"Children forget their mothers when they grow up". Mothers work hard to support their children to study and get married, but children are not close to their mothers when they grow up, and even they are too lazy to call their mobile phones, wondering about their lovesickness.

Mothers feel annoyed. Why do children seldom visit themselves and don't talk about their family? Mothers complain about their children. Their performance is silence, and they are very restless and difficult to describe.

In fact, children also look forward to having a close relationship with their mothers, even embracing each other. But for many years, the way of getting along with their mothers has long been fixed, and the way of body language expression and communication is not surprising. They can't get rid of the fortress in their hearts, and no one can master the loneliness in their hearts.

No mother doesn't love her children. They all choose the right way to treat their children, but sometimes children don't buy it. When they were young, their arms couldn't twist their thighs. Now they grow up independently and gradually want to solve the shackles of the original ecological family. When they grow up, they don't get close to their children with their mothers, which mostly comes from these three kinds of families

1. Mothers' ideas are rigid, and they are centralized < P > Mothers abide by the traditional parents' overbearing education and demand their children to obey unconditionally, otherwise they are unfilial and impose social and moral constraints. If children don't listen to their mothers, they will feel guilty, but they can't accept their mother's actions.

Mom likes to talk, but it's hard to say "no". It's strict and inflexible, and sometimes it's like being unreasonable. Children have to listen to their mothers when they are young, otherwise their mothers will be unhappy. When the child grows up and is far away from the mother's field of vision, he is farther and farther away from his mother, and his feelings are alienated.

2. Parents often quarrel and are not harmonious.

Mom and Dad are always quarreling, regardless of students' study, ignoring children's inner emotional anxiety. Children are lonely and worried, but they dare not talk to adults. In other words, it has no effect.

For a long time, children are very disappointed and helpless, intentionally or unintentionally distancing themselves from their parents, which is an involuntary way to protect themselves.

3. The family environment is anxious and unpleasant.

The home should be a relaxing area. The child is like a happy bird outside, but when he comes home, he is cautious. If he doesn't know what to say wrong, he will get angry with his mother and make the child feel unhappy.

A mother speaks like a straight talker, showing no mercy to her child's faults, and seems to be strict with herself, but it will do some damage to the child's heart and cause a lack of confidence in her ability.

Although parents' hearts are hot and sincere, it is really good for their children. If we don't look at the way of speaking, just look at the nature of the problem, maybe some of them hit the nail on the head and poke at the point, but the child's fragile and sensitive heart will be a little unbearable.

Children like the form of inspiring interaction, hoping to get the recognition and praise from their mothers. Why do the people whose mothers are closest to their children grow apart from their mothers? Do they really have to wait until their children have children before they can realize their mother's sincerity? How many beautiful emotional feelings will be lost.

Being a standard and gentle mother, giving children a harmonious family atmosphere, sharing the same screen with their children, and being a trinity of mother, teacher and good friend will make their hearts happy.

Always say "I like you" and give each other a hug. May the relationship between the baby and the mother be very harmonious and closer, and witness the development of the years.