This time, my deer relationship was exposed, and the small bowl was a little sour. I went to Weibo, Lu Han, and found my fans crying blind on a large scale.
I remember that Joker Xue announced the news of remarriage with his ex-wife when everyone was still alive. Fans were moved, blessed, fed dog food and so on, and the scene was once very harmonious. They are also male idols. Why is the difference so big?
First of all, why are many fans in Lu Han so mad? On the one hand, Lu Han's fans regard him as a "husband": spending a lot of money day and night to buy albums, ordering countless movies for him, hoarding boxes of snacks for him, snapping up magazines with his cover ... Will someone's "husband" fall in love with another woman? On the other hand, Xiao Wan thinks that a small detail of Lu Han has not been done well.
Today, let's start with the word "Gathering" and see how Lu Han announced his love affair at the first time, so as to make fans who love him feel better.
accumulate
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If you accumulate something, such as money or information, you will gradually get a lot.
Accumulate, gather
Why did Lu Han's fans who exposed their love break down and burst into tears, while Joker Xue, who is also a male idol, remarried his ex-wife, and most of them were blessed?
This is of course related to their different personnel settings. Another reason may be: Joker Xue only sent a photo of him and his ex-wife, while Lu Han fans suffered two "sweet bullets" in succession, and Amas lost the pain. The first crit was made by Lu Han.
The second crit is a screenshot of the interaction between Lu Han and Guan Xiaotong's circle of friends. This, this, this ... the dead don't pay for their lives! "shy?" "Well ..."
It just publishes a text description. As soon as the photos of their circle of friends were exposed, the style of painting was sweet out of the sky, which made fans completely collapse. Surprise, denial, sadness, pain ... I experienced two crits in just one day, and all kinds of negative emotions continued to accumulate, which fans couldn't control.
In fact, this involves a happy rule. When telling others a very serious bad news, it is best to tell it step by step according to the listener's tolerance. Otherwise, strong negative emotions will continue to accumulate in a short time, which is likely to cause collapse.
Ye Fan knows this truth. Fan Bingbing and Jerry Lee were photographed on Valentine's Day, and then the same mobile phone case was exposed, and then it was made public. Fans' understanding of their relationship has gradually accumulated, and it is much easier to accept it. It's hard to say that this was not carefully planned by Ye Fan!
Therefore, if Lu Han and Guan Xiaotong had more interaction in the early stage, people would gradually have a good impression on the pair of CP, and their good impression would be gathered constantly, so it might not be so difficult to accept them. That's why some fans say Reba would rather be Lu Han's girlfriend. After all, they were in the same box for so long in Running Man.
Everyone should pay attention to the fact that very serious bad news needs to be done step by step, and less serious bad news needs to be done at once. In the eyes of Lu Han's "wives", the announcement of love is definitely a bolt from the blue, and the first principle should be followed. And if you have two less serious bad news (such as breaking the lipstick of a female ticket and breaking her beloved cup), you have to finish it at once, and one critical blow is enough. If you are angry and accumulate for a long time, you will suffer.
After the bad news, by the way, how to announce the good news. If there are two pieces of good news, should they be said at once, or one today and one tomorrow? The answer is actually the second one. Because not only anger and sadness will accumulate, but also happiness will accumulate.
For example, if you get a raise, you are going to invite a female ticket to a big meal and give her a bag. In the eyes of straight men, eating a big meal and sending a bag can be solved at once. However, don't forget that happiness can be accumulated through time. Every time she gets a good news, she is very happy. Today, she had a delicious meal happily, and her happiness didn't disappear. The next day, she found that she had received another bag and could be happy again.
Summary: There are two kinds of bad news, the serious bad news should be told step by step to prevent the collapse caused by pain and rapid accumulation, and the less serious bad news should be told at one time; Good news should be opened, so that the public will be happier.
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Gather/? m？ S/v. accumulation