Lin Qingxuan said: "Although there will be a new sun tomorrow, there will never be the sun like today." Time is very precious, and what has passed will never come back. But now there is a young man who wasted three years of his life.

That is Chang Shujie, a talented academic. After being admitted to Peking University, he became addicted to games and neglected his studies. He was persuaded to drop out of Peking University in his junior year. He did not stick to one path until death, and chose to repeat his studies for another year. Last year, he was admitted to Tsinghua University as the top scorer in science. Netizens are hotly discussing, what did you waste three years on?

Glorious all the way, entering Peking University with excellent results

In 2015, Chang Shujie became the science champion in Zhongxiang City and the eighth in Hubei Province with an excellent score of 690 points in the college entrance examination. With excellent grades, he was free to choose any university in China, and he finally chose Peking University.

After being admitted to Peking University's communications engineering major, he also won the "Qualcomm Award" from Peking University. The Qualcomm Award is an award determined based on the college entrance examination score ranking. Only two people won the award that year.

According to the description of Chang Shujie’s high school classmates at the time, Chang Shujie did not act like a nerd in his senior year of high school, nor did he study as hard as other classmates. He seemed to be a natural academic master. You can easily come out on top no matter how hard you work.

Chang Yuanjie is not only called to the podium by the teacher to explain examples and share experiences on weekdays, but also takes the stage as a student representative at the 100-day swearing-in meeting to give speeches and swear oaths, and even answers to commonly used Zhihu questions. There are traces of him.

Addicted to games and separated from normal campus life

Chang Shujie, as a genius, was defeated by games. After being admitted to Peking University, I stopped going to the classroom one month after enrolling. He started a completely different life routine from his classmates, skipping classes frequently and indulging in games.

The students went to class, but he was still sleeping; the students returned to the dormitory after class, but he was still playing games; late at night, when the students were asleep, he was still playing games. The game seems to have become everything in his life, but the results will eventually tell him that this is wrong. In his junior year, he was dismissed from Peking University because of frequent truancy, academic failure, and poor grades.

Being addicted to games will affect the quality of life; once the game is played, it will not stop and will be played day and night, resulting in lack of sleep and chaotic life schedule. In the long run, it will lead to a haggard look and depression. Being addicted to games will also affect daily life such as study and work; games will become addictive, leading to distraction from work and study, and the inability to devote oneself to it.

Addiction to games will also bring about financial losses. In society, there is a constant stream of news about teenagers recharging tens of thousands of yuan because of being addicted to online games, and parents are in pain. Overindulgence in games will only harm yourself, not benefit yourself.

Everything has two sides, as the saying goes: "Small gambling brings pleasure, but big gambling harms the body." The same is true for games.

Playing games occasionally can not only help us relax and relieve real-life stress, but also practice our reaction speed and interpersonal skills through games. In games, we can also broaden our horizons and achieve better selves; games can also It can help add fun to learning and improve knowledge of computer applications. But in fact, it is difficult for us to control that degree in life. Therefore, when we know that we cannot control our own situation, we should stay away from games.

Lost in life goals, with no way to go

When Chang Shujie’s grade point did not reach the standard of 1.5 in the first and second semesters of college, his class tutor fought for him for a semester trial reading time, but he still did not change his schedule. Chang Shujie's parents also came from Hubei to advise him during his sophomore year, but they still couldn't change his mind.

His mother stood beside his bed every morning and softly asked Chang Shujie to get up and study, but he completely ignored her and her mother left helplessly. Later, even the school sent roommates, teachers, and counselors to ask him to study many times, but he still had no response, and in the end he had to be persuaded to leave Peking University.

Many people have experienced confusion at different stages of their lives, which is the so-called confusion period. Before entering college, we basically aimed to get into a good school. What about after entering college? Many people tend to enter a period of confusion, and this is the case for the genius Chang Yuanjie.

The university itself is special, and what the university needs is more self-discipline. But the prerequisite for self-discipline is to have a goal for progress, otherwise it will be easy to get confused and lead to decadence. When we are confused, we cannot see clearly the road ahead and are afraid of the uncertainty of the future.

Different people experience confusion at different times. The period of confusion will make us not know the way forward and lose ourselves. So it’s important to learn to help us get through periods of confusion. We need to find the cause of confusion and find the source before we can prescribe the right medicine.

Research shows that we will feel fear and anxiety about uncertain things. When we don’t know the opportunities and challenges we will face in the future, we often feel a strong sense of confusion. Learning to set phased goals for life can also help us eliminate uncertainty.

The courage to start over again

After Chang Shujie was persuaded to quit by Peking University, his will did not remain depressed. He chose to return to his high school alma mater, Zhongxiang No. 1 Middle School, to start from scratch and change his past. During his review period in his senior year of high school, he completely quit online games and worked hard to prepare for the college entrance examination.

This time, he was extra serious and spent most of his time reading books and answering questions during the review period. In 2019, he once again set foot in the college entrance examination room. With an excellent score of 712, he became the science champion in Hubei Province and was admitted to Tsinghua University, becoming the focus of discussion again.

After three years of living with games and being persuaded to quit by Peking University, Chang Shujie did not give up on himself. Zhang Haidi said: "Even if you fall a hundred times, you have to stand up a hundred and one times." Chang Shujie fell once, but he did not get discouraged or sluggish, he chose to start all over again.

Not everyone dares to start all over again. We may regret the three years he wasted, but we have to admire his courage to start all over again. Courage is really precious, and it is really difficult to raise courage.

Chang Shujie, a man who walked out of success and failed, once again moved from failure to success. His experience of being persuaded to quit verified the saying: "Pride makes people regress, humility makes people progress." However, subsequent experiences also verified that "failure is also the mother of success." As teenagers, if we don’t hit the wall and never look back, no one can have smooth sailing. This is the pride of us teenagers.

Life is always full of ups and downs, but as long as we persist and don’t question our goals because of the scenery on the roadside, we will win.

Sufferings and setbacks are the symphony on the road of life, and they will always be there. But if you cross it, you will have a panoramic view of the great river and mountains. If you can't cross it, you will have a cliff thousands of feet deep. I just hope that when we face difficulties, we will be more strong and brave, and the future will be better. As Marx said: “Life is like an ocean, and only those with a strong will can reach the other side.

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