If the girl you like is withdrawn, the way you pursue her will be different from the way you pursue ordinary girls. What if you judge whether the girl you are pursuing is withdrawn? Let's share the performance of girls' loneliness and how to chase them. I hope it can help you. First, the performance of girls' loneliness < P > Lonely girls don't like contact with people, don't like any communication, let alone communicate with others. Loneliness is often manifested as loneliness, solitude, boredom, vigilance and contempt for others; Everything has nothing to do with yourself, indifferent, and self-imprisoned; If you associate with people, you will also lack enthusiasm and vitality, and you will appear careless and perfunctory.

Some girls are withdrawn, which may have experienced some bad things in the past, such as psychological trauma, such as parents' rough treatment, bullying and ridicule from their partners, and they have prematurely accepted the bad experiences of worry, anxiety and anxiety, resulting in a negative mood. Lack of maternal love or too strict and rude education methods, children will not get the warmth of their families, and will become timid, self-abased and indifferent, overly sensitive and distrustful of anyone, and eventually form a withdrawn character.

withdrawn girls even get bad treatment in interpersonal communication, take the initiative to get in touch with no one, be ridiculed, insulted and accused in the group, and now many people think everything is a joke without considering the feelings of the parties. For those girls who are sensitive to themselves, they will think it is their own problem. Are they not doing well enough, they will feel inferior, some will be unhappy, unhappy or angry, and they will not be solved. Second, how to chase a withdrawn girl 1. Be kind to her naturally < P > If she is a really withdrawn girl, then she is very stubborn. She may not be boring, just timid, just mentally shadowed, introverted and inferior. She may have something she likes better. However, without exception, they are more suitable for being alone. So if you want to pursue her, you should be nice to her naturally, otherwise she will resist you if she moves away. If you can treat her like a meticulous big brother and give her a comfortable and natural feeling, if she doesn't hate you, the possibility of catching up with her is still relatively high. 2, to firmly choose her

withdrawn girls are very insecure, and have no self-confidence, and will have evasive behavior. Maybe she won't accept you at first, not necessarily because she feels bad or inappropriate about you now, but she will predict your future pessimistically, which may be fruitless < P > so she chooses not to start. In this case, you must choose her firmly, don't be stingy with your expression, and you can praise her more (don't be fake and praise her from the heart and specifically) so that she can feel your undisguised preference for her.

At the same time, don't show too strong purpose (being nice to you means liking you, that's all, and you don't need to ask for anything from her), so that he can get along with you without pressure or burden, become her light, take her to meet the unseen, take her to play the unheard-of ... and slowly let her accept you.