I saw something that left me speechless today. I couldn’t help but want to complain about the fact that the girls at the university’s School of Basic Medical Sciences are moving to their dormitories. They require at least 10 boys from each class in the school to help the girls move their things. , if there are not enough volunteers, the tasks will be assigned by drawing lots. A boy who was unwilling to enter the girls' dormitory to help carry luggage was selected and forced to go to the girls' dormitory to do hard work. He was very depressed and complained about this matter online.
1. It was obvious that he was unwilling to be forced to move to the girls’ dormitory. After this person’s remarks were screenshotted, he instantly stirred up a hornet’s nest and was criticized to pieces by a large group of people. What's wrong with the boys at Zhengzhou University? It's a gift to ask you to help move the girls' dormitory and do hard work. No one signed up voluntarily. It's mandatory.
Assigning this task to you, there are still some people who dare to complain online and say that they are Not happy? Are there any boys in the world who are not willing to move dormitories for girls? This is anyone. In short, a large number of critical posts appeared instantly, using overwhelming firepower to spray this man into ashes.
This man's unwillingness to be forcibly taken away and used as a coolie to carry luggage for girls was defined as heinous and then further turned into criticism
Men all over China. First of all, regarding the matter of moving girls to dormitories as coolies, if boys do it voluntarily, there is nothing to say. One is willing to fight
The other is willing to suffer. It is mutual consent. The girl buys some water and says gratefully, thank you from the beginning. At the end of the day, there must be quite a few boys who are willing to go.
But when the boys are unwilling to go, they are forced to assign tasks to catch the boys to do this cool work. It is not enough if they don’t go, and the nature of this has seriously changed.
2. I wonder how the Kuomintang is still catching young men after being driven out of the mainland for more than 70 years. The reason why boys were willing in the past but not boys now is obvious. When boys move to dormitories nowadays, they are really treated as coolies and receive no gratitude at all. They may even be sprayed with work. It's not good, so it's normal that no one wants to go. It's even more normal to complain about being forced to work as a coolie.
To be honest, there are no moving companies in China. You can hire movers to move dormitories for a little money. Why do you have to recruit reluctant boys to do this? Do you want to save some effort if you don’t need the moving fee? To save money, use administrative power to force unwilling boys to work as free coolies just to save a little bit of hard work fee. ?
Thinking from the perspective of equality between men and women, if boys want to move to the dormitory, at least 10 girls from each class are required to help clean the boys' dormitory
Clean and wash clothes If no one voluntarily signs up, the girls will be forced to work in the boys' dormitory by lottery, just to save the boys some money for hiring a cleaning lady. ?
3. What do the girls think? I believe they will explode, saying that this forced assignment of tasks is exploitation and oppression.
This is still relatively equal. Boys do heavy physical work and girls do light physical work. One province pays coolies for moving companies and another province pays for cleaning companies.
If we insist on absolute equality, and both parties help each other equally when moving dormitories, the replacement is equivalent to the workload of moving heavy objects, and the level of effort must be exactly the same, let alone 10,000. No one wants to be a free laborer for others without spending money to find services in the market. When boys move into dormitories, they force girls to work as cleaners for them, just to save a little on the cost of hiring an aunt. If girls don’t want to come, they force them to do so by drawing lots. If they don’t come, they have to come. Anyone who dares to complain will get a bunch of boys. I think it is very excessive behavior to rush to criticize. It is very excessive, but of course it is also very excessive. Voluntary and compulsory are two completely different concepts. Everyone knows why many boys used to voluntarily work as coolies and even enjoyed it. The more they sacrificed, the happier they were. But now fewer and fewer people are willing to do this. Everyone knows the reason.
Four. You can work as a coolie without any reward. At least you have to say thank you. Being a free coolie has no money, no honor, and you may be scolded at any time.
Who would be happy? , wouldn’t it be nice to have this time to do something of your own?
I remember when I was in college, boys liked to help girls with work, and even competed to do it. It was true that 10 people from each class were selected to move to the girls’ dormitory
Li Na I guess the spots have to be grabbed.
There is only one difference. In those days, when boys helped girls with work, girls would say thank you, and they would say thank you sincerely. In this era, it is really a small group of people who cannot be described in words that have completely ruined the reputation of all girls. The boys are so afraid of girls that they even help girls move into dormitories, which was a task that they had to compete with before. They were all forced to be assigned, and even if they were selected, they were complaining everywhere. Did you think that the university dormitory moving incident was over here? It wasn't after a group of boys who were forced to be assigned with grim faces and were taken to the girls' dormitory to work as coolies. The climax is coming. ?
5. Another girl is dissatisfied, and she is strongly dissatisfied.
Another group of women in the same dormitory posted the group of boys who moved to the dormitory online, and directly put them on Zhengzhou University’s Super Chat for a second round of criticism.
This girl said how can boys enter the girls’ dormitory, how shameless, what’s wrong with moving into the dormitory? Boys who move into the dormitory are absolutely not allowed to enter the women’s dormitory, what’s wrong with the 6th floor, none of us girls can move by ourselves If your stuff goes up to the 6th floor, you guys don't need to come and move it. Do these boys have any sense of shame for entering the girls' dormitory in broad daylight? It's not right for boys to enter the girls' dormitory today even if the King of Heaven is here.
So this angry girl wants to post online, directly on Super Chat to criticize these Zhengzhou University boys. Is there no one to take care of this kind of thing? Can our next generation of boys still help girls move into dormitories?
I feel that men and women should not be asked to do what they should.
Women should not be like this, and men should not be like this. It is okay to say that these are feudal shackles. ?
However, there cannot be double standards. As long as there are no double standards and as long as there is fairness, no matter what hard work they do, the docile college boys will not be dissatisfied.
If going to the girls' dormitory to help move heavy objects can exchange for girls to come and mop the floor when they move into the dormitory, I believe that countless male college students will directly grab the spot. Isn't it normal for men and women to help each other as natural cooperative units instead of being forced to share the situation like now? I think this situation is abnormal and should be repaired.