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14 years ago, a 19-year-old girl married her paralyzed boyfriend despite her family's opposition. What about now?
There is an old saying: "husband and wife are birds in the same forest, and when disaster strikes, they fly separately." Refers to the original loving couple, in the face of serious disasters or difficulties, immediately abandoned each other. It's really rude.

The protagonist in today's story is a girl who is only 19 years old. When she was in love with her boyfriend, some accidents happened, which caused her boyfriend to be paralyzed in bed. At this time, her family and friends advised her to leave him quickly so as not to "delay" her later life. However, the girl resolutely married her paralyzed boyfriend. Now 14 years have passed, how are they doing?

The story began in 2006. Her name is Li Lingli. She comes from Linquan County, Fuyang City, Anhui Province. At the age of 65,438+09, she came to Suzhou to work alone. During this period, she met Fan Zhiyou in her hometown. They hit it off and helped each other in their daily life and work. Gradually, they fell in love and agreed to go back to their hometown together after saving enough money.

However, an accident on August 6 completely shattered the beautiful expectations of the two young people. It was a little hot that day. Fan Zhiyou ran to the roof to blow, while Li Lingli stayed in the rental house. Suddenly, there was a scream from outside-someone fell from upstairs! Li Lingli immediately rushed out and saw her boyfriend lying on the ground, motionless, and Li Lingli fainted on the spot. ...

Fortunately, the rental house is only on the fifth floor. After the rescue, Fan Zhiyou survived, but his lower body was paralyzed. The doctor said he might be like this forever, and his girlfriend Li Lingli was in tears. I don't know how Li Lingli's parents got the news, so they immediately tricked her back to her hometown and tried their best to persuade her to leave Fan Zhiyou so as not to "delay" her life. But Li Lingli firmly stated that Fan Zhiyou is a good person, and she would never do anything like "flying alone while he is paralyzed"! Ready to go back to him.

When the family saw that it could not be stopped, they simply "shut her up". This is over 65,438+0 months. Li Lingli finally found a chance to "escape" and went straight to Fan Zhiyou's house. When they met, Li Lingli cried into tears-because no one took care of her, her boyfriend was dirty and his face was very haggard. I saw my girlfriend coming, Fan Zhiyou's.

But the next day, Fan Zhiyou began to drive Li Lingli away, saying that he "didn't love her". Of course, Li Lingli knew that he said this on purpose and didn't want to leave. As a result, Fan Zhiyou drank a bottle of pesticide while she was not paying attention! Fortunately, Li Lingli soon discovered this, and Fan Zhiyou survived from death again. After this time, he realized how important Li Lingli was to him, so they got a marriage certificate without telling their families and met for the rest of their lives.

Because they had no children, they adopted a child named Fan Jiahao. The arrival of the child brought a lot of joy to the family. Fan Zhiyou laughed more and more and felt that life had hope again. However, because Fan Zhiyou can't move, everything is on Li Lingli's thin shoulders. Although she has never said anything bitter, Fan Zhiyou knows that she is very tired, and it is not the way to keep working like this. Children grow up and learn more.

So 20 13, the couple officially decided to go back to their hometown to breed. They borrowed money to build a house and bought more than 10 sheep. In order to save money, all the work was done by myself, even the welding of the fence was done by Li Lingli, and her husband Fan Zhiyou was lying in bed, feeling very distressed. Finally, the dust settled, and as a result, bad luck came again-illegal traders pumped water into the ewe's stomach, resulting in half of the ewes aborting later! The couple suffered a great blow, crying and crying for a long time.

Fortunately, Li Ling is a strong woman. She stood up first, borrowed money and bought some sheep, ready to start from scratch. Many things happen. A few years later, their farms were on the right track, with more than 200 stocks and an annual net income of about 50 thousand yuan. With this money, the life of the whole family is guaranteed.

More importantly, because Li Lingli insisted on beating her husband's leg and taking him to do rehabilitation exercises for many years, Fan Zhiyou is now able to act on his own. Although he can't get out of bed yet, it has made them very happy. Now, Fan Zhiyou is in a good state of mind. He is learning sheep raising techniques every day, hoping to run his farm better and better.

A few years ago, Li Lingli was elected as a representative of the provincial people's congress and participated in the activity of "Good People in China" in Mengcheng. His wife, Li Ling, overthrew the sentence "Husband and wife are birds in the same forest, but when disaster comes, they have to fly separately". I believe this family will be more and more happy in the future!