If life fools you, it doesn’t matter, it fooled me too.

After setting the alarm on your phone 5 times but it didn’t wake you up, you instantly feel an inexplicable feeling of depression, but you still have to go to work; you touch the private tire on your waist and tell yourself that from now on I started running and exercising from tomorrow, but then turned around and fell asleep; I only had to eat dirt this month, but I still couldn't help but update my shopping cart; yes, such a small but real depression is fleeting. The feeling of hollowness is also a "little sadness" that we can't live without every day.

Life is a mixture of five flavors. Individuals always have their own emotions and desires, so just be sad! Life is so short, laugh when you are happy and feel sad when you are sad. Of course, you can have fun whenever you feel like it! Sometimes, it’s just a matter of taking the next step. Sometimes, I stand and curse, cry and call my mother. Sometimes, it’s a big coward. You can't always drink chicken soup, you can't always drink chicken blood. Xiao Quesang and Ge Youli are indispensable for a good life. I feel sad every now and then, but it’s really not a big deal. It can even be beneficial to the body and mind, and can help improve sexual well-being.

Occasionally I don’t want to go to work, go to school, exercise, or even go out, I just want to feel paralyzed. I see my own kind saying about myself: I am almost a useless person; I am very tired as a salted fish; I seek treatment in the late stage of procrastination, etc... I feel that my body is hollowed out... In other words, the same is true for Xiao Zhen Mang. The truth of life, the normal state of life. The older people get, the more mature they become, and it seems harder and harder to be impressed by anything. I asked a lot of friends around me about the things they care about, but they all sounded very sad.

Looking at the bank card balance makes me want to cry; the person I like doesn’t like me, and I feel completely lost at that moment; I have lost weight for so long, but I am not as good as those who eat too much and don’t gain weight; Tomorrow is Wednesday again, there are still two days before the holiday, and another week of waiting for death. I will get off work at 6 o'clock. At 5:58, the boss suddenly said: Come, let's have a meeting in the conference room. . This kind of unfortunate event that happens frequently and inevitably in life is really frustrating.

If you have to report to the leader, the moment you knock on the door, you will scream in your heart: No one, no one... You will be relieved to find that there is really no one, but you will not feel happy.

These small sorrows in life are densely hidden in reality, and most people have experienced them personally. The system is always upgraded when you are in a hurry; you secretly browse TA’s Weibo, and your hand slips and clicks zan...; the wind always turns the umbrella upside down on heavy rainy days; the headphone cable is always a mess; the toes are always in a mess. Accidentally kicking the corner of the bed, it feels so sour...; A joke that I thought was funny, but others looked indifferent; After charging my phone for an hour, I realized that the plug was not plugged in; After I finished cleaning, I realized that there was still a plate missing Wash; you tell yourself to only eat one piece of snack, but always end up eating the whole bag...; after eating the last pistachio, you find that you can't open it; there is another wrinkle in the mirror; you have to return it as soon as you open your eyes. The mortgage loan; the child has to pay the tuition fee! I have only been to the gym twice this month; I failed to lose weight; I failed to get up; I failed to go on a blind date...

You are obviously going to be late, but when you look at the crowded heads in the elevator looking at you indifferently, you would rather Waiting for another 5 minutes, I don’t want to squeeze in and become one of them; the crowded subway to and from get off work, and the unfamiliar skin that I have to stick to, sweaty and sticky; prepared a sumptuous candlelight dinner and newly bought sexy clothes Underwear, I wanted to give him a surprise, but I was told to work overtime at night; I queued up for food in the cafeteria, but all the dishes I wanted to eat were eaten when I arrived; the clothes I just bought were discounted; my mobile phone battery only had 2% left; what? I didn’t do anything, the weekend just passed; I went to work all day wearing wet shoes on a rainy day; I was full of joy and wanted to go to the hot springs and found that my aunt was here. Why! Forget it, just don't do anything and just lie down on the sofa. He was still muttering: Come on, hit me! I am not afraid of being scalded by boiling water. I feel comfortable every second, and it feels good to be motionless.

It is these small but certain frustrations, that fleeting feeling of hollowness, that make up most of our unhappy daily lives. Calm down and think about it, although it always makes people feel disappointed and helpless, it also makes us truly feel the ups and downs of life. Life will not always be smooth sailing, and every step requires hard work. Hard work may not necessarily lead to success, but it is really comfortable not to work hard.

Many times, we always feel that life is not perfect. It is not because of how much pain there is, but precisely because of these predictable but inevitable problems that make you a little dissatisfied with life. Escape, but procrastinate. Care about it and endure it at the same time. Take big strides to go your own way, why should you be afraid of being a little bit small?

Although these frustrations are small, they always exist. They are difficult to "get used to" because they are too scattered and one will pop up from nowhere. Even if it is solved at the first time, it will not work. Not much help for the overall living situation.

So, although the mourning is small, it follows us like a shadow.

My wife came home after a busy day at work, cooking, washing clothes and taking care of the children. When her husband, mother-in-law, son and daughter all fell asleep, she found that the clock always magically pointed to midnight, and there were two best friends on WeChat. An unread message sent to myself hours ago. Thinking that tomorrow would still be like this, she really didn't want to let this day go by like this, but what could she do?

Even if my husband comes home after working overtime until midnight, he will park his car downstairs, light a cigarette, turn up the music, and stay alone for a while.

The body left in the car belongs to you, and when you step out of the car door, the body becomes your husband, son and father. It turns out that the dividing line between daily necessities, food, rice, oil and salt is actually a car door. The roles switch between opening and closing, but you can never get out.

Why are you so sad? How could you be so sad? Isn’t it true that as long as one is alive, it is inherently a bit sad? I didn't know until one day I saw a quote.

A small amount of happiness is nothing more than self-comfort, while a small amount of sadness is the real feeling in the world.

What is a sad mood? Have you never had a time like that? I don’t want to do anything, no one should bother me, and the whole world doesn’t seem to understand me. In fact, I know I can do it well, but I want to escape vaguely, but it is waiting in the not-too-distant future. I can't avoid it or jump over it. Time is getting more and more urgent, but I don't want to face it. In a very sad mood. There are countless moments in life when I suddenly feel like my body is being hollowed out.

Small mourning is not fatal, but at the same time it can make you feel deeply depressed. Therefore, there is nothing difficult in the world, as long as you are willing to make do with it. What's there to complain about? Just live your life in a muddle. Isn't life just like this with its ups and downs...

There is nothing wrong with this world. Who made you look ugly and have no money? After all, as long as it is a stone, it will not shine anywhere. You try your best to figure things out, but it does nothing to solve them. Another day passed. How was your day today? Are your dreams even further away? I always want to be treated gently by this world. What have you contributed to this world?

There is a disease in this world that makes people feel as if they have worked hard after watching inspirational speeches, inspirational movies, inspirational books, inspirational songs, and Zhihu inspirational answers. So, after eating this meal, start losing weight again. After finishing this round of pesticides, I went to write a manuscript. It wouldn't be bad to sleep in on the weekend. After all, hard work may not necessarily lead to success, but it is really comfortable not to work hard.

There is too much pressure in this world, which always hits our pain points accurately. The world is calling for positive energy, but it makes people rebel. Mourning is just a kind of confrontation, a kind of self-deprecation. Otherwise, how could she be a middle-aged woman in 1988, and later expand to a middle-aged woman in 1992? In fact, this is just a collective venting of people's mid-life crisis.

I feel sad because I have expectations, desires, and dissatisfaction with real life, but I don’t know what to do and can’t find the strength in the struggle. But Xiaozhen was unwilling to remain dull and indifferent. At this moment, he just couldn't find an outlet to vent his feelings.

At this moment, maybe you are still working overtime and feel a little sad, maybe you are tired and feeling a little bit sad after going shopping on the weekend that just ended, maybe you are a little bit sad that there is no progress in what you want to do?...... Then , it doesn’t matter if you feel sad once in a while, right? Now, go to sleep and get up early tomorrow morning, let your energy come back, there will be hope for everything if you are full of energy!

We don’t need much success. We don’t need much positive energy. We are just ordinary people who are troubled by countless trivial problems. We are ordinary, confused, and tortured by life. There is no need to be anxious. This is real life. Therefore, face life and yourself squarely, don’t be paralyzed by chicken soup for the soul, and don’t be trapped by petty sentiments. Life goes on and there is still a long way to go.

No matter how hard I try, I may not be able to live the life I imagined. But the little one is really sad, but it's okay. Not bad, really. Because he is very small. Small enough to make us feel that we still have the ability and opportunity to solve them, which can bring a little peace of mind and a glimmer of hope. Life is not out of control, as long as you work hard, it can get better.

Only with small sorrow can there be hope!