I don’t know why, but in the past few years

More and more people ask me the mysterious question of "age"

Obviously I am 18 years old The eternal age of us girls

Any questions

When I was scrolling through Moments, I saw a WeChat name

“Old aunt in 1997” "

In 1997, the old aunt

The mood I felt when I saw it was probably similar to your mood now

Silently calculating my seniority in my heart

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When I was in high school, I had no interest in those fresh colors that were so girly.

I had no interest in them at all.

Whether it was clothes or daily necessities, they were all the same. ：Black, white and gray

When you are 17 or 8 years old, you are always trying to become mature

Never wear canvas shoes when you can wear high heels

I will never wear babydoll-style clothes in the style of a royal sister

I will never go bare-faced when I can put on makeup

And as a 25-year-old me

For those pink fans, I can’t resist blue things at all

The furnishings at home are completely out of style

Pink mouthwash cup, pink storage box, pink and white tissue box... ...

All kinds of dolls and dolls piled up into a hill

The previous royal sister, mature style, was long gone.

How comfortable is it? Come here

There will no longer be any trace of high heels in the shoe cabinet

Here I am very grateful to my company boss, who does not have high requirements for the image of his employees

Myself Just wear it happily

No, autumn is coming soon, and the cold has been unexpectedly cold recently

I even put on fleece pants

My mother doesn’t have to think that I should wear long johns, I just wear them myself

From 18 to 25 years old, not only does age increase, but also worries

About feelings

"You are 25, have you dated your boyfriend? When will you bring him back to see?"

"Your aunt's daughter is already two years old"

"Uncle **'s son is 3 years older than you. He is a civil servant..."

At 25, it's time to talk about marriage

Are there any people who work in the meantime? A colleague, a little girl born in 1996

Later I found out that she was already the mother of a 3-year-old child

Give us: no matter what life is like, single or married, have independent consciousness and The complete personality is what is important. All roads lead to Rome. Follow your heart and there will always be a road that belongs to you.

About work

25 years old

Some people choose to work hard in the first-tier cities, which are in dire straits. They may be busy and hard, or they may be passionate. But the good thing is, struggle.

Some people choose to enter higher education institutions to continue their studies. They may feel anxious and lonely, but they may live in peace and quiet. But the good thing is, sublimation.

Perhaps those who are pursuing further studies envy the liveliness and excitement of the workplace, while those in the workplace are even more envious of the quieter years of further studies.

To us: No matter where you are, persistence is important, and goals are even more important. Think about what I like, what I am suitable for, and what I can do. Only by not forgetting your original intention can you achieve success.

About money

25 years old

I no longer have the heroic spirit that I used to regard money as dirt

Once, I felt

Talking about money with your partner will hurt your relationship

Talking about money with your friends will hurt your friendship

Talking about money with your boss will hurt your future

Although During that time, I lived a very happy and free life, and I even felt that my family's hard work for money was so utilitarian.

Until I get close to life and no one else carries the burden for me. Only then did I realize that firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, and tea are necessities; music, chess, calligraphy, painting, poetry, and wine are luxuries; and distant places are dreams.

To us: Never pretend that you don’t love money when you are young. Spend money wisely and leave bravely.

“I have heard many great truths, but I still cannot live a good life”

The voices of others are not important, what is important is Who are you?

Our life is just like seeking scriptures in Journey to the West

The choices we make on the way to growth are like the monsters and monsters on the journey to seek scriptures

Love and hate are in a moment, good and evil are in a thought< /p>

Hope: I am who I am, a different kind of fireworks