Hello, I am a psychology major. Analysis: You are in adolescence, so it is normal to have such an idea. Your present love belongs to illusory love, but there is a passion that is difficult to control. At the same time, you are in a dead end in your relationship. You care too much about him, and everything about him will affect your mood. You will be centered on him. Suggestion: If you want to get rid of it, Method 1: Talk to your classmates more and don't focus on him; Method 2: transfer your feelings for him to your relatives, your brothers and sisters, parents, etc. But this kind of love is not love. This is my little opinion. I hope you can adopt it and wish you can get out of the shadows.