?1. Why should you join Touma?

In August 2016, I had a premonition that it would be another boring weekend. As usual, in addition to playing basketball, I could only play with my mobile phone and make appointments. Playing with friends can only depend on luck, which can be described as "decadent". After turning on my phone, I checked Douban's local activities. There are quite a lot of various activities. In the activity of exchanging skills, it seems that I have no skills that I can exchange with others. I don’t seem to be particularly interested in movie watching activities. Finally, I saw the activities of the First Promoter Horse Club, speeches and debates, which seemed interesting and free. I thought this should be a good place to spend my weekend time.

Before joining Touma, I basically had no experience of public expression. The only two experiences I had in the past, one was as a host when I was doing direct sales in 2011, and I received some encouragement. It may have been from that time that the seeds of interest in this kind of public expression were planted. At that time, there was no one to guide me. , I wrote the hosting draft myself, and then memorized the hosting draft. It was considered my debut novel. Later, I left direct selling and never had such an experience again.

The next time I encountered a lecture was when I attended a speech event organized by a director before attending Tou Ma. I was just a mere audience member. After attending Tou Ma, I found out that the director was also a Tou Ma circle member and the format of the event was the same as Tou Ma’s. , it should have been held for many times, but I only participated once. If you want to find a guide on the road of giving lectures, this director is the first one. I can’t remember the name, so I will use “him” instead. Perhaps it was because of this experience that I paid attention to the activities of the first horse.

? So in general, the superficial reason for participating in Touma is boredom and just looking for an activity to kill time. But digging deeper, the root cause is that I want to improve. I have been an introvert and have low self-esteem since I was a child. Now I often see various types of depression. Looking back, I am very lucky to not have depression. He is such a person who has been a passerby since he was a child. He always holds expectations for himself and has an upward force in his heart. In order to break through himself, he chose the sales job that he may be least good at. Imagine that if you don't do sales, you may always be the person who doesn't like to talk and is taciturn. And after picking up the winning horse and giving lectures, I gave myself another chance to make a breakthrough. Looking back, from graduation to joining Tou Ma, my time was wasted, and I had no sense of identity or belonging to the entire society. And after joining Touma, my life had many more pursuits, life had meaning, and life began to come alive. It was from that time that I felt that I truly began to become a part of Chengdu. The significance of Touma to me is to open up the world. gave me a second life.

When I first came into contact with the top horse, I never thought that I would join the top horse and stay there until now, becoming a 4-year-old "old horse". The first person I contacted was Bai Yuan, the vice chairman of public relations for the first promotion. I added his WeChat account and attended the event on time. I received a warm reception when I arrived at the event. At that time, the event was held in Feixin. The chairman was lawyer Zhang Fangqiu, the vice president of membership Nancy, and the vice president of education Zhang Li (female). I couldn't have joined Touma without their enthusiasm, and I felt the charm of speech and debate. Finally, I joined Touma naturally. I participated in club activities regularly throughout the week. After each event, we had dinner together and played "Please close your eyes after dark". That was A very happy time.

Until now, the partners I met at the first push all occupy an important position in my memory. I am afraid that I will not be able to remember them in the future, so I will record their names again: Su Xiaoxiao , Carol, Niu Niu, Boss Yang, Wu Wen, Steven, Wang Guoqian, Guo Hongchun, afa, Baiyuan, Zhong Zhong, Xuelan, Yang Hui, Liu Weilin (Linzi), Zhou Mingjiang, Li Zexin, Ai Lu, Zhong Qiuping brother , Zhang Li (male), A Dan, Wu Yumei, BOB Xu, Du Xing, Zifeng, momo and friends whose names I can’t remember. Many of these partners have not been in contact or seen each other for a long time, and I don’t know whether they are doing well or not, but the familiar feeling still remains in my heart. In the past four years, they have become a rich asset in my heart. Thank you for meeting me. See you again in the world. Let’s make another appointment with the general situation. “Please close your eyes when it gets dark” and let’s have another master debate.

?All of the above are why I came to Tou Ma, and the special fate that Tou Ma has given me.