The movie "Snail House" made actor Zhang Jiayi famous. His character Song Siming made Xiao Bei, played by Wen, look like a child. It seems that after this TV series, middle-aged uncles began to become the new object of envy and pursuit of young women. After my friend Xiaojing ended several unreliable relationships with several peers, she firmly became an uncle-controller.

Many girls like men who are older than them. The reason is: they feel safe. Some people say that Chinese women are more likely to have an Electra complex because Chinese fathers are often absent when their children are growing up. Girls do not get enough emotional nourishment when they are young, so they put this loss and expectation on their love list. They place their two emotions on their fathers and lovers on older men, trying to satisfy their two hungers and thirsts in life through love. But as the saying goes, you can't have your cake and eat it too. The soil that produced this kind of father is also difficult to produce the kind of perfect lover who is both a father and a husband. Although Xiaojing received the loving care and care of her uncle, it was difficult to find the feeling of love again after the passionate love period.

Not long ago, she met an uncle who was almost forty years old. He had a decent job and was a clean and classy man. Living alone, divorced, daughter raised by ex-wife. When we first met, he would pick her up from get off work every day to have dinner with her and then go for a walk. She was quickly moved by his intentions, but before she could fully enjoy the feeling of being chased, her uncle kept talking about getting married. At first, Xiaojing thought this was a sign of her uncle's responsibility, but later she realized that it was because he didn't have time to fall in love.