We are not engaged, but we are together. In order to get along better in the future, we have to celebrate our birthdays. We can talk to the man and mother about our future plans, so that we can get familiar with each other quickly and meet again without embarrassment.

Engagement, also called betrothal, according to China folk custom, there is usually an engagement ceremony before marriage: signing an engagement, exchanging gifts, or setting up a matchmaker. However, according to the current laws of our country, engagement is not a necessary procedure before marriage, and marriage without engagement does not lose its validity.