Actually, I don't quite agree with this view. There is always a need for one person to take the initiative between two people. If you love deeply enough, who is the difference?

Doing that is just testing your lover with time, and it really hurts the other half's heart.

In my opinion, don't fall in love with someone too soon, because it will make you blind and irrational.

Time may not test true love, but it can test a person's character and his own heart.

Why not fall in love with someone too early? There are four main reasons:

First, I can't see the other half's personality clearly.

It takes time to get to know someone. If you progress too fast, you will only regret it later.

In fact, human beings are very good at hiding themselves and only show their good side in front of interested people.

If you are determined to cheat a person, it is impossible to be found in a short time.

Moreover, whether two people are suitable or not also needs to get along and observe.

If you fall in love with someone too soon, you will lose consciousness, and your mind will be full of that person, so you can't think rationally.

If you fall in love with a morally corrupt person, and you are deeply involved, it is difficult to completely end with that person. Also, if the person you fall in love with is not suitable for you and you can't get married, it will only hurt you.

Time is a means to test whether a relationship is suitable or not. Don't fall in love with someone too soon after this stage, only yourself will get hurt.

Second, I don't know much about the other half of the family.

Love is a matter for two people, and marriage is a matter for two families.

I know very little about the other half's family, so don't brag about whether she will marry or not.

I believe that a good family cannot raise a bad son, and a family with bad moral character cannot raise a good son.

There used to be a proposition that grandpa was a thief, dad was a thief and that son must be a thief. Although this may not be correct, I think it is reasonable.

The influence of family on children is very profound and has been engraved in the bones.

What kind of family is behind it largely determines this person's personality, and it is very important to know the other half of the family.

In addition, some families are too poor to love the rich and just want to climb the dragon and attach the phoenix; In other families, parents are not virtuous and have high demands on their children's other half.

If I had known that the other half of my family was like this, I think further contact would be very cautious.

Third, if the pain of lovelorn doubles.

When you realize that you are not suitable for the other half and want to end it, it is more painful for yourself. This is the price of falling in love with someone too early.

Although we haven't been together for a long time, we have deep feelings and are more entangled in pain when we leave.

To tell the truth, some love is not because of love, and it will not be so sad to be separated.

However, if you love someone and still love him in the end, you can imagine how sad you are.

After being lovelorn, you may not be able to walk out for a long time, and you will be sad for a long time. Work and life will be affected, and travel will be used to relieve emotions.

Fourth, the relationship after the impact.

A bad relationship has a great influence on a person, which not only affects the concept of choosing a spouse, but also may produce fear of marriage.

After lovelorn, many people have the idea that they don't want to fall in love again, and they don't want to contact the opposite sex again.

Really, a failed relationship will make a person lose confidence in the relationship between the two sexes, feel inferior and feel that he is not good enough.

After falling out of love, it will be easy to find the shadow of the predecessor in the current position, thus affecting the relationship between the two sides.

Especially for women, it is really easy to be nostalgic, and such emotional influence is really great.

Women's feelings last longer than men's, and it is more difficult to get out of a relationship completely. Therefore, both men and women should not fall in love with a person too soon, so the real concept of love may be subverted.

Why not fall in love with someone too early?

Because I don't know much about the other half and the other half's family, it is difficult to judge whether two people are suitable.

When it is found that two people are not suitable, it is difficult to end it.

Such an emotional ending is bound to be full of twists and turns. Although there may not be much contact, falling in love is falling in love. Breaking up is as sad as any sincere relationship.

People always learn from every experience, but in love, it is quite different, and it is easier to repeat the same mistakes in love.

Why do many people often suffer in love? Because they always refer to their predecessors when they inadvertently find someone.

Don't fall in love with someone too soon, or you will be tortured by love.

It is said that you know what love is like when you meet someone, but this does not seem to be a true proposition.

It still takes time to decide when looking for a real partner.