—— Sidenotes on the ideological and moral construction activities of minors in our school
Cangnan Longgang Experimental Middle School to Tang Yan
"A caring person should know how to be grateful; Grateful people have a bright future! "
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Since our school was founded in 2005, under the leadership of the Civilization Office of our county, in view of the special situation that our school is the first public boarding school in our county, most students have excellent family conditions and many only children, we have carried out a series of activities on "Thanksgiving Theme Education" in depth, and carried out colorful practical activities around three themes by adopting various methods, which has received unexpected gratifying results.
First, thank your parents for their kindness.
On Father's Day, Mother's Day, Women's Day and other holidays, we give students special homework, carry out "I send my blessings to my parents", tell happy stories to my parents, and do housework such as cleaning, folding quilts, washing dishes and washing clothes. We launched a theme essay contest, such as on-site essay writing for my parents, words for my parents, mother's day thoughts and my parents, I have made progress! 》 and so on; We held class meetings with the themes of "Learn to be grateful and praise others" and "Calculate family accounts and feel the kindness of parents". The class team activities also invited the enthusiastic participation of school district leaders, primary school teachers and parents' representatives. Most classes and teams have distinct themes, diverse forms and clear veins, so "why should we be grateful?" Who are you grateful to? How can I be grateful? "and other aspects of useful discussion: there is a whole class singing" Grateful Heart "while gesturing; Some parents talk about the difficult process of raising children; Some students took photos of their childhood and told unforgettable growth stories. There was a grand ceremony for the grateful, and the children presented flowers to their parents and embraced them warmly. ...
"Dear dad, dear mom, your kindness is great. Bless your mother, bless your father and son, I know how to repay! " This "Dear Mom and Dad" became the first parent-teacher song in Zhicheng class of our school. At the parents' meeting, all the students stood up and sang this song to their parents. Many parents clapped their hands in conjunction with the festival, and there was a long and warm applause in the classroom. This is an unforgettable scene at the parent-teacher conference of our school. At the parent-teacher meeting, the children changed their previous shyness and boldly praised their parents. "On weekdays, my mother always gives me a thumbs-up compliment. Today, I also want to take this opportunity to praise my dear mother. My mother not only takes good care of me, but also cares about me ... ""In my study, my mother will give me spiritual help and often remind me to study hard in my ear so that I won't be discouraged in the face of failure. In life, my mother cooks and washes clothes for us for the tireless work of the family. How much effort, sweat and tears have you paid to turn me from an ignorant baby in childhood into a semi-adult now? Mom, I will bury your love in my heart. Now I want to say loudly:' Mom, I love you'. " At the parent-teacher conference, parents received a thank-you letter from their children, and many parents burst into tears after reading it! Among them, the details of our arrangement are worth recalling. One: We invite student representatives to talk about their warm and harmonious home. Second: Today should be the birthday of all our parents. Listen to the children's wishes for us.
In order to give children a happy last Children's Day, we invited parents and children to participate in garden activities and held a "farewell to children, grow up" tea party to express our gratitude to the children for their growth and progress. Every time we go out for social practice, we always ask our parents to participate in parent-child exchange activities. Games, parties, photography and videos are filled with a very harmonious family atmosphere.
Second, thank the school teachers for their kindness in cultivating education.
We held a speech contest, the sower of hope-dedicated to Teacher's Day, the leader of life-thank you, teacher. What can I do for the class? 》 and so on; Holding essay competitions "A Letter to the Teacher" and "Alma Mater, the Cradle of My Growth"; Carry out the award-winning activities of "the most caring teacher" selected by students, carry out the practical activities of "I bring honor to the school" and "I do one thing for my classmates", and set up public welfare organizations such as "Love Green Young Volunteers and Environmental Volunteers Association" to carry out activities regularly; Hold a class meeting with the theme of "School is my home" and "Tell people around me, do things around me and I will add luster to the school (class)"! There are various forms, prominent themes and profound education: there are school knowledge contests, the issuance of caring school proposal, a campus landscape photography contest, school construction activities and the broadcast of TV news reports on the celebration of the school, photos of students' daily life, caring evaluation of school pacesetters, the publication of the class newspaper "School is my home", and the inscription for my alma mater when we meet 30 years later.
Third, thank friends for their social help.
We ask students to always remember those who helped them, and then express your gratitude through a letter, email, telephone, internet and other communication tools. Thanks to the kindness of teachers, the help of classmates, the care of society, the defense of troops and the care of the motherland. In the activity of "Love Disaster Area, Dedicate Love", every student not only enthusiastically donated money and materials, but also wrote a letter of condolence for the people in the disaster area. In the activity of "Love is Green", we launched the solicitation activities of "Green Mind", including: "Let the world be full of green", "Let's put on green clothes for the earth", "One heart is green", "Go green to the end", "As long as there is love, there will be green", "Green, life will be more wonderful with you" and "Give a piece". The activities were carried out in a lively way.
Students have told touching stories at school: Fang accidentally hurt his hand at home, but still insisted on doing eye exercises with his left hand. The classmates helped him with the bowl. He dictated while he was doing his homework, and the front and back tables helped him finish his homework. The students in the dormitory gave him the lower bed. Ye suddenly found it inconvenient to walk, so all the sisters in the 4 13 dormitory joined in. Everyone took the initiative to lend a helping hand and extended a pair of loving helping hands. What moved us most was that Chen carried her from the fourth floor to the first floor! Send her three meals a day, Monday to Saturday, without interruption every day. Love is priceless, true feelings are priceless! In fact, this is how Ye usually helps others! This is an excellent campus collective full of love and gratitude! Every year, we always go to the grave to thank our ancestors for their bloody sacrifice. We often go to the fire brigade to carry out literary condolence activities and give thanks for the spirit of contributing to public welfare; We regularly go to nursing homes to carry out charity activities to respect and love the elderly and thank them for their contributions to society. ...
Fourth, gratitude education needs a good environmental atmosphere.
In order to create a good atmosphere of gratitude education, we held the launching ceremony of "Thanksgiving Education", signed under oath, collected gratitude aphorisms, and held blackboard newspaper and handwritten newspaper competitions with the theme of gratitude for schools and classes on a regular basis. "We swear in the name of youth: thank my parents for giving me life, thank my teachers for giving me knowledge, and thank my classmates for giving me friendship. Thanksgiving parents, determined to become successful; Be grateful to the teacher and study hard; Thanksgiving friendship, unity and mutual assistance; Thanksgiving society, dedication to youth. Stick to the end and never give up! " Touching declaration of gratitude resounded through the campus, plastered all over the campus walls, fully mobilized students' hearing and vision, and built a "grateful" Wan Li Great Wall.
"Teaching songs to students and reading newspapers to students" have also become two magic weapons for our school to carry out gratitude education in class meetings. Teach students to listen to and sing positive and inspiring songs as songs before class, such as Hometown, Dedication of Love, Grateful Heart, The World Needs Warm Heart, Dear Mom and Dad, Listening to Mom and so on. Reading newspapers at ordinary times, as long as I see some social news or comments about gratitude related to students, the class teacher will use the class classroom to introduce and publicize them. For example, the real educational stories that took place in Cangnan, such as the top ten graduate students who walked out of the mountains, the armless youth Lv Xinwei, and more than 30 receipts from their mothers to buy blood, are all touching and unforgettable. For some students who have made outstanding achievements in gratitude activities, we wrote a three-and-a-half-sentence performance to praise them, and the response has been very good. For example, "First, we talked about the good boys in our class, and our friends helped Fang Feng fly, and their reading assignments were very serious." Let's have some applause. It's hard to find such an excellent one. All the teachers and students in the school know that it's "three good" and "two flowers of Li's daughter, named natural harmony". We often put gratitude activities in cultural creation and constantly innovate the carrier of moral education.
5. Youth grows healthily in gratitude.
Zhang, who was admitted to Wenzhou Middle School in advance and won the honor of "three good students" in the city, has a mother who is a teacher in No.2 Middle School. Originally, he was also a self-centered child. At a parent-teacher conference, his mother happily told everyone, "My son takes good care of me. When we climbed the mountain together, my son reminded me with great concern and always protected me. " Nowadays, as only children, many students not only care about their parents, but also care about their grandparents' health, and often advise their parents to be filial. When you call or go home, the voice of calling mom and dad is also very nice. Parents reflect that children are obviously sensible and will care about people.
Youth grows healthily because of gratitude!