After reading Parent Classroom, I feel that 1 Parent Classroom is a subscription publication recommended by the school. Every time I believe in reading, it is good, which is of great benefit to educating children. Among them, "Don't cry for spilled milk" especially touched me. Mainly tells the story of Carnegie, a successful master whose career has just started. Carnegie did a lot of hard work at the beginning of his business, but after a few months, he found that he didn't make any money. I am depressed and don't know where my way out is. Until he went to consult the teacher and got a sentence: "Don't cry for spilled milk." So he rallied and finally succeeded in his career. From this story, I got a truth, that is, educate children not to immerse themselves in yesterday's failures, but to sum up yesterday's gains and losses and do well today's things.
In the past, every time a child took an exam, she felt uneasy and worried about her grades. Everyone will be happy if she does well in the exam. If she doesn't do well in the exam, she will be furious with the children. But what happened? The child was scared to death. The more you get to the exam, the more nervous you are, and the normal level of study can't be exerted at all, and your grades are even worse. Don't cry over spilt milk. No matter how hot the fire is, it can't change the children's grades. It is important to know from the examination questions that children have not mastered the knowledge points well and teach them these knowledge points. This is the purpose of the exam. Therefore, after each exam, the patient wife will take photos of the paper with her mobile phone, communicate with her children why her questions are wrong, and teach her this knowledge. For the test results, tell the children that as long as they play their level normally, there will be no problems and they will not be criticized. The effect is good, and the children's grades have been relatively stable.
This is also reflected in all aspects. For example, in the first and second grades, children write very carefully and are often praised by teachers. However, after the beginning of the third grade, my daughter's handwriting was worrying because of the increase in homework. Uneven, vertical. And it's crooked So I went back to my old habit of scolding my daughter. The result is of course the same as before. So I calmed down and told my daughter that it doesn't matter if people stand sideways. The daughter said of course not, and then asked her, "Then why is your handwriting horizontal?" If the daughter realizes this, she will strike while the iron is hot and tell her the composition and proportion of Chinese characters and the importance of being horizontal and vertical. The daughter nodded straight. I'm sure the result will be good. Of course, you need to keep an eye on it.
It is human nature to make mistakes. Not to mention children. It is normal that children will make all kinds of small mistakes and have all kinds of situations when they grow up. Don't cry for spilled milk, find out the reason why she made a mistake and teach her the right way. She will become stronger and stronger. I hope this article can inspire others, get guidance from teachers and other parents, and get more good suggestions for the healthy growth of children.
Reading "Parents' Classroom" 2 In the past life, most parents didn't learn how to get along with their children and how to educate them better. They just subconsciously repeated the old model of themselves or the original ecological family, and this model is more of a criticism and criticism. So as parents, we must adjust ourselves, but how can parents adjust themselves and be a qualified parent?
First of all, clean yourself up and make yourself a person with multiple choices, a person who is responsible for yourself, and a person who can perceive and express his inner self. Only when a person deals with his own part can he deal with all kinds of external problems.
Second, accept your own growth. Many parents have a psychology: the more things they lack in childhood, (1) parents should compensate their children, such as snacks and toys, freedom and respect. Parents have this kind of psychology, which shows that he can't accept his growth and even hates his growth, because he can't forget his desire for his parents.
Therefore, clarifying yourself, accepting your growth and letting go of your desire for your parents are the prerequisites for being a good parent. In this way, parents not only have the ability to love, but also have the means to love and have deeper ties with their children.
Reflections on reading "Parents' Classroom" III. The book "Parents' Classroom" has benefited me a lot, and it has made me grow from an ignorant mother to a person with a little education method for my children. Reading this magazine helps to improve one's quality. The information in it is rich and colorful, covering a wide range, and it shows me the correct way to educate my children.
Educating children is indeed a science. How can parents who don't understand education cultivate qualified next generation? Children should not only study hard, but also develop in all aspects in order to adapt to this changeable society. Most of them are only children now and are spoiled at home. Everything is just a matter of clothing reaching for food, and their self-care potential is really poor. What will the children do if they leave their parents? How to adapt to society in the future? Not to mention washing and cooking, I'm afraid many children can't go shopping alone. The potential to solve things independently is even worse. Learning well is not all, being an idiot is even more terrible. Therefore, it is also necessary to cultivate children's self-care potential and independent potential.
Parents should let their children go. Don't worry about children making mistakes, and don't let them do what they can. Over time, parents deprive their children of exercise opportunities, which will inadvertently kill their children's potential to solve problems. So parents should let go of their hands and feet in their daily life. Whatever children can do by themselves, let them do it by themselves, just as housework at home requires his personal participation and practice, and washing dishes and mopping the floor is not a problem for him at the moment. At the same time, cultivate children's sense of independence and let them try to solve problems with their heart, instead of
This is a passive waiting. It is necessary to exercise. Parents should give their children the greatest encouragement and support in this process. This will give children infinite strength, and children will deal with it more attentively in future actions.
Then, as parents can't get along with their children, they should communicate and communicate with them equally. For example, I always teach my son not to always remember to play computer games. If you indulge in games and don't want to do anything, it will cause different degrees of damage to your eyesight and body, and you can't calm down and study. Therefore, in this information age, he should properly control the scale of learning and playing, so that children can study happily and play happily. In this respect, I am also a selfish person. I don't set an example myself As soon as I have time, I will drill into the computer. My son also advised me several times, which made me realize that teaching by example is more practical than teaching by example. After that, after several persuasion by my son, we stopped doing this. We supervise each other, as long as one person does something wrong, we will correct it in time, so that my mother and son become good friends who talk about everything.
Through the dribs and drabs of life, I think that educating children should combine the current environment, implement a suitable education model, teach students in accordance with their aptitude and guide them step by step. Don't rush for success. Children can't grow up in a day.
I learned a lot by reading the parents' class. Children should not be imprisoned, but released and integrated into society. Give them some care and exercise them from an early age. Give them a small stage to give full play to, and they will be able to make their mark on the big stage of society in the future and become a person who contributes to society.
Thoughts on reading "Parents' Classroom" 4 Although the birth of a child has been with us for almost seven years, the education of parents for their children is a long-term and complicated project. It is to accumulate experience through continuous learning and exploration, and it also requires constant thinking, timely reflection, correction and perception!
I seldom came into contact with such professional books before. Although I have summed up a set of methods to educate children in recent years, I still have some troubles. When my daughter went to elementary school, she learned about the parents' classroom for the first time. After learning about it, she felt that the articles she wrote involved all aspects. Although she hasn't read all three issues, she "has something to say".
The article I read gives me the feeling that parents should pay more attention to the conscious way of scientifically educating their children, that is to say, the ultimate task and goal of parents is to be smart parents.
Some people say that children's words and deeds have the shadow of their parents, because children are very plastic. Parents' words and deeds, education methods and communication methods when encountering problems directly affect children's values, right and wrong! Therefore, a qualified and wise parent is more likely to make children grow up healthily.
My daughter and I are best friends.
-Thoughts on Reading "Parents' Classroom"
Jiang Baihe's parents
My daughter has subscribed to the parent class since she was in primary school, and it is the second year now. In the past two years, with this book, my daughter has changed from a lovely and naughty little girl who just left kindergarten to a warm-hearted and responsible little adult now. As for my mother, I also walked out of the previous roaring reprimand education law and slowly made friends with my daughter. Now they are all bosom friends.
Since my daughter was born, I have followed the old saying "to raise my daughter well" and really made unremitting efforts to train my daughter into an excellent "princess". However, as my daughter grew up and went to the kindergarten middle class, I found that my child had changed, became active and naughty, and sometimes even lost his temper with me. She is enthusiastic and brave, and loves fighting. In my mother's mind, you have always been a "little girl". I just feel that my child is a thousand miles away from my hopes, and my temper has become irritable. As long as my child behaves unsatisfied, I will scold her loudly. Gradually, my daughter will not be the first to find her mother when she comes home, and the distance between her and me is getting farther and farther.
After entering primary school, one day, my daughter brought back a copy of "Parents' Classroom" from school. When I saw the cover, the words "parents study hard and children make progress every day" immediately attracted me. When I opened the book, I clearly remembered that the first thing that caught my eye was an article written by Zhang Qi called "Lang Ping: Being Best Friends with My Daughter for Life". I can't wait to read on. I saw Lang Ping and her daughter become best friends from separation to resignation. Even when I return to China as a coach, I can only communicate with my daughter through the internet and telephone, and still care about and encourage each other.
After reading it, I really have mixed feelings, and my heart suddenly calms down, just like a lost person meets the light. It turns out that mother and daughter can still get along like this, and equality has no limit. If only our daughter and I were like this! So I continued reading, Parent-child Gas Station, Children's Voice and Expert Lecture Hall. Every article attracted me deeply. I think this book is really timely, so I made up my mind to adjust my mentality, improve my educational methods, communicate with my child more patiently, and influence and educate her with my own practical actions. I have been fascinated by this book ever since. Every time my daughter brings it back, I read it carefully and draw my favorite sentences and articles. When my daughter saw that I liked this book so much, she began to think that there were some good stories hidden in it, so I chose some short articles about American literature and life tips to show her. When I see interesting places, we laugh together. In the emotional place, we shed tears together and we became book friends. Now that my daughter is in the second grade, her composition level has also improved to some extent. Sometimes she will be awarded an excellent small medal by the teacher. I gave her a thumbs-up when she came back.
Thanks to "Parents' Classroom", it has once again narrowed the distance between my daughter and me, and made me realize that if I want to educate my children well, I must use scientific educational methods, first of all, change myself, improve myself and make friends with my children. May my daughter and I become the closest book friends and girlfriends forever with this good book.
I have always felt that I am a teacher, have read books on psychology and pedagogy, and often dabble in some books on parenting, so I feel that I can basically cope with children's education. But as my daughter grows older, she will also question my education methods. My daughter sometimes complains that I am always strict with her and like to scold her, but these are problems I didn't realize. After that, my daughter took it back to the parents' classroom, and we read, discussed and realized together, creating a perfect parent-child relationship together.
I like some open-book articles very much, which are always full of philosophy and enlightening. For example, there is a saying in "Give every grass a time to bloom" that gives everyone a chance to prove their value. Don't blindly pull out a grass, and don't rashly deny a person, then how many "wax orchids" we will get in our life! "I believe that every parent expects his son to succeed and his daughter to succeed, so it is followed by strict requirements and all-round education and training. Many children have to go to all kinds of long classes and study classes at the innocent age, but how many children are really willing to go? Whenever I can't see the bright smile that should belong to my children on their immature faces, I will feel distressed. In view of these, should our parents calmly think about whether our children really need these? Should we reflect on our love for children, but deprive them of their innocent and happy childhood?
I love my children, so I must learn to encourage and help my children with love, and don't let my love become a wall that presses her. The articles in "Parents' Classroom" inspired me and made me deeply realize that children need a happy childhood. Children need our warm love, give them time and space, and let them have their own happy innocence. Don't easily pull out the beautiful wax orchid in our own home with our big hands.
I am very happy with the life accompanied by "parent class" and my children are also very happy. I am constantly changing and improving my education methods, being more tolerant and free to my children, communicating with my children more, understanding her thoughts, letting her arrange her own study and entertainment activities within the necessary limits, and doing what she is asked to do first, so that my children can grow up healthily and happily, which makes me feel warm and happy.
Thanks to "Parents' Classroom", I know that as a parent, I can't just love my children according to my own wishes. Loving my children is not only to satisfy their food, clothing, housing and transportation, but also to understand their spiritual needs. Thanks to Parent Classroom, I know that being a teacher is not only to teach students knowledge, but also to guide children with correct words and tell them what to do. Learn to observe children's changes carefully, understand their real thoughts and communicate with them equally.
Let her love herself, her family, her teachers and her classmates with joy, learn to look at the world with loving eyes, and let them live a good day in the warmth of love.
After reading "Parents' Classroom", I feel that my daughter's school often sends some useful books to parents. I have read several issues of "Parents' Classroom" and bought many books on parenting myself. I have read so many books and learned so much. I want to know what I can do for my children and what kind of person I want my daughter to be.
My daughter was born prematurely, and the hospital issued a notice of critical illness, although I didn't know it until afterwards. Because of this, I love her more in my life. Materially, we try our best to provide her with the best possible conditions. Let her go to the better Beizhong Road No.1 Primary School. Get her an education fund. Let her be in the middle of society materially. What about mentally?
A person's personality is the basis of his foothold in society. I hope my daughter is a noble and gentle girl. Sometimes, when my daughter comes home, she will talk about something about school, and which classmate is like. Conflicts between classmates are inevitable. I often tell her that moral character is much more important than academic performance, and we should learn to be tolerant and warm to our classmates. Learn to forget other people's mistakes and forgive them. Find each other's strengths and learn from each other's strengths. If a person's character has a problem, even if he has great achievements, it will be in vain. Because being a talented person is the foundation of people. Only by laying a good foundation can you become a qualified person.
In terms of academic performance, I often tell my children that I don't care about grades. As long as she tries hard, I can accept any result. I just can't accept that she doesn't work hard. She is actually very smart, but she is often treated severely by me in her studies. Because she is careless, she often wants to perfunctory; Careless in doing problems, I often want to go out to play. As soon as I relax my requirements, her grades will drop significantly. Therefore, I often severely reprimand her. But when I get good grades, I often praise her, because I know she is a "smooth donkey". I will encounter many difficulties in my future study. I still have this purpose, and I will not regret it if I work hard, even if the result is not the best. Knowledge is just one of the life forms we know.
I just want my daughter to be such a person, tolerant, sunny and warm-hearted. Do your best in everything and don't ask for the best result. Let her own life bloom with unique brilliance!
I have learned a lot from Parents' Classroom and put what I have learned into practice. I usually educate children to pay attention to several aspects:
First, let children have a healthy body, a healthy mind and an optimistic personality! Usually, parents should pay attention to using interesting language dialogue in their speeches, and the atmosphere is lively and pleasant! Children should be guided to see the bright side of everything!
When I was still in kindergarten, I had homework to write. My daughter wants to play but has to write, so I'm a little emotional. I casually said, "There is still less homework now, and there will be more when you go to primary school." I didn't expect her to hear this. Mom, I don't want to go to primary school! Only then did I know that I was wrong, and I quickly remedied it. I said that although I have more homework in primary school than I do now, I can learn more knowledge and make more friends.
Fortunately, my daughter didn't say that she didn't want to go to primary school. The last paragraph of Chinese Pinyin is finally finished. My daughter also picked up her mobile phone and learned to send messages to her father. Now she can spell words she doesn't know when reading, so I lost no time to say: Did you learn much in primary school? You can't send messages in kindergarten!
Second, cultivate children's independent ability and emergency skills in all aspects! It is up to the child to do it herself in all aspects, including the cultivation of self-control ability.
Since I was a child, I began to consciously tell her some situations and let her come up with solutions or emergency measures. I can't depend on others for everything!
Usually, my daughter comes home from school and simply eats something and drinks some water, and then she begins to do her homework. Sometimes I read my parents' class or other books while she is doing her homework. When she finished writing, I asked me to sign it. I don't check whether she is right or wrong in most cases. First, I have my own things to do, and I am a little lazy, so I can save snacks. Secondly, I feel at ease that what she is doing should generally not go wrong. Third, I intend to cultivate her own independent ability (self-check)
Third, cultivate children's ability to resist setbacks, and guide them from the perspective of the ultimate product in time when they encounter unsatisfactory things. Pay attention to things that affect children's emotions, and let adults explain them and let her figure it out.
Once she went home and lost her temper. She didn't know it was a class during the day until she asked her. When she raised her hand to answer the Chinese question, she made a mistake. She was very angry! I told her that everyone makes mistakes, and you must remember clearly what you made this time, so you won't make mistakes again when you encounter this problem in the future, right? She nodded as if she had figured it out and was very happy.
Once I didn't get full marks in math, and I was very sad and in a bad mood when I got home. I also wrote a short diary in my notebook and said, "I am very unhappy because I didn't get full marks in math today." As a parent, I can't complain at this time She also called her father to say that she was unhappy and so on. We all encourage her to find the wrong reason, just pay attention next time.
Fourth, cultivate children to respect others and be polite. Sometimes children talk too rashly, so parents should guide education in time.
Fifth, develop personality and grow up happily! Not arrogant and impetuous! Look at the gains and losses normally! This has been pondering and groping!
In fact, children of this age should play happily, live happily every day, fully develop their personality and give play to their imagination and creativity. Our education system in China is not yet in place, only a happy person can pass on happiness or bring it to the people around her! How can unhappiness bring happiness to others! A person's sense of humor is also an extraordinary ability.
The above is my own shallow understanding to share with you!
After reading "Parent Classroom", I feel that all nine children want their parents to read and write two copies of "Parent Classroom" carefully. To tell the truth, I didn't take it seriously at first, and I scoffed. I thought it was because the school went looking for trouble and took the book home for a long time. I didn't turn it over. One day when I saw "Parents' Classroom" on the bookshelf, I picked up a book and flipped through it. Suddenly attracted by an article in the middle. After careful reading, I think this book is still a very good book, which has certain practicality and reference for children's education. The skills of educating children, cultivating children's interest, and how to face children's mistakes are all shown in vivid stories. After careful reading, there are indeed many misunderstandings in educating children. Therefore, I study carefully, learn from the perspectives and viewpoints of celebrity professionals, change some of my previous wrong ways and methods, be a qualified parent and cultivate our next generation.
Nowadays, parents are often a little eager for quick success. Some people think that success means that children can be admitted to key universities and become doctoral students. After reading the article "Growth is more important than success", I understand that children's healthy growth and personality cultivation are more important than being admitted to a key university, so we should pay more attention to children's healthy growth and personality shaping in our daily life, and realize the importance of cultivating children to have good morality, ambition and ideals from an early age and be a kind and grateful person.
There is a feeling of 10 when reading "Parents' Classroom". I really understand what relaxation is after reading "Parents' Classroom" today.
At first, what made me think deeply was the first article-"Parents Need to Learn". Mainly about a 13-year-old girl, usually a bad job, her parents punched and kicked her. Although her teacher warned her parents many times, she couldn't avoid the tragedy-she committed suicide by jumping off a building. Before she committed suicide, she left three pages of suicide notes, all about how her parents abused her at ordinary times. What impressed me deeply was that her mother made her kneel on the concrete floor all night because she was late for her homework, and a lot of glass slag was sprinkled on her knees ... I suddenly felt that this was not her parents at all. They treat their children like slaves. They don't do their parents' duty at all. Until I saw that they sent her to school, and the tuition fee was as high as 9000 yuan.
Seeing such a sad fact, I can't help thinking of my life. I always feel that my parents are not good to me and are too strict. As soon as I saw this life, I knew how good my life was.
There is another story: a senior two student killed his mother with a dumbbell. Not because his mother did anything out of line, but because of pressure. His mother put too much pressure on him. In the third grade of primary school, his summer vacation was spent in an excellent class, and several promises were not realized. Forget it, he thought it would be easy to go to high school, but his mother decided to move to a place near high school and spent the holiday in a cram school. He began to compete with his mother thoroughly. His grades began to decline, and his mother became more and more strict, and even the privacy of sleeping was gone. Finally, the tragedy happened that day, and his mother was killed.
Here, I once again feel: "My life is really good!" Yes, I don't have much pressure to study. My parents won't let me do things I don't like very much. I should be happy.
Really, I am relaxed!
After reading Parents' Classroom, I feel that 1 1 Required Reading for Parents is a timely book, which has helped me solve many problems in the process of teaching children. I have always felt that I am a teacher, I have read books on psychology and pedagogy, and I often dabble in parenting books, so I think I can cope with children's education. In fact, I have encountered many difficult problems. For example, with the arrival of her daughter's adolescence, she will ask many strange questions, which she always keeps asking. Another example is how to guide children to treat the network correctly in this network society. For another example, she is always strict with her children and likes to discipline them, so she often has conflicts with her daughter. All this, I want to ask the teacher for advice, just like my daughter reciting "Parents Must Read".
This magazine, edited by the leaders of the State Administration for Industry and Commerce, has comprehensive columns, detailed classification and strong pertinence.
First of all, its opening is very similar to the reader. It is more appropriate to open this book with a short essay with philosophical thinking. Open the latest issue of the book, which is Bi Shumin's "Filial Piety is priceless". I have read this article somewhere, but this time I feel particularly strong. It is rooted in people's family ties and ethics and tells a man what to do. Filial piety to parents is unconditional and necessary, and no reason is allowed. Such articles are prepared for educators and children.
Every column of the publication can introduce excellent teaching experience and tell parents what to pay attention to in the process of educating their children from psychology, pedagogy and nuances. Recently, I paid special attention to "entering adolescence" in the "parent-child gas station", and many puzzles were answered here. I can treat my child's adolescence calmly and rationally, and I can also lead my daughter to enter adolescence smoothly and experience some special problems with her. "Parents' Classroom" taught me how to help my daughter deal with new and troublesome things intelligently. If my daughter comes back and tells me that some boys joke with her about boys and girls, and even some boys swear, it makes her very angry. I don't regard this as a moral problem, but it is more meaningful to regard it as a problem of adolescence. So I calmed my daughter first and ignored these boys. This is a phenomenon of adolescence. They want to know something about growth or are interested in gender issues, so they say. Fortunately, my daughter is a generous child and often plays with boys, some of whom have great personality. But I still think we should communicate with the class teacher. The teacher in charge of the class also feels strange. I really didn't find these boys like this. Hope to keep in touch in the future. The teacher also learned what happened in time and told the male student to treat the way of speaking between boys and girls correctly. Finally, our efforts paid off.
In addition, I especially like Feng Er's "Palace of Art" column, which is full of classic paintings by famous artists and is very aesthetic. I also like to do "family mental health test". As a result, I am very happy to find that I am still a competent parent.
However, there are also some issues that need to be discussed, such as inappropriate photos on the cover of the last issue. Mother and daughter wear earrings and earrings. According to the school rules, students are not allowed to have their ears pierced. I'm afraid this is an editor's mistake. Because primary school students are generally more careful and good at discovering, correct guidance is the door to their success!