First, don't lose yourself trying to please anyone. People who really like you like all your looks, and people who know you will naturally know what you are.

Second, over-consideration of other people's feelings is a kind of disapproval of oneself. A person who lives in the eyes of others forever is equal to never having existed.

Third, be a good girl who is light in the wind and light in the clouds, and does not dispute, grab or rush. Don't live up to yourself, don't make do with life, your existence deserves all the beauty in the world.

Fourth, besides marrying you and transferring money, don't take your likes and misses too seriously. If you are caring and careful, you'd better make a lot of money.

Maybe you have taken many wrong paths, wronged many people, suffered many betrayals and been in a state of extreme poverty, but it doesn't matter. As long as you are alive, there is always hope, and the rest of your life is long, so there is no need to panic.

6. There is no fast lane for success and no highway for happiness. All success comes from unremitting efforts and running; All happiness comes from ordinary struggle and persistence.

Remember, you can cry and hate, but you can't be weak, because there are still a group of people waiting to see your jokes!

Eight, when people reach a certain age, they must learn to be silent, and every sentence should be useful, weighty and meaningful. Emotions are invisible, and major events are indifferent.

No matter what the weather is like, give yourself a sunny world; No matter the seasons change, make your heart full of birds and flowers.

Be a gentle girl, treat the world gently, be a strong girl, not confused, not trapped in love, not afraid of the future, not thinking about the past.