After giving birth, it is actually the time when a woman needs to be loved the most. However, if you find that your husband doesn’t care much about you anymore, it will give you the feeling of being in love with a cold butt. The one who is moved is himself.
For example, if you feel unwell, you will be particularly nervous, instead of saying, "Then go see a doctor. He is not a doctor, and he doesn't know what's wrong with you." Or maybe you want him to do a favor in the middle of the night. After you take care of the child, he will tell you, "You can do it yourself. How can a woman from other people's family take care of the child alone? I have to go to work tomorrow." At this moment, the woman's psychology is more disappointed and sad, while her husband must feel that You don't seem to be very important anymore.
When you want to chat with him, he always responds impatiently. Sometimes he even ignores you and pretends not to hear. Do you feel particularly helpless at this moment? After giving birth to a child, my husband is no longer my own, and there is nothing to communicate with him. The most common thing is that his expression is impatient and his words are impatient.
Some men also complain that their wives have children all day long and have no time to take care of them. Sometimes the house is very quiet, and it feels like there is nothing left to say to each other. Although you want to find a topic to talk about, your husband always feels that there is nothing to talk to you, and then he starts to say a few perfunctory words and then disappears. At this moment, he has no mood or thoughts to communicate with you at all.
It is really not easy for women. After giving birth to a child, on the one hand, they have to educate and raise the child, and on the other hand, they have to study and progress all the time and not deviate from the society. Going to work, taking care of the children, and doing housework are almost Just a superman. But if your husband starts to dislike you, and sometimes even treats you as if you don't exist, then he really dislikes you very much.