1. Except for illness and death, everything else is asking for trouble. 2. In the past, my ears were greedy and my words and songs were greedy; Now my mouth is timid, but I want to love but I don't mean it. 3. Ignoring others' feelings is selfish, and caring too much about others' feelings is self-abuse. I never envied others when I was with you. After you left, I began to envy everyone who could meet you. Let's face it, life is often much heavier than those idol dramas. 6. Growing up is never an instant thing, but after swallowing all the ups and downs that life has given you, you finally have that quiet certainty.