Chapter I

Economic Issues

1.

Set up a household expenditure journal, which will be kept by one of them. Through the method of bookkeeping, both husband and wife can master the monthly financial expenditure and have a good idea of the family's economic expenditure. At the same time, through economic analysis, we will constantly improve our own investment and financial management level, so that the family's limited funds can play a greater role and work together to build a happy family.

2.

Every year, the lucky money received by children is stored separately as an insurance wealth management product. On the one hand, buy a guarantee, on the other hand, store a certain amount of funds for children to study in the future to ease the burden in the future. In recent years, it has been deposited at a rate of 1,/year. If the insufficient part of the lucky money is 1,, it will be collected by the husband and wife.

3.

Inherit the traditional virtue of diligence and thrift without extravagance and waste. However, we should not limit the necessary expenses too much, and pay attention to the health of family members. When both parties and their parents are sick, both parties have the obligation to take them to the hospital for treatment. Spending on clothes should have a certain budget, based on the principle of practicality and propriety, and we should not only consider the benefits but also lose face.

4.

There is a large amount of temporary expenditure, and both parties should find a way to solve it together. Don't talk too much about face between husband and wife. Speak your needs calmly and clearly. You can't sulk and get angry because you can't open your mouth and solve the problem by yourself.

5.

It is strictly forbidden to spend money on illegal things, such as gambling, whoring, and finding a third party. If the other party is found, it can file for divorce, and the wrongdoer unconditionally transfers all the property he owned at that time to the other party for living, and demands huge compensation, with a minimum of 2 million (child support fee is calculated separately).

Chapter II

Quarrel Problem

1. Both sides should respect each other, and should not treat each other as objects that can be vented casually. Whoever starts a quarrel loudly first, for whatever reason, will apologize to each other afterwards.

2. Do not quarrel in front of parents, relatives and neighbors, but give each other face in public places.

3. No matter who is right or wrong, as long as there is a quarrel, the husband must gently coax the wife once before the wife can calm down immediately. Otherwise, when the wife sees her husband crying, the wife can't help crying. Once serious consequences are caused, the husband will take full responsibility.

4.

It is forbidden to divorce, fuck, not a man, get out when quarreling.

5.

When quarreling, you should avoid exposing your weaknesses, such as being short and bald.

6.

You are not allowed to walk away after a quarrel, and you don't go home or call home for a week or two. The cold war time

can't exceed three days, and the party who starts a quarrel within three days should take the initiative to propose reconciliation. If you are wrong, you should take the initiative to admit your mistake. If you are wrong, you should also calmly point out where the other party is wrong.

7. Respect each other's parents and elders. You can't be rude to your parents if you are unhappy in a quarrel. You can't blame your parents by taking advantage of anger and bring up things that create family conflicts and are not conducive to family harmony.

8. The wrong party should take the initiative to apologize, and the innocent party should forgive the other party as soon as possible after the wrong party apologizes and compensates.

9. When both parties make mistakes, they should review each other. After recognizing the mistakes and apologizing, the husband will take the initiative to hug his wife to sleep at night.

1. Quarrel should not affect children. For example, children should exercise restraint when sleeping, so as not to frighten children, and not to affect their concern for children because of quarreling between husband and wife.

11. Make a quarrel record, analyze the reasons and minimize the number of quarrels. The record form is as follows:

Time

Initiator

Cause

Settlement

Wrong signature

Chapter III Responsibility

1. Both husband and wife have the responsibility to manage the same marriage and strive to create a good family atmosphere.

2. The husband should play the role of a pillar in the family. When he encounters troubles at home, he should take the initiative to solve them, so that his wife and children can feel safe and become their reliable pillars.

3. Both husband and wife have the responsibility to bring up their children and have the obligation to educate their children.

4. Both husband and wife should establish a certain family concept. In principle, the husband should come back at least once a week. If something needs to work overtime, he must ask for leave in advance from his wife, and he must not make up excuses not to go home, let alone use his rest time to do things that are sorry for his family. Call me whether you want to go home or not on weekends.

5. On the rest day, both parties have the obligation to take care of the children and do housework, and the time to get up in the morning should not exceed 9 o'clock. If it is really due to physical reasons, it is necessary to negotiate and agree to extend the rest. (Parents are old, and they also get up early and get in the dark during working hours. After all, young people should be relatively energetic, so they should have a proper rest. )

6. You should always go home to see your parents during the break. Because my wife's parents are usually together and my husband's house is close, I go to my husband's house on small holidays (Qingming Festival, Mid-Autumn Festival, Dragon Boat Festival, May Day, Eleventh, etc.), and I usually go back to spend more time with my parents on Sundays when I have time. There is a gap between a man's and his wife's house during the Spring Festival.

7. A wife should be considerate and care about her husband. It is very hard for him to work hard outside. When he comes home, his wife should let him feel the warmth of home.

8. Pay attention to birthdays, first meeting days, wedding anniversaries and other festivals of both parties, and try to spend these days together. If you really can't come back due to work reasons, you should call each other to say hello.

husband's signature: date:

wife's signature: date:

taken from the internet for reference only.