness of parents from the line. Asking about homework can also be a topic of conversation when you get together with friends. Parents are not in pain, and more netizens use "stay away from attacks" to ridicule parents who have consultation homework: after reading the work, they can also exchange communication, and it is difficult to think about it.

Thinking about it carefully, it is mainly because the parent-child relationship is in a young stage when consulting children to do homework. Children entering primary school have completed operations, physiology and psychology, and it takes time to adapt for the first time, and they have not developed good study habits, and their self-cultivation is not strong. So what do parents do as their children adjust?

1. Place the mentality

Parents need to give their children a psychological change and understand that the ultimate goal of learning is to bring a better future to their children. To this end, parents need to understand that "drop-in time" is about: respecting the nature of trees, the nature of trees, and trusting each tree. Each Saplio has the potential to grow into a large tree. The same goes for children.

2. Analyze the reasons

"Children's writing work is honed" and "I don't want to write homework or always make mistakes", this is the fire of guidance from parents. However, when encountering this situation, parents need to look at it fundamentally. Sometimes the status of the child and the root cause are inconsistent, which requires a lot of observation. For example, some children write homework, but if they are unwilling to write well, they are likely to encounter problems that cannot be solved in the process of completing the work. At this time, parents need help analyzing the cause of this problem: Yes, I didn't listen carefully? Don't I understand? I still get it. When parents help their children get to the root of a problem, it's easier to solve. Won't it get angry at your child? Parents will not use their children to learn these 5 points, they will learn consciously.

3. Designate time

Parents try to encourage children to complete their homework independently. Under the premise of understanding the child's homework, estimate the time based on the child's current ability and previous speed. For example, if a child usually takes 30 minutes to complete, then give him 35 minutes, but he still reaches your child's 30 minutes. When a child completes his homework and the time has not yet arrived, he will have a sense of accomplishment. Parents can also encourage their children based on the quality of their work. Five more minutes is actually an invisible affirmation of their children, allowing them to improve their problems at the same time.

4. Learn to let go

In order to let children have their own things, writing down your homework is each student's "job", and parents do not have to intervene. Some parents prefer "accompanied reading." Every time they write a question, they start talking about the mistake and don't give the child a chance to think for themselves. This time it is very long and it will only make the child dependent on the parents and does no good. Parents should act as catalysts to help their children develop good habits of independent writing assignments. They only check the completion of the operation. For mistakes, he checks himself and does not let the children have the illusion of parents and teachers.

5. Respect children

Many parents try to make their children comply with their own requirements, but in fact, there is a "perfect child" standard in their own hearts, so parents do not have to It is unfair for him to use his own ideas to give to his children. But you should put yourself in his shoes, try to understand your own ways, and guide him in a way that he is willing to accept.

Most of children's problems come from the parents themselves, so when there is a problem, parents need to control their emotions, do not call them, and then think about what the problem is so that the children can be better. It is also known that the process of educating children is also a process of parents, and parents will grow up with their children.