The morning glory left the wooden frame and became a pool of pieces. Parthenocissus tricuspidata is in a mess without the wall.

Going home on holiday, listening to my mother talk about the divorce of my neighbor's eldest sister. The reason for the divorce is that the elder sister has no job and income, the family condition is not good, and her husband is cheating. Poor mother. A woman with a boy doesn't know how difficult it will be in the future. In view of this, my mother took us to comfort my elder sister.

When I met my elder sister, she was holding down her future life with a wry smile. My eldest sister took my hand and told me that women should rely on themselves all their lives and never rely on men. Why not just take care of the family and take care of the children at home? However, in the end, she disliked that you didn't have a job, weren't beautiful enough and had no money, so she asked him how difficult it was to ask for money.

I am responsible for making money to support my family, and you are responsible for beauty. This is a lie. As college students, sometimes it is difficult for us to ask our parents for living expenses, and it feels very difficult, not to mention that he is not related to himself. In this case, if you devote yourself to this sentence all your life, the possibility of realization is very small.

Miyazaki Hayao said, "Don't rely on someone easily, it will become your habit. When parting comes, what you lose is not someone, but your spiritual pillar. Whenever and wherever, learn to walk independently, and he will make you walk more calmly. "

I once told myself that I would not be lonely, at least I still had a shadow, but later I found out that I was wrong, because even the shadow would leave me when I had no light in the dark. So I firmly believe that the most reliable person is yourself, and the best thing for yourself is yourself.

Ladies and gentlemen, don't believe the sentence "I am responsible for making money to support my family, and you are responsible for being beautiful". Love is not full of romance in life, but really exists in daily necessities, quarrels and fights. The dream is beautiful, it's just a castle in the air, the reality is bitter, it's real life.

Girl, I suggest that you have a job that can support yourself, not because of the pressure of life, nor because of your hard work every day, but because you had money after quarreling with him, and you are rich and confident after he left.

Girl, you should have a decent job. Only in this way can you fall in love with a good boy in the future, and you can marry him with dignity, and his parents will respect you and treat you as a pearl.

Girl, thank you for your hard work. Only in this way can you eat whatever you want and wear whatever you want. You don't have to grovel to him for it, and you don't have to grovel to his parents for fear of making them angry. You are confident enough because you have a job and you can support yourself.

You don't have to give up trying to improve for your family. You should take care of yourself, don't let your family stop you from watching your progress, don't be divorced from society, don't just bury yourself in your own family, you can't do anything except buy food and cook, take care of your children and do housework. You should have your own hobbies and career, and don't give up your career for anyone.

Because when you give up everything, you also give up this family and him. Men who haven't left like yellow-faced women who only know how to stay at home. He should keep his charming face and not turn himself into a wrinkled yellow-faced woman. You are not good to yourself and expect others to be good to you instead.

What a man wants is a woman who makes progress with him, not a woman who only knows how to buy food in the vegetable market. Sooner or later, he will abandon you, let alone expect him to agree with you.

I am responsible for making money to support my family, and you are responsible for being beautiful. This is the biggest scam for men to women. You're on your own.