Parents in grade four write a letter to their children.
Dear daughter:
The tenth birthday is coming, and mom should speak for you with a pen like a friend. At the age of ten, you have entered a new starting point in your life journey than when you first entered the world. At this time, you have begun to understand, and your mother can chat freely with you, relive the past together, and recall the dribs and drabs of your growth.
When the floodgate of memory is opened, the past events, like rushing waves, flood into my mind. Limited by time and space, mom can't tell you everything she can remember, but she will choose one wave and dedicate it to you at the age of ten. Son, don't expect this spray to shine like pearls, which will make the wreath of your tenth birthday more dazzling. Frankly speaking, my mother wants to expose your shortcomings, because my mother deeply realizes that good medicine tastes bitter and is good for illness, and advice when you are unhappy is good for action. My mother hopes that this unpleasant advice, like a wave that cleans people's hearts and washes away dust, will make my lovely daughter more fresh and lovely.
I remember when you were in the first grade, one night your mother came to pick you up excitedly from school. Teacher Wang told me a wonderful thing: because you forgot to ask your mother to sign your Chinese book after reading the text last night, when Teacher Wang wanted to make a spot check, you were so anxious that you imitated your mother's handwriting and secretly signed your mother's name in the textbook. Of course, all this can't escape Mr. Wang's sharp eyes. Teacher Wang stopped you on the spot, and then patiently chatted with you. Out of a sense of responsibility, Mr. Wang told all this to his mother face to face. Son, do you know what mom and dad hate most? Is lying! Because some children will go bad at first because of lying. When you get home, mom and dad hit you hard. You cried, and you cried very sadly. You don't understand why signing an autograph will make your parents so angry, and you still feel wronged. What you thought at that time was just to make up for-to make up for the mistakes you forgot, to make up for your mother's failure to check. However, son, mom and dad have to teach you a lesson in this harsh way. In order to remind you that mom and dad are against you doing this, we would rather you be criticized by the teacher for forgetting things than muddling along and contaminating your little heart. Son, at that time, you were not sensible and could not tell right from wrong. It's hard to tell you the truth. Mom and dad have no choice but to take rough measures, hoping to leave a deep mark on your heart. Seriously, parents don't want to be soft and reasonable with you, but as the saying goes: beating is pro, scolding is love, and sometimes deep love can only be expressed by beating and scolding. To mom's delight, you have never made a similar mistake since then. And whether I am praised or criticized at school, I can tell my mother in detail when I get home. At this moment, my mother wrote here, and I can't help but feel deep respect and gratitude to Mr. Wang. It was her insight into everything that nipped the dishonest seeds in the bud in time. Three years have passed and now you know a lot. Are you grateful and fully understand your parents' pains?
Son, I also want to tell you that my care and love for you began when you were still in your mother's womb. I will give you prenatal education, and I hope you will be optimistic and cheerful after birth. Smart. Then I took great pains to name you. You already know that I named you Chen Ken for its homonym "Cheng". I hope you can be sincere to others. There is another meaning. Mom tells you now that the reason why she named you "Ken" is to show that you are a kind of Xin Wei in your parents' hearts and your position in their hearts.
Son, since you were born, mom and dad have no happiness and troubles that only belong to them. Your little progress, even if it is so small, is enough to touch the nerves of parents' happiness; Your retrogression is enough to make us deeply disappointed and uneasy. And mom cares more about what others say about you than about her own. I remember that Mr. Chen, who taught you first-grade mathematics, once said a comment about you to my mother, and my mother still remembers it. Once, Mr. Chen spoke highly of you: "Your daughter is really cute, smiling at people, really likable, and a healthy child." Mother listened, her heart was as sweet as honey. Because the optimistic and enterprising character is what the mother deliberately created for her children, and it can be affirmed by the teacher, which shows that the mother's hard work has not been in vain. What could be more gratifying than this? !
Son, you will be ten years old. Please remember that mom and dad will always be your most reliable friends. Your life has just begun. It won't be full of flowers, and you will encounter setbacks. I hope you can tell your parents something in your heart: let's share happiness together; If you are in trouble, we will solve it for you. Mom and dad will always pay attention to your growth. We believe that you will make great progress as you get older. Work hard, my child. You won't disappoint the gardener and your parents who are bent on cultivating your talents, will you?
My current feelings and review:
Time flies, eighteen years have passed, my daughter has grown from an ignorant teenager to a promising young man, and I have also stepped into the ranks of retired people from a middle-aged professional woman. I don't know if it's because I'm getting old and soft-hearted, or because my vision has widened since the reform and opening up. My values have undergone a subversive change. Re-examining this matter, I feel that I really made a mountain out of a molehill at that time. In those years, sesame and mung beans went online indefinitely. If time can be reversed, I will handle this matter rationally, and I will put down my posture and discuss this matter with my little daughter in a down-to-earth manner. Actually, this matter has nothing to do with honesty or not. From my daughter's point of view, I can fully understand what she has done-my daughter is tired of being a good student in the eyes of class cadres and teachers! After learning about it, I told her practically and forgot to ask my mother to sign it. This is normal. If I forget, I will forget that you are not my mother. It is wrong of you to sign my name. You ask your parents to sign all your homework so frequently, and maybe there are occasional omissions. You will be criticized by the teacher and have a long memory. Just try to avoid it.
I think that after so many years, most of my daughters have forgotten this matter, but I still want to say to my daughter: I'm sorry! Please forgive my mother's simple and rude behavior in those days!
xxx
Xx year xx month xx day
Parents in the fourth grade write messages to their children.
Dear baby:
It's a pleasure to witness your 10-year-old growth ceremony. My mother carefully recorded your 10 year.
20xx65438+1October 10 is the most unforgettable day in my mother's life. My father and I welcomed the most important person in our lives. Although the delivery process was so hard, there were tears and blood, and I almost lost you. When I heard your crying in the delivery room, I couldn't help it any longer. I let my tears flow and all kinds of joys and sorrows welled up in my heart. Looking at your red face, I secretly swear that in this life, I would like to shelter you from the wind and rain, hold your hand and walk slowly with you.
You grow up day by day, and my father and I find you really smart. When you were less than two years old, you were talkative, shaking your head when reciting children's songs, dancing like a fool, and chatting with us like an adult, which brought endless happiness to my father and me. Those unforgettable pictures will be engraved in our hearts forever. We want you to grow up quickly, but we are afraid of you growing up. I often tell my father that as time goes by, we have less and less days with you. When you grow up and leave us for school and work, how can I give up that concern? You often say, mom, I don't want to go to college, because then I won't see you for a long time. Every time I say this, my mother is so sour. So now I selfishly hope that you will never grow up.
In my impression, the most unforgettable thing is the time when you went to kindergarten. You are obedient and smart, like a lovely doll. That was the first time you left me. It's eight hours from 8 am to 4 pm. You think your mother won't want you anymore. Your heart is broken. That day, I was crazy. With anxiety and anxiety, I arrived at the kindergarten gate early after 3 o'clock. You cried for a whole month. I still remember when my mother left, I couldn't bear to look you in the eye every day. 10 On June 8, you finally waved your little hand and said goodbye to me with tears, and finally stopped crying.
The days of practicing piano are really hard. Four or five-year-old children, those white and tender hands, put all the scars on the strings. Grandma was angry with me and shut me out. In fact, my heart hurts more than yours. Maybe you can't understand, but my mother just wants you to know that no matter what you do, no matter how difficult you encounter, I hope you can stick to it and don't give up easily. When you succeed, you will be grateful for your suffering and the tears you shed. Actually, mom really admires you. It's not easy to persist. You are the best!
Remember the first day of primary school? That day, mom helped you comb your beautiful hair and wear beautiful new clothes. You walked in front of me with your new schoolbag on your back, and I secretly picked up the camera to freeze the happiness of that day. I think when I get old, I will take out these happiness and taste it again. I don't want to miss any scenes about you. That kind of greed, only parents can understand.
In the blink of an eye, you will be ten years old. When I grew up, I had my own ideas about many things and lost my obedient and sensible childhood. Sometimes you have to make your parents angry. Actually, we don't mean any harm. We don't want to criticize you. We just want to tell you what is right and wrong in our experience, so that you can avoid detours on the road of growth. We want to protect you. I think you will understand later. We agreed to be your good friends with mom and dad forever, okay? You can share anything with us, and we can solve any difficulties together.
Xin Wei, I think you should remember that once, we had a quarrel and my mother was very angry. We haven't said a word all day. The next day, I heard you get up, say hello to your father and say goodbye to your father, but you just didn't want to talk to me. I know you don't know how to ease the relationship with me, but I've been sad all day. Through teacher Wang's careful teaching, you should have listened to the movement in the corridor at the door early that night, right? How much you expect me to go home early, since you took the initiative to help me open the door and change my shoes, and then jumped into my arms to apologize to me. I felt your sincerity, fear and injustice on that trembling shoulder. That time, I was so moved. You said that a child who has no mother's care is not happy at all. Mom, I hope you can take care of me. I turned my back and didn't want you to see my tears. Now that you have learned to take the initiative to reconcile when you are angry, you will take the initiative to pull me to be spoiled. My mother enjoys this feeling. We promise not to quarrel again, okay?
Ten years, a thousand words can't be said, and every bit is in my heart. I don't want to miss every step of your growth, I just hope you can grow up healthily. Baby, I hope that no matter what happens in the future, you can stay calm and listen to your parents patiently, because you know that you are unhappy when you are angry. Mom wants to send you a message: don't leave the worst temper and the worst mood to the person who loves you the most. You are actually very cute, very filial and a caring girl; You are a diligent, intelligent and capable girl. You are mom and dad's favorite, and we love you forever! I believe you will get better and better, come on!
xxx
Xx year xx month xx day
Parents in the fourth grade write messages to their children.
Baby:
My good daughter, my good son, my dear baby!
Today is your 10 birthday. Mom wishes you: Happy birthday! Healthy and happy!
On October 25th, xxxx 10 years ago, you came into this world from your mother's belly. How time flies! You 10 years old. In the past 10 years, my mother gave you all the love and care she could. "I can do anything for you." "I can give up everything for you." These words really fit mom's love for you. From babbling to toddler, from being young and ignorant to being considerate and sensible, from being illiterate to being a good student, you have brought endless happiness, happiness and hope to your mother. Mom, thank you, thank you for making me feel like a great mother, thank you for making me feel the hope of life and the happiness of life.
I remember: your thin body suffered from illness. Due to the mother's lack of understanding of the first phase, the mother's milk was not smooth after giving birth to you, which led to you not eating a drop of mother's milk after only breastfeeding for 2 months. Without breast milk, my mother lacks feeding experience. She listened to your grandmother. She used to be the director of obstetrics and gynecology in the county hospital. Two months later, she began to feed you fresh milk delivered to your door every morning, and heated it for six or seven minutes after each boiling. In this way, we have always adhered to the feeding scheme of "fresh milk is the mainstay, supplemented by milk powder". When you were half a year old, I suddenly found that your weight was getting lower and lower, and I didn't pay enough attention to it. Until I was two or three years old, I was in poor health during this period and fell ill at both ends for three days. Except for the time to go to the small clinic and the pharmacy to see a doctor and get medicine, I have to go to the hospital once a month on average. Basically, you need infusion after a cold and cough. In my mother's memory, you had pneumonia nearly 10 times before you were 5 years old, and each infusion took more than a week. Seeing the sharp needle mercilessly plunge into your delicate skin, my mother's heart can't help but ache, and she will always blame herself, regretting that she didn't take good care of you and made you miserable. But no matter how careful your mother is, as long as you lay bedding for a little night, as long as your clothes are too cold and overheated, or even sweat once, you will catch a cold. In this case, other children can eat Banlangen or something, or even drag it. If not, the situation will get worse. See you don't think about diet, your health is extremely poor, and your mother took you to Chongqing Children's Hospital for examination when you were 3 years old. The doctor inquired about your diet since birth in detail and criticized that we should not use fresh milk instead of formula milk. She said that fresh milk is only suitable for children over 1 year old, but it will seriously damage the gastrointestinal function of children under 1 year old. No wonder your stomach has always been poor. You can only eat a little milk, milk powder, rice and even snacks at a time. Now, you 10 years old, you can only eat half a bowl of rice and a small amount of meat and vegetables per meal. Every time you catch a cold and get sick, my mother always looks at you helplessly and regrets that you didn't lay a good foundation for your physical fitness when you were a child. It is our parents who lack knowledge of feeding their children, but it is you who suffer physically.
I remember: my mother worked hard and sweated for you. After your father and I got married, we separated for more than 8 years, and mother and daughter almost lived alone. From the time you were born to the age of 3, you lived in the same room with your mother (you agreed to sleep with your aunt and grandmother after the age of 3). At night, your mother takes you to sleep and takes care of your food and drink, but you sleep in a small bed and your mother sleeps in a big bed. Because there is no breast milk, you can only mix milk powder at night. In the past year, you often have to wake up five or six times every night, sometimes you have to eat milk, and sometimes you cry for no reason. Mother can't guess your mind, so she has to hold you in her hand and put you to sleep while walking back and forth in the bedroom. Twenty minutes later, you finally fell asleep crying, and then I fell asleep. But as soon as I fell asleep, you began to cry again, and then I started to walk and sleep again. When you come down in one night, you have to go back and forth three or four times at most. I'm really tired, and I have to work the next day. /kloc-After 0/year old, your needs can be communicated through language. /kloc-before the age of 0, sleeping every night was much better, but new problems came again. In poor health, I often get sick. You have a fever at night, and your mother has to stay up all night, rubbing wine, rubbing body, rubbing aloe, etc. Give it to you, and then take your temperature; You cough at night and you can't stop coughing. Mom can only hold you for an hour or two until you fall asleep, so that your posture will be higher and your cough will be lighter. Whenever you have a performance in the garden or school, my mother will always arrive early to take pictures of you and cheer you on.
I remember: every progress and gain on your growth path. For the first time, I will call you "mom", for the first time, take your faltering steps, for the first time, walk alone, for the first time, eat with a spoon ... When you were in a large kindergarten class, you first boarded the performance stage to be a model, and the excitement and expectation at that time were still in sight. In the calligraphy interest class, you got the first calligraphy award certificate, and your mother's pride was written on your face; After three years of primary school, he won the title of "three-good students" and "three-star teenagers" in two years, and became a member of the school's red scarf supervision post, as well as a monitor and study Committee member. These achievements show your mother your growth and progress.
Son, while you should be happy with your many achievements, your mother is also here to tell you about your shortcomings. Although my mother has communicated with you many times in her life, some shortcomings have not been effectively improved, and they still exist and even have a growing trend.
One is the lack of good study habits. Mom remembers that when you were in the first grade of primary school, the first thing to do when you came home every day was to finish your homework, and then wait for mom to check and sign after work; Now, you have given up this very good study habit. The first thing to do when I go home now is not to do my homework, but to play, watch TV and play computer first. In short, do something that has nothing to do with study, and then wait until time can't wait to get a pen and start doing homework. On Saturday and Sunday, you even forget the existence of homework, and often don't start doing the homework assigned on Friday until Sunday night; You have to take a calligraphy interest class on Sunday morning and do your calligraphy homework on Saturday night. Mom told you the truth and criticized you in front of people, but you didn't seem to fully listen, at least you didn't do well. Mom wants you to do your homework like the first grade, okay?
The second is the lack of necessary self-control. Enthusiastic about TV and computer, ignoring the protection of eyes. As soon as mom mentioned this topic, you knew that mom was a cliche, or you might be tired of hearing it yourself. Well, mom just wants to tell you that eyes are very important for people's study, growth, further education, employment and life, so we must take good care of them. Can you watch TV and play computer? Yes! However, first, we should pay attention to the grasp of time, Saturday and Sunday can be; Second, pay attention to the duration of each time, not more than an hour.
The third is the lack of good daily behavior habits. In your body, there are some bad habits, such as not brushing your teeth on time, writing in the wrong posture, speaking impolitely and pouting. Mom thinks you can correct them.
Honghong, my baby, my mother still has a lot to say to you. I hope we are good friends in life as before, we can communicate with each other and be mother and daughter like friends. Today is your 10 birthday. Mom wishes you again: Happy birthday! Your health, your happiness, your growth and your progress are your mother's greatest wish and hope!
Love your mother forever.
Xx year xx month xx day
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