The first time I met Zhu Yawen was in the TV series "Red Sorghum". Every time he appeared on the screen, the screen was full of male hormones, and his image of a tough guy was deeply rooted in people's hearts.

The second time I got to know Zhu Yawen was in "Sound on the Scene". His subwoofer-like voice made him become the dream lover of thousands of women overnight. More than one girl around me said, Zhu Yawen's wife is really going to die of happiness.

As a voice control person, I was once so fascinated by Zhu Yawen that I quickly went online to Baidu to find out about his wife. When I first saw this woman named Shen Jiani, I felt that she must be the kind of woman who is loved by life. Her facial features are very attractive, not stunning, but fresh and refined.

Zhu Yawen described Shen Jiani as "looking like a sika deer. She has a little pride, which can be ignored when she is calm. When she is jubilant, she can overturn the river and run up and down. She is not aggressive, but has a lot of character."

He also said that he likes the way his wife looks without makeup the most, because she can kiss her at any time. This kind of dog food is really admirable. Zhu Yawen and Shen Jiani fell in love because of drama, and they are as sweet as ever after their marriage. Zhu Yawen has been recognized as a good husband by the people through various performances. It is he who dotes on Shen Jiani like a little princess.

Having been in love for two years and married for six years, Zhu Yawen has never had any scandals. He can be alone in the entertainment circle of Yingying Yanyan and give his wife the best sense of security. I think this is love. The most beautiful look.

So, what has Zhu Yawen done to make everyone so envious? Today I want to tell you what qualities a man who can make you happy needs to have.

1. Sense of boundaries

The reason why Zhu Yawen is regarded as a maniac who dotes on his wife is because of his sense of boundaries. Once at Happy Camp, in order to let Zhu Yawen show off his male hormones, Teacher He suggested that he give Wu Xin a princess hug, but Zhu Yawen refused on the spot and said that he could give Teacher He a princess hug.

Teacher He joked that Wu Xin was too heavy. Zhu Yawen smiled and said, no, it’s because he is married.

At that moment, everyone was applauding. I thought this man was really handsome. On the stage, it is quite normal to have physical contact with female stars, especially in variety show games, but Zhu Yawen is so "rigid" and rejected all scandals with the sentence "I am married".

Another time, in "Sound on the Scene", the host asked Zhu Yawen to choose someone to talk about love. Zhu Yawen chose Haitao. The host asked if he wanted to change his female partner, but he immediately refused. : "I am safe if I choose Haitao."

Listening to these words full of desire for survival, I can't help but envy Shen Jiani again. She must have saved the earth in her previous life to meet someone who was so dedicated to her. One man.

Zhu Yawen once said: "What is outside the door is work, and what is inside the door is home, which cannot be destroyed no matter what." I think a good marriage requires such a boundary A man with a strong sense of security is always thinking about giving his partner a sense of security. He does not look for reasons or excuses, maintains his own bottom line, and protects his family.

Love is inherently unique and exclusive. A man who truly loves you will never tolerate the second person in his eyes, so how can he be willing to hurt you. Of course, those men who never care about your feelings must not love you.

I remember that during the Chinese New Year last year, my best friend, who was seven months pregnant, came to me crying. She said that she had seen photos of her husband and his colleagues holding hands with other women in their friend circles.

That day was the annual meeting of her husband's company. He came back very late, smelling of alcohol and perfume. She waited for half a night with a heavy belly, but her husband fell asleep when he came back without any explanation. .

She really wanted to ask him why he didn't answer the phone or reply to the message, but in the end she didn't ask anything because she knew that he would just perfunctory her as usual, saying that he thought too much and said I am ignorant.

The next day, my husband went to work as usual. My best friend was scrolling through her phone at home when she suddenly saw a girl in her husband’s company sending photos from yesterday’s event. One of them was a A very intimate photo of a woman wearing scantily clad clothes and heavy makeup holding her husband's arm.

My best friend said that at that moment her blood surged and her hands shook uncontrollably. She immediately called her husband and sent the photo to him, asking him what it was, but his husband only replied One: "Crazy."

She cried loudly at home and called her husband over and over again. When he finally got through, he became furious. He yelled at his best friend: "What did I do? Isn't that just taking a photo with my colleagues? If someone wants to hold my arm, can I take my hand away on the spot? Is that the case for you? I think you are really in trouble." I’m having a great time, I’m full.”

After hearing this, I was so angry that I wanted to beat up that scumbag. It’s not just a man who can say such things. Having no sense of boundaries is simply a bad idea. From the beginning to the end, he never thought about what was wrong with what he did. Instead, he felt that his wife was being pretentious. In his eyes, his wife should not ask anything, just stay at home and be his husband and raise children, and let him go and have a good time.

How can you be happy living with such a man? You have to worry all the time whether he has betrayed you or whether he is doing something sorry for you.

When a man blames a woman for being sensitive and cranky, please think more about whether you have given her a sufficient sense of security. If you can do what Zhu Yawen does, reject the advances of the opposite sex no matter what the occasion, and keep a distance from the opposite sex, I believe your wife will not be so afraid.

A good man never makes excuses for himself. He will take the initiative to do what he should do. Through Zhu Yawen, everyone will definitely be able to see that there is no ambiguity that cannot be rejected in this world, just look at It’s just whether you want to refuse or not.

If you want to be happy, find a man who knows how to keep a distance from the opposite sex, because by his side, you can be your little princess with peace of mind, instead of becoming a resentful woman destroyed by time.

2. Responsible

The most handsome look of a man is when he dares to take responsibility. Everyone likes Zhu Yawen not only because he is sexy, handsome, has walking hormones, has strong acting skills, and has a voice that is so crisp that one will lose his teeth, but because he is dedicated enough.

No matter what the occasion, Zhu Yawen always talked about being married and loving Shen Jiani. He would not consider whether the female fans were hurt or not, let alone who he offended, because in his life In my heart, my wife is the biggest and my family is the most important.

He has said that all passionate scenes will not be filmed if his wife does not agree. He has said that all his love words are said to his wife alone. He has said that he is sexy but not promiscuous. Leave all the sex appeal to your wife.

I think everyone may have calluses on their ears after listening to this, but this also gives their feelings the best barrier. Most people will definitely not flirt easily, because his attitude is completely Make it public.

I feel that if men all over the world could take such a firm stand, there would be a lot less mistresses and extramarital affairs in the world.

I know a boy. From the day he got a girlfriend, he changed his signature on various social networks to "married". Everyone laughed at him for being a strict henpeck, but he said this It is a man's responsibility.

Later, a female colleague wanted to take his car on the way after work. Before getting on the bus, he told her to sit in the back. The female colleague asked why, and he said that because the passenger seat was reserved for his wife, the position and angle were adjusted according to her habits, and her slippers and snacks were also placed, so it was better for others not to sit.

The next day, his deeds spread throughout the company, and female colleagues were saying that they could have such a man in their life and die without regrets.

I think this is the responsibility of a man. He is willing to announce his relationship with you to the world, is willing to resist all temptations for you, and is willing to give you a full sense of security. He is afraid that you will be sad and afraid that You shed tears, and I am even more afraid of you leaving.

So, if you meet a man who is unwilling to disclose his relationship with you, you should leave as soon as possible. He has never thought about being with you, so he hides it. , leaving various escape routes for oneself.

Love is selfish and selfless. Selfish because there is no room for a third person in your world. Selfless because the person who loves you can refuse the temptation of the whole world for you.

You must know that no matter how wild and romantic the person who truly loves you was before, after meeting you, he will willingly become your little puppy. If you wait, he will come.

I hope you can meet this person. Before meeting you, I never thought about getting married. After meeting you, I never thought about getting married with other people. May you join hands for a lifetime of happiness forever.