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There is a topic in Zhihu:

"What does your predecessor mean to you?"

when the question comes out, everyone has a different view.

Some people say, "The ex is like a magical existence. He always reminds you that you have been hurt in love. "

Some people say, "Every predecessor of mine is out of touch now! Even if it is impossible to be friends in the future, I will choose to fall in love with each other again. "

Others said, "I am very grateful to my predecessor. I learned a lot from him."

I think everyone's predecessors have different meanings to themselves.

some people are resentful, some people are sad, some people are sorry, and some people are grateful.

However, we have to admit that our predecessors play an extraordinary role in our love life.

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And if I say, what does my predecessor mean to me?

that is: "Thank you for coming, and I'm not sorry you left".

Thank you for being in my life. I have accumulated a lot of luck so that I can meet you.

even if you can only accompany me for a short walk.

even if you can only participate in one tenth of my life.

even if you can't stay with me all my life.

that doesn't matter either.

finally, I still don't regret your leaving.

Because, I clearly know that it is enough to meet some people in this life.

3

"Athena Chu", the actor of Zi Xia Fairy, who made a Chinese Odyssey, was once the dream lover of many men.

when we talk about Athena Chu, we have to mention "Master Xing".

In real life, they also admitted to a three-year underground romance, but they finally regretted breaking up.

In the program "Ace to Ace", Athena Chu tells his own feelings about love:

"You must learn to love yourself before you can give love to others. If the person in front of you can't see love in him, then go ahead, there are still many things waiting for you."

Athena Chu's attitude towards love is to thank Stephen Chow for appearing in her world, but not to regret his departure.

Now Athena Chu is married to Paul Wong, and has become a wife, a daughter has become a mother, and she has a happy life and a happy family.

4

You should thank that person for coming, and of course you will grow from it.

no matter what, heartache or pain.

the past is the past, but it can't go back.

since we can't go back, let's move on.

and all we can do is learn to let go, and then manage ourselves well to meet every possibility in life.

Hu Xinger once said that I am very grateful to my former predecessors and predecessors.

One of them taught me how to be an obedient girl.

one who taught me how to be a mature woman.

What I should thank most is myself. I can see my own advantages and disadvantages clearly in love and learn how to get along with my current position.

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In my opinion, love is actually one exam after another, which needs constant practice and experiment. It is with these experiences that we can be better protected from being hurt in love.

Some people who appear in our world leave deep traces, while others are just passers-by.

some people will stay, while others will leave eventually.

so don't be sad.

don't give up on those who appear in our lives but leave.

They don't appear in our lives for no reason, but always leave their own marks and teach us something.

For them to leave, it should be regarded as a result of doomed fate.

No matter whether it's hurt or regret, everything in the past turns into a thank you.

thank you, every one of my predecessors.

I'll accompany you to get drunk

The pub doesn't close late at night

No matter whether you are happy or unhappy

I'll accompany you to have a drink in the morning

There's still plenty of time

I'll just be your shoulder

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